I Couldn’t Ask For More

I NEVER considered myself lucky before, but after you came into my life I became the luckiest person in the whole universe. You have loved me so much over the years… there is nothing more I could ask of a person… You listen to my long stupid talks for hours on end… you accept my silly tantrums and never take them personally… you patiently spend hours with me without ever getting bored or tired of me… you’ve never shouted at me, even when I’ve done you wrong… and you have pampered me far too much! With you I forget I am a woman … you make me feel like a spoil little girl who is always demanding or asking for something… and you are always ready to fulfill all my needs and desires… you never demand anything of me and you never seem to anger me… You treat me as gently as a child, always showering me with extra attention and care… Aahh… you have loved me so much – all I want is to hide in your arms and kiss you endlessly… and yet, all the time in your arms never seems so lessen my desire to be with you… I want to spend my every moment beside you… listening to you… adoring every aspect of you and loving you for the amazing person that you are… One lifetime seems too short for a love like this… I want to born again and again to love you and to be loved by you… By giving me you – God has granted all my wishes… I could not ask for more…..!

THE UPS AND DOWNS OF LOVE

LOVE…It is the simplest and most natural thing in the world… and yet it is also the most complicated… It’s the only emotion on earth that can make you happy and sad all at the same time. When it’s good – you’re always in a dream world with the one you love. You adore everything he does and have complete faith in his abilities. You respect him, never take him for granted and you never let doubts come in between you… But when it’s bad – it’s really bad! When love goes wrong you feel like there’s no hope left in your relationship yet you still hope and pray for the impossible to happen. You’re caught in that awful feeling where your mind says “let go” but heart says “hold on”. And when you sleep, he is there in your dreams and you wake up with tears in your eyes because you realize the dream is over… and worst of all… no matter how much you try, you can never forget that one special person whom you loved and you just don’t know the reason why. But true love defies all reason… Love happens in a glance… in a single moment and without giving any warnings it takes away your heart and gives it to somebody else… True love never ends, even if the relationship does… because true love is infinite…

A LITTLE BIT OF SPACE IS A GOOD THING

If you feel he doesn’t appreciate your presence like he used to – try giving him a taste of your absence. … Not for too long, after all a relationship requires two people together to make it work – but sometimes it’s essential to your partner space. Sometimes you need to be reminded of how much you love each other by realizing what it feels like to miss each other. After a few years, relationships can sometimes become dull and monotonous… it’s easy to take someone for granted when they’re around you 24/7. Sometimes the best way to bring back the spark is to invoke the feeling of longing… that feeling of missing the one that we love. Sometimes people forget how important they are to each other because they are never without one another and a break can help them remember… But when spending time apart it’s important not to leave it too long… after all, you need to make sure they won’t get used to it! The aim is for you to miss each other… to want to call or text one another because you just can’t bear to be apart anymore. So never give so much absence that he starts forgetting you… because too long of an absence leads to distance in the relationship that may never be repaired… Or worse… the distance between you may create a place for someone else to come between you……

SHE VALUES LOVE NOT MONEY

A woman with a true heart never wants a man for his money… She never seeks out lavish parties or big expensive cars. She doesn’t care about overseas holidays or the brand of the clothes that she wears… The only thing that can win an honest woman’s heart is a man’s true love. What she admires in a man has nothing to do with monetary value – it’s the values he upholds like his honesty, loyalty and his respect toward her, always valuing her as his number one. An honest, genuine woman looks for a man who can change her mood from anger to laughter… who knows her like he knows himself…who respects her and never questions her. She looks for the man who will always put her needs first, no matter what. A woman with a true heart can be made happy with just a rose and a cup of coffee… you don’t need to bring her expensive gifts to please her… a simple kiss on her forehead with a look in her eyes that expresses your feelings is enough…

I WANT LOVE TO FIND ME

Enough! I’m done with crying and waiting… done with chasing and dreaming. I just want to stop… stop looking for love and running after it. For once, I want someone to look for me… to find me and fill my life with love. All I want is to be with a man who loves me unconditionally… who understands my feelings and my thoughts… Someone who will never compare me with anyone else but sees me as if I’m the only woman in the world. I want a man who can change my mood with a single look… someone who gives me all his attention and time… A man who pampers me and makes me his number one priority… a man whose life revolves around me and only me. And if you think I sound selfish, I promise you it’s not selfishness… No. It is simply me being protective and possessive… because I want to be with someone who is only mine and whose heart beats only for me as mine does for him… I want to be with a man who is made only for me…

WAITING FOR MR RIGHT

Don’t get me wrong – I am completely comfortable being single but there are some things I do miss about being in a relationship… I miss having someone around who can make me smile… someone who makes me feel wanted and appreciated… Someone who can’t start their day without calling or texting me and ends every evening with a goodnight phone call every night we spend apart… I’m comfortable being who I am, and one day I want to find someone who sees my flaws and embraces them… someone who accepts me with my imperfections… someone who loves me in my madness and finds fun in the silly things I do. I’m looking forward to finding the person who enjoys being with me… someone who I don’t have to pretend with, the one special person I can just be myself with… But until I find him, I’ll wait patiently… I’m not in a rush, I know perfection takes time and I like to think GOD is taking extra time to find me someone special… Because I’m looking for someone who balances me… matches me… and most importantly – someone who’s up for all my craziness! I’m looking forward to meeting you, whoever you are… you’re the one whose hands fits perfectly into mine and who will never leave me for someone else… You’ll be my best friend, my soulmate and my guide through life too… You’re going to be the one who makes me the best version of me…

YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND ME AT ALL

You’ve always said you understand me better that I understand myself… but why then can’t you ever understand my mood swings? If you know me so well, why do you push me away when my only desire is to be held in your arms… or why are you annoyed with me when I just want to cry?? … You never understand my soul’s loneliness… All it wants is to be with you, and as much as you think you understand me you never seem to realize that is the reason why I suddenly become irritated and snap at you sometimes… But I am slowly coming to understand that I can’t ask you to love me, it must come from within you… So until then I have either to wait or accept that you will never change and will always remain the way that you are… And though you may never learn to love me the way I want you to… I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU… I CAN’T EVER IMAGINE MYSELF BEING WITHOUT YOU… NO MATTER WHAT!!

I want a man who

I want a man who can Love me madly and deeply from the depths of his soul. A man who only has eyes for me and never lies or cheats on me; who will make me his first and last priority. Someone who wakes me with his kiss and takes me to bed with his Love. A man who sees my imperfections perfectly and adores them. I want someone who will understand me through my madness and comes to me first after a fight. A man who will guide me and support me for who I am and me be the only one he wants and needs in his life. Someone who will stay loyal and faithful to me.The one who will pamper me and understands me in those days too … and If I ever find a man like that, I will Love him to the core and do anything I can to make him the happiest man in the world.

SILENT DOUBTS

Nothing kills a relationship faster than silent doubts… so talk about the things that disturb you rather than bottling them up. The more you keep these things locked up, the bigger the emotional gap between you becomes. Relationships are about trust, transparency and honesty. So to avoid disagreements and misunderstandings you need to communicate as much as you can – and that includes your fears and doubts. Talking to each other opens you up emotionally to one another… you will only get to know each other and therefore lessen your doubts. True love is a rare gift, so never give up on it – especially because of baseless doubts… Talk to your partner, get to know them well… and think before you act…!

You Will Never Change

Here we go again… you’ve hurt me once more, just you’ve done so many times before. I thought you’d changed I really did, but no… I was wrong. You never really changed, you were only ever pretending because there was still something you wanted from me and the moment you had what you wanted, you went right back to square one. It was as if you instantly transformed back into that same mean, selfish person you used to be; the one who cares for no-one and nothing but himself. But I see now, you never really changed – you were always a self-centered and cunning man… I was just naive enough to believe you. But I see it now… how well you use me for your interests… how beautifully you make fool of me. And here’s me, knowingly allowing you to hurt me… desperately hoping you will change one day. I let my love take over my heart and my mind, and it was all in vain. You will never change because you never wanted to… You think you can get everything you want by toying with me… but have you ever thought about what you’ll do with it all when there is no one left to share your life with? No hand will be there to hold when you need one… Your selfish motives and your tendency to use people will leave you alone and out in the cold. I’ve realized that leaving you cannot hurt me as much as staying with you… and I’m sad to say I have learnt this lesson the hard way. I’ve realized that you are not made for me… You never deserved my love and attention… I wasted it on the wrong person… But not anymore – It’s over for us my dear. You can leave my life right now….!!

DON’T JEOPARDIZE MY TRUST

SOMETIMES you can be taken for granted simply because the other person knows that every time they do something wrong they will be forgiven… But how long can a person be taken for granted? Everyone’s patience runs out eventually. I believe I have a lot of patience – but at the same time, I’m nobody’s fool. I believe the more chances you give a person, the more respect you ultimately lose. The more leeway you give them, the more comfortable they will become with ignoring the standards you have set for them… because they always believe there’ll be another chance… They’ll start to depend on your forgiveness and keep repeating the same mistakes because saying sorry is easier than real change. They know there’s always a next time… but NO… not always… not with me. I can’t always guarantee you a next time because once you lose my trust – it’s forever. So if you can’t make the effort to change and keep repeating the same mistakes, I won’t give it another thought… I will simply walk away. I’m not saying you have to be constantly afraid to lose me… just that you only get a certain amount of chances with me before you ultimately lose my trust and I walk away from you for good…Neena Gupta.

YOU DESERVE BETTER

No matter how much you love him or want him in your life; if he isn’t happy with all that you give him… if he isn’t content with the love you shower upon him… if what you give to him is always less that what he gives you… if he is playing with your feelings and is taking you for granted – then it’s time to rethink your relationship. It’s time to move on to someone who will respect your love and it’s time to stop shedding tears for the lover who doesn’t value you. Leaving will cause you pain… but staying somewhere you are not appreciated is not what you deserve… Don’t feel sorry for yourself or for what the relationship could have been – if he really wanted it in the first place he would have mended his ways… Love is something that needs to be appreciated and reciprocated. It’s not always one person giving and the other person taking… You deserve better. You deserve someone who will value your love and your feelings… It’s never too late to rethink your life and start again. Stop shedding tears over him and feeling sorry for yourself… broken hearts need a little time to heal but that’s okay… One day you will get over this pain and move forward to a new and better life and find a new love you truly deserve… Before you know it you will find the right one who makes you the happiest person on earth with his love and care… JUST BELIEVE….

THE IMPORTANCE OF FRIENDSHIP

Friends are the family we get to choose for ourselves… They are different from us but also very much alike…. Our friends are the ones with whom we can talk, laugh and cry all at the same time without being judged… Real friends are the ones who you share your secrets with… who you talk to about anything without the slightest thought… With them – there’s no need flaunt yourself… you can be the real you with them. Friends are always there whenever you need a hand to hold or someone to wipe your tears away… They never disclose your secrets nor do they ever remind you of the things you want to forget. In fact, they are the ones who help you move on with life with their endless love and support… They are the ones you can always count on… They make you laugh when you feel sad and never leave you alone. There will be fights and arguments from time to time, but real friends don’t ever take them to heart. True friends realize that every fight or argument is a start of new understanding… Real friends are like shadows who never abandon us… they guide us, support us and never leave us to fend for ourselves when we need them the most. They are the ones who know us better than we know ourselves… Real friends are a treasure we should never let go of…

My Soul Craves For You.

Whilst I was looking at you today, I wondered what makes me love you so much… You are always there with me, but I still miss you… My heart yearns for you all the time… it’s almost painful. Sometimes it makes me angry or irritated… but still… I never want to be away from you. And that was when I found the answer to my question in your eyes when I looked into them. I find myself there, when you look into my eyes… The feeling goes through my heart and travels into yours… You understand me so well… I never have to ask for anything because you feel what I need. Everything about you makes me so passionate that I forget everything else… My heart forgets all its desires except for you… My soul craves for you… Whenever you talk to me, every other sound ceases to register… the only voice that comes to me is yours and it keeps echoing in my mind for hours. Whenever you are with me I want time to freeze there so that we should never be apart… Being separate from you hurts me so much… I never want to leave you, nor do I want you to ever go away… I want to hold you forever in my arms and hide you in my heart’s treasure box forever and ever…

She Is Your Treasure.

A good woman is a treasure in a man’s life. Whether a girlfriend or a wife, God created woman from a man’s rib to help him and assist him. She knows you need her support, her prayers, her love and most importantly her womb. She works for you, takes care of your every need from good food to a clean home and spares time for you when you need it. But that doesn’t mean she has nothing else to do… it simply means you are the most important thing to her. She knows every single detail about you and is always there to provide everything you ever need laying aside her own needs. She never asks for anything, but gives her 100% to you and the relationship. But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t need anything in return – it simply means she knows you will provide for her needs as she trusts you and understands you. She believes you will understand her needs and desires and fulfill them… BUT… if she is not getting back what she deserves from you then she knows you don’t deserve her. A true woman loves fiercely if she loves you… without any if’s or but’s….and simply adores you. Nothing is more important to her… her world revolves around you. Her days start and end in your arms because you are the only one and no one can ever take your place in her life. But remember that if you don’t give her enough time and attention… if you don’t understand her feelings, her thoughts and her unsaid words… then you don’t deserve her. She is stronger than you… perhaps not physically but emotionally and that’s her biggest strength. You need her more than she needs you in her life, but if you ignore her or don’t give her an important place in your life then you don’t deserve her. SO… if you have that woman in your life right now… a woman who values you and loves you more than her anything else in life….VALUE HER. KEEP HER CLOSE TO YOUR HEART AND TREASURE HER LOVE… SHE IS A GIFT FOR YOU… LOVE HER, RESPECT HER AND ADORE HER…

DON’T TAKE LOVE FOR GRANTED”

We so often take our loved ones for granted thinking they will never leave us. We never seem to realize that every person has a patience level and when that level is reached – nothing can be done to stop that person from moving on. So… before taking someone you love for granted, take a moment to stop and think about it… How long can a person continue to feel ignored or used? One day they’ll stop waiting for you to change… And the moment that their last tear has dropped is the moment they will stop caring about you forever. You will no longer be their priority. They’ll no longer care about what’s right or best for you because you will have worn their love away to nothing. So stop what you’re doing now before its too late. Realize their importance in your life and give them the love and consideration they deserve now – before they shed that last tear and give up on you forever… Give them all your attention and love… show them how much the mean to you… or one day soon it will be too late and you won’t be able to stop them leaving… No amount of apologizing will work… the love will be gone and you won’t be able to save the relationship. You work so hard to towards everything else in your life – and the person you love deserves the same effort. None of those things will matter if you end up alone… Love is the most important thing – so don’t take it for granted…

Keeping Love Alive

How much you love a person… how much you care for them and how much you want to be with them, all depends on how much importance you give to them. The more you love someone, the higher they should be a priority to you and the more time you should take out of your busy schedule for them. Love needs time and attention. If you don’t give Love enough of your time and care, it will wither away before you even know it… Love is something that exists between two people and it needs both of them to put in the same effort to keep that love alive… and the more you love someone – the more effort you should put into keeping them…!!

Everlasting Love

Loving you was never something I had planned… it just happened. The moment I saw you something magical happened … and the moment you first spoke to me it was as if my insides cracked open and some hidden part of me broke free… It whispered your name as if it had been waiting to hear your voice since before time began… That look in your eyes when they met mine… it took my breath away… and the first time you held me my heart stopped beating and I felt like I couldn’t breathe… And even after so many years, my heart still yearns for your touch… my senses still long for your deep voice and when you call my name… time freezes… everything comes to a standstill. To this day – when you hold me in your arms it is as if the whole universe bows before me… You are my serenity amidst this chaos… my repose… Your love sedates all the turbulence of my life… I have loved you since before the ages… I still love you…. and I always will…..

I Want To Know Everything About You.

I know you get annoyed with my endless silly questions – but I ask them because I want to know everything about you! All of you… inside and out. I want to know all your secrets, even the deepest ones that you are afraid to think even about… I want to open up all the hidden closets that your secrets have been hiding in for years… the ones you hid long ago in the hopes you would one day forget about them… I don’t want anyone else to tell me things about you that I am not already aware of… I want to love you so much so that you forget about any pain you have ever gone through. I want to fill your life with happiness and love… I want you to think about me and know that I love you all the time… You are my passion, my obsession… and just as I love you and trust you fully – I want the same from you… I want to be the one you feel passionate about… the one you always want near you… the one you want to talk to the moment you think of something. I want to be the person you want to see the moment you open your eyes… I want to be the one you think of when you think about love. I want you and me… together… just for each other… with no space for anyone in between… forever and ever…

WHEN SEPARATION BECOMES UNBEARABLE

One of the most difficult things to do in a relationship is to stay away from the person you are deeply and madly in love with because this the one person in the world you want to share everything with… All you want to do is tell them about everything that’s happening around you… but you can’t. They’re the one person you want to sleep with… to cuddle up to and hold to feel safe – but the distance between you doesn’t allow it. All you want is to look into their eyes and talk with them so that you don’t have to say things to be understood. You want them to feel what you feel through your body language and the look in your eyes… When you wake up in the morning, theirs is the face you want to see and the lips you want to kiss… You want to wake up in their arms after being wrapped up together all night… But when there’s physical distance in a relationship – everything has to happen within dreams… Your souls must connect only through their thoughts and longings for their other half… And it hurts so much when our bodies want to unite as one and cannot… Long distance love teaches us patience and trust in one another but eventually there comes a time when that patience wears out and all you want to do is break all the barriers between you to be one with that one person once more… To join once again with the one who has captured your soul, your mind and your heart. Your mind wants to connect, your soul wants to be whole again and your body wants to be completely taken over… Love is intense and sometimes it becomes so painful when two hearts become separated it is almost unbearable… Sometimes love from a distance is not enough … because unless you become one, there’s no real intimacy to keep the flame burning… It’s only when you feel your love beside you…snuggling up to you and holding you in their arms that you feel that soulful connection…

HE IS JUST A STRANGER.

If you are still getting upset or angry whenever he calls or messages you – then he is still in your heart. If his contacting you still invokes a strong emotional reaction then he still has a place of importance in your mind… No one can cause us this much trauma unless we give them that power to start with… They don’t have the ability to control our emotions – so if he’s affecting you this much it’s because you’re letting him. The moment you start ignoring him, his calls and messages with become trivial to you and useless to him. Don’t try hating him. Hate is still a feeling that captures your mind… and even though you may have stopped loving him, if you keep hating him, he’s still inside your mind. If you want to forget him – stop thinking about him. Don’t allow yourself to be upset by his calls and messages or anything else he does… Remind yourself he is no longer a person of importance in your life. He is just a stranger to you now… just like anyone else……

A girl seeks a man who..

A girl seeks a man who can calm her mind. A man who can soothe her psyche and hush the deafening roar of chaos inside cluttered mind… And when she finds him… she loves him so relentlessly that she can battle anything – ever her own sanity and reasoning…!!

CHANGING YOUR LIFE

Be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want. Do what you love doing and what makes you happy… don’t look to others to tell you what to do or not… You don’t have to see the world their way. Just once, open your eyes and look at the world for yourself…in your own way… Don’t wait for any special moment. Every moment is special. Don’t keep things crammed up inside you because you were told by others it’s not okay to express them – open yourself up to the idea of being yourself! Feel what it is that you want and then decide… Live in the present moment – it’s the only moment you have. So don’t let others make decisions for you, if you don’t like something – say it! And whatever you do, stop looking back and crying over the past – it’s long gone and future ahead is yet to be seen… The only moment you have is today. If something is bothering you – change it – don’t carry it forward just to please others… You have to please yourself first, so just be honest with yourself… know what you want from life, what you really want to do ….and do it! Do whatever satisfies your soul… If you think you’re not perfect, don’t worry, no one is, so don’t try to be. Just be satisfied with what you have and you will begin to feel perfect in every sense…

A SELF CONFIDENT WOMAN

A WOMAN WHO TRULY KNOWS HER WORTH will never give a man the satisfaction of breaking her or drowning her in a pool of tears and sadness. .. She is not one to let pain break her… You cannot keep a good woman down, no matter how difficult her situation is, no matter how many heartbreaks she has to endure in life… she will rise above everything that tries to weigh her down, over and over again.She doesn’t need a man for her survival. She is the master of her own destiny but that doesn’t mean she is immune to pain, just that she faces it head on. She will not spend all her energy grieving over her bad luck, but rather allows herself the time to heal and recover and then moves forward with her life. She knows better than to keep dwelling on the past – once she left it behind her, she moves on to better things. A woman like that seeks out someone who knows her worth and values her… She is NOT the kind of woman to keep shedding tears for someone who was never worthy of them. She doesn’t look for happiness in the people around her, she finds it in the world she created for herself… and within herself…!!

SHE WILL NEVER GIVE UPON HIM

A truly loving woman never wants to give up on the man she’s always loved… especially when they’ve spent so many years together… She can forgive him again and again – not because she doesn’t get hurt by his actions – but because her love is greater than the pain caused by his silly mistakes… A woman has a soft and tender heart… she may get angry for a while… but when she sees the apologetic look in his eyes or hears the heartbreak in his voice all her anger begins to melt away… and the moment he hugs her is the moment it finally leaves her mind. She can ignore his bad habits and listen to him for hours even when she doesn’t get a single word in… But that doesn’t make her weak… it merely shows the strength of her love for him because it forces any negativity from her mind. It’s precisely those feelings for him that never let her give up and leave the relationship – she stays and fights for what she loves… Because ultimately she values him more than anything else and a loving woman never gives up on the man she loves…

Jealousy

Jealousy, over protectiveness and possessiveness are toxins that will poison a relationship. Every person needs their own space… You can’t cage a person just because of your own insecurities and if you truly love someone you need to allow them to be who they are. If you can’t let that person do things on their own without your watchful eye, you are taking away not only their freedom but their ability to think and do things on their own!! Loving someone doesn’t mean you own them – it means you care for them. There’s a difference between being protective and being controlling… so by all means, keep them safe… but don’t keep them confined…

Where has all the love gone?

I’d never thought that life could be so cruel… That something could hit me so hard that it would shatter all my dreams within seconds and put me on a path to where I am now; alone, lonely and aimless. I feel I have no one beside me. You’ve withdrawn from me and taken everything… all the support I had… I gave you all my love, all my time and all my admiration. You took it all gladly and you loved me back… for a time… But then what happened? Where has all this distance between us come from? What has made you suddenly forget about me and the love we had together? When I try to think back on our time together, all I see is love, comfort and peace. All I recall is happiness and lots of laughter together. There were no signs of grudges or fights we never made up from… We were never the couple to constantly be in tears or arguments… So where has all this need for space suddenly come from? In all the time we were together, you were never like this… We always had so much love, understanding and faith in one another. We were always that “MADE FOR EACH OTHER” couple… so why the sudden separation? I never expected it from you… I would never have dreamt of it in my worst nightmares… You have broken my trust and my heart as well…I don’t think I can ever trust anyone in my life – EVER AGAIN! And now this road you’ve put me on is mine to walk all alone… So as of now – I don’t want anyone else in my life! I don’t want to give anyone else the chance to break my heart or play with my feelings like you did…

The biggest challenge of love

The biggest challenge of love is to keep the fires of passion burning and never let the desire for one another burnout… But if you can master that, you can master the true art of happiness because love keeps you young and happy… It makes you fearless and motivated to achieve things you only ever dreamed of before… Love is an energy source that uplifts the spirits not only of yourself – but that of the person you love. It boosts self-esteem and confidence because you know you always have that one special person who believes in you no matter what. Love is treasuring the person you’re with and the bond the two of you share together… It is a perfect blend of two imperfect souls that merged together like oxygen in air… Love means being the real you, without any changes… with all your flaws and imperfections… and being loved just as you are…

FALSE EGO WILL TAKE YOU NOWHERE.

FALSE EGO WILL TAKE YOU NOWHERE.



Ego and attitude make a person so rude and arrogant that they forget they are a flawed human being just like everyone else. Egotistical people tend to forget that every person they treat badly is deeply hurt by their behavior… It never occurs to them that THEY are a source of pain for so many people. When a person is controlled by their own ego, it takes over their mind and their heart… It controls their feelings to a point where they can no longer see or understand anyone else but themselves. To an egotistical person – THEY are always right…. THEIR words should always be the last ones… THEIRS is the only option worth listening to… A person like that becomes incapable of seeing things from another’s point of view and cannot empathize with the pain of others. Blinded by their own arrogance, they will keep repeating the same mistakes over and over, forgetting the rule of KARMA… which says “today it is me – but tomorrow it can be you”. So before hurting others… stop and think about it. Are you really on the right? False ego and self-righteous attitudes never take you anywhere… All they will do is take away the love others have for you and eventually leave you completely alone because the only people left will be the ones who need something from you; the hypocrites, the users, and the liars. The only people you will have left are people who neither love you nor respect you – but hate you inside…

TREASURED MEMORIES

TREASURED MEMORIES

My memories have played an important part in my life as they are the treasures I keep safely inside my heart. They’ve made me laugh and they’ve made me cry… Sometimes, when I’m alone they are my only companion. I could spend hours with you looking back on our life together… Some memories bring tears as I miss old times and people I used to know, other memories make me happy, and some memories I look back on just to appreciate the life lessons they taught me. I know it’s important to live in the moment, but remembering the past is important too… Often l will reminisce the good times we’ve had over the years and it rekindles that love again… The memories of our relationship lighten my heart and every new moment we share will stay with me for a lifetime. That is why I never forget any moment of my life and keep my recollections safe within the treasure box of my heart… so I can recall them again at a moment’s notice relive those old times again anytime I wish. It is those happy memories that soothe me whenever I’m upset or angry. I simply remember back to a time when there was nothing but love and happiness between us and realize that’s the way I want us to be again… And all I have to do is remember how much I love you…

LOVE THAT LITTLE GIRL INSIDE HER

LOVE THAT LITTLE GIRL INSIDE HER

Every woman has a little girl inside who stays young forever – she never fully grows up. A woman may age in years, but she’ll never grow out of wanting someone who holds her hand and makes her feel special with a warm hug and a gentle kiss… Despite her independent spirit, she still wants a man whose lap she can lay her head on after a long tiring day and have a peaceful sleep… Someone who can make her forget all the worries and stresses of adult life. Sometimes she’ll break loose and behave in a crazy, fun loving way… Sometimes she’ll want to be treated like a princess and have someone pamper her because it makes her feel like her efforts are appreciated and it makes her feel important. A woman… if loved, pampered and appreciated for right things, becomes more beautiful and lovable and she retains her youthful spirit. If you invest the time to make her feel important and never let her feel alone… she will make you the happiest man in the world with her love and care… Consider it an investment because whatever you give her, you will get back multiplied in ways you never thought of… If you care for the little girl inside her – a woman will never disappoint you……

THE WAY TO A WOMAN’S HEART

THE WAY TO A WOMAN’S HEART

A woman has the softest and the kindest heart… When she loves – she loves hard and never compromises her devotion for anything. But some men seem to have difficulty reaching the core of her heart… but to them, I would say that it is easy to win a woman’s love; to make her heart and soul your own… You just have to love her truly and never take her for granted. The key to a woman’s heart is to love her deeply and honestly and to give her your time and your attention. A true woman never wants gifts or money…she can be completely satisfied when you hold her in your arms and kiss her passionately… True love never asks for valuable gifts or big houses or big bank balances… A true woman can be happy with you anywhere if loved, cared for and respected… So respect her feelings and virtues… Never take her for granted…be honest and stay faithful to her… and SHE will be yours forever…!!

Neena Gupta

NEVER LET THEM GO..

NEVER LET THEM GO..Every person has a darker side, a side which they are too afraid to share with anyone – not even themselves. We all have memories we try to forget and things we keep hidden inside… We never like to let anyone inside those hidden corners of our heart – but once in a lifetime, we meet someone who loves us so much that they allow us to shed all our inhibitions and fears… At some point in our lives, one person will come along and open all the doors to that dark room which we kept hidden for so long. They will make us so comfortable with who we are that we will completely forget our fear of opening up those dark areas which we were always so afraid to let anybody see. Slowly we will let this person see us, and when the light of their love touches the dark parts within us, it illuminates us… It is as if they have brought a rainbow of color and light into our lives to brighten those ugly dark corners that were left untouched for years… This person, whose love will lighten the darkest corners of your soul, will gather all those broken and scattered parts of your heart and heal and sooth them with their love and care… A PERSON LIKE THAT only comes once in a lifetime… God gives every one of us a chance to rebuild our life… to be happy again, and to forget the darkest moments in our life… This person was sent to us by Gods true love so that we can be transformed into what he intended us to be… We are born again with new dreams and a life full of love and tenderness… If you’re lucky enough to have already found that one special person who has lit up every dark room in your soul – hold them tight and keep their light inside the treasure box of your heart… Love them with all of your heart, and together you can create for yourselves a beautiful life…

A MOTHERS DREAM

A MOTHERS DREAM

A child is a mother’s pride… For God gave the woman the power to create life and when she carries a child for nine months and that new life finally opens its eyes she feels a sense of pride unlike any other. It is a pride within herself and a pride of her femininity. In her newborn child, she sees herself and all her dreams… she nurtures it with her life. And when that child opens its mouth to speak, its first words are her title as creator… MOM. In that moment she is the happiest person on earth and when she holds her little girl’s hand with her tiny fingers entwined, she feels as if she is holding the entire universe… At her daughters’ first steps, a mother learns to walk and talk with her and watches her proudly… And the day she first ventures out of her mother’s lap to learn new things, to see the world with her own eyes – she becomes a student of the world and makes her mother proud. Her mother will always be there to teach her and to hold her, but eventually, little girls grow big and go out into the world to do something for themselves… And a mother feels proud of her every achievement, her values, and her ethics… all that she carries within herself as she ventures to new places. The little girl who was a part of her body, her heart which is inseparable from her mothers, moves on to do something big… something new. It doesn’t matter if it’s big or small or how much it matters to the world – to a mother, her child’s every accomplishment IS her world! The moment her daughter turns her dreams into reality – a mother’s own dreams become real because she is the creator… She has given her love and care never asking for anything in return because it was all for this moment…A woman’s greatest accomplishment is her child… and she celebrates her child’s accomplishment as her own…

WHAT’S MISSING FROM OUR RELATIONSHIP IS YOU

WHAT’S MISSING FROM OUR RELATIONSHIP IS YOU

My patience has run out. I can’t wait around for your time and attention anymore… I can’t allow myself to stoop to a level where I have to beg you for your love and care – because if you really loved me in the first place you’d give me my share of your time, attention, and love… But no, I have to purposely draw you’re your attention every time for you to even notice I’m here… I have to ask for your time and love because you never freely give it… but not anymore. When we first met you was different. You had time for me, you loved me so much more than you do now… But as time went on, you started showing your true colors and proved you really never cared for anyone but yourself. You have always been the one I have given all my love and attention to… I gave you all of me, and all I wanted was to be loved back… Feelings from the heart always need to be reciprocated… and if you won’t love in return – how can I keep loving you?? If you can’t respect my feelings for you… if you can’t give me your time… my heart will tire and my feelings for you will wither away. Love is not a one man’s game… it takes two people to keep a relationship alive… But you never take me seriously… You’ve never once thought to give back even a portion of the love you receive from me. And now I don’t want to cry for you any longer. I don’t want to wait for your calls or beg you for your time… it’s your turn now. If you really love me – you make the first move! You come to me!! If I am important to you and you want us to be together forever – you’ll make an effort and mend your ways. All I’m asking for is your time and attention to nurture this relationship… and if I don’t get it I have no choice but to leave because, either way, it amounts to the same thing… either way, I feel alone…! 

LOVE ME AS I LOVE YOU”

LOVE ME AS I LOVE YOU”

I feel that you will never understand my love or my affection towards you. In fact, I don’t think you can ever feel for me the same way I feel for you… you don’t have a heart like mine. You’ve always been a more ‘practical’ person than I am… you see things very differently to me – even love. I’m the kind of person who feels and thinks with my heart and follows where it leads… I never use logic when it comes to love or emotions… and you never seem to use your heart. But in spite of our differences, my heart still wants you, still loves you and still hopes for the same type of love from you in return, knowing you will never change. It feels almost like a cruel joke… but as they say – love knows no boundaries and no rules. So now that I’ve come to understand you, I am freeing myself from all the expectations my heart has for you…I am trying to accept every part of you – even the things that may not make me as happy as I’d like – in the hopes that they won’t hurt me so much anymore. I tried so hard to change you but I failed and now I’ve decided not to try anymore. I love you from the depths of my heart… and will keep loving you till my last breath… And yes, I’ve cried for you more times than I could count – but not anymore. I no longer wish to change you… I have learned that the only person who can make you love like I do – it’s you. So I will wait for you to come to me and express your feelings using your heart… and if you do not… then over time my heart will learn to live without you…and I will not think twice about moving on…!! 

NOTHING MAKES YOU WEAKER

NOTHING MAKES YOU WEAKER

Love surely makes you weak… You think of your love all the time… You do things for them and try to spend as much time with them as you can and give them everything you have to give… You’d give up everything just to be with them, even your own strength… Love makes you sensitive – so much so, that even the slightest pain brings tears to your eyes and the smallest of arguments will break your heart… Love is a distraction… you are always in your own little dream world without noticing what’s going on around you… And though love is a necessity for life – it kills you every moment that your love is not with you… Love makes you so weak that you can’t even do things on your own any more… it takes away your power to think and make decisions… It makes you so completely dependent that at times you feel crippled and unable to even ask for help… Nothing makes you stronger than love… but at the same time…. Nothing makes you weaker…!! 

NOTHING MAKES YOU WEAKER

NOTHING MAKES YOU WEAKER

Love surely makes you weak… You think of your love all the time… You do things for them and try to spend as much time with them as you can and give them everything you have to give… You’d give up everything just to be with them, even your own strength… Love makes you sensitive – so much so, that even the slightest pain brings tears to your eyes and the smallest of arguments will break your heart… Love is a distraction… you are always in your own little dream world without noticing what’s going on around you… And though love is a necessity for life – it kills you every moment that your love is not with you… Love makes you so weak that you can’t even do things on your own any more… it takes away your power to think and make decisions… It makes you so completely dependent that at times you feel crippled and unable to even ask for help… Nothing makes you stronger than love… but at the same time…. Nothing makes you weaker…!! 

LOVE RECHARGES HER

LOVE RECHARGES HER

No matter how tired or exhausted a woman is, she will always want to spend time with the man she truly loves because when he holds her in his arms she feels at home and can finally find peace. The moment she lays her head on his chest and hears his heartbeat, it soothes her weary mind, her aching body and her weakened soul…. It is only in his arms that she finds herself safe and relaxed… It is only here – wrapped in love and affection – that she will feel renewed. True love is not an effort at the end of a long and tiring day – it is the salvation! 

A WORD OF ADVICE

A WORD OF ADVICE

Let me tell you something… If someone forgives you for your every mistake – even when you make the same ones over and over again; if they keep their mouth shut every time you lose your cool over something and never argue with you – even when you’re in the wrong… If your relationship is the only thing that matters to them and they think of you more than everything else…. Then they’re the one for you. Never let them go. People like that are like diamonds – they are rare and hard to find. A person like that is a once in a lifetime find and you’ll never forgive yourself if you lose them. So do anything and everything to keep them – even if it means changing yourself into a better person just to keep them because chances are you need them in your life and the worst way to find that out is after it’s too late and they’ve gone. So make today the day you decide to make a change… Make today the day to learn to appreciate and love this amazing person the way they deserve to be loved. Hold onto them, love them with all of your heart and always keep them close…

A WOMAN WHO TRULY LOVES YOU

A WOMAN WHO TRULY LOVES YOU

~ Never leaves you alone… 
~ Is always there to hold your hand through every storm that come your way… 
~ Never tries to hurt you with your past, cherishes her present with you and always looks forward to a beautiful future with you… 
~ Showers all her love and affection on you, pampers you and fusses over you…. 
~ Never lets you down and always tries to avoid a fight because she’ll never want to jeopardize the relationship
~ Forgives all your mistakes and always make you her highest priority… 
~ Listens to you carefully even when she’s tired simply because she wants to know every single thing about you…. 
~ Understands you and never argues… 
~ Makes you her world and does everything in her power to keep you happy…

WE WERE DESTINED TO BE TOGETHER

WE WERE DESTINED TO BE TOGETHER

We’ve been together for so many years and yet I still feel the same way about you as I did when we first met…. You truly are the man of my dreams. The memory of your first touch still lingers in my mind… I remember so clearly, it was as if you were touching my very soul… The moments when I’m in your arms are the moments when everything feels right in the world. Your smile and your laughter make me feel alive and vibrant and I cannot help but feel we were destined to walk through life together…. With you – every day is a new day and even when we have our troubles you never let them overshadow another day…. Even if it means apologizing when I am the one in the wrong, you’ll do anything to ensure the dawning of a new day brings us happiness. My whole world centers around you…. Each morning starts looking into your eyes and every day ends in your arms. It is the one place in the world I find peace, almost as if it’s my own private heaven. You truly are my savior… You have transformed me into a happier woman and your love has dried my tears and healed the bruises that once marked my heart and soul. I still have goose bumps when you call me… still get that shiver down my spine when you hug me. I still crave you the way I always have… And it’s all because of you! Your love, your care and your tenderness… You truly are my one and only…!! 

NEVER LET YOUR LOVE FADE

NEVER LET YOUR LOVE FADE

It seems the more time that goes by, the more complicated our relationships become. When we first meet someone and want their love, we do anything and everything to win their affection. We give them all our time and attention… in fact, we do just about everything possible to show our affection so they know that we love them and love us in return. But often, once we have that person’s love, we unwittingly start taking them for granted….Our time – which was once all theirs – gets divided amongst other endeavors…. Their tantrums, quirks, and mood swings – which we once found endearing – begin to irritate us… Their needs, their wants and their desire to talk non-stop for hours about everything that crosses their mind which we used to indulge before – now becomes an annoyance…. Slowly, the love that we have for them begins to erode and the relationship begins to weaken. Before we realize it, that bond we worked so hard to achieve begins to loosen, and a day eventually comes when the two people who used to always be there for one another are nowhere to be seen. And it’s sad to think that two hearts that used to beat as one before have now become sad and lonely and have begun looking for new ways to find peace when all it would have taken was a little effort to keep that love alive. Never let the one you love feel alone or lonely. If you truly love each other – never take them for granted and never let that bond of love loosen… Because hearts eventually become weary from waiting and fights which are never resolved. And even if you win your love back – an unseen line of separation will always remain, like a scar of the hurts of the past. So don’t let that happen… Devote the same amount of time, energy and love into KEEPING your relationship as you did to build it… Never let the love between you fade away…!! 

YOU ARE MY BLESSING.

YOU ARE MY BLESSING.

Time flies by so fast… it feels as if it was only yesterday when I first saw you. It was the day all my prayers have been answered…. Even now, when I look into your eyes it’s as if time ceases… and when you hold me in your arms everything between us freezes and my soul ascends to a new realm as it has finally FOUND ITS WAY HOME…. You cast a spell on me and instant I am transformed into a new me with your touch… In you I have found a life-long companion who listens to me and guides me; who is always there to wipe my tears away…. A guardian and friend who never lets anyone or anything hurt me…. You love me so much that I forget all the pain I ever had before you… Your voice alone relieves me of my pain and your love is the healing power that frees me of all my heartaches. You love me so much that I want to drown in it more every day. I love you and need you more with every passing day… You are my soul’s other half, my dream, my eternal lover…. my EVERYTHING. My mornings have become brighter because you look into my eyes lovingly, and when you hug me I want time to stop forever in that moment… We’ve had our fights and arguments but you never let me take them to bed. You are always the first one to come to me to make things right between us. You have loved me so much that you’ve given new meaning to my life and you continue to love me completely… even after so many years. I still have those goosebumps when you call my name….I still get shivers in spine when you hold me… It’s as if we have only just met. Our love is eternal. It will never fade away nor will it ever perish. You have always been and always will be only one for me… We were paired by GOD’S own hands and will never leave each other’s side. Our bond is so strong that even death cannot break it… I want to live each and every moment with you. We are lovers since the dawn of time and will remain together for all eternity……

LIFE WAS NEVER SO BEAUTIFUL BEFORE

LIFE WAS NEVER SO BEAUTIFUL BEFORE

From the moment you came into it – my life has never been the same… Before you, I never dreamed of the moon and the stars… But since that night we sat under the moon and looked up at the stars together I fell in love with the night sky – just as I fell in love with you. You showed me the beauty in the simplest things… a beauty I had never noticed until I saw the world through your eyes. I had never been a believer in wild romantic love stories… but from the moment we met my life became a never ending love story… Throughout my life I’d had so many sleepless nights with nothing but tears in my eyes… but instead, you filled them with your dreams and fantasies… You’ve changed my life into exactly the kind of beautiful romanticism I had only ever read about… The kind where love gives you wings and you never grow tired of flying… where nothing can hurt you because your heart is filled with endless love… where all you do is smile because the happiness and love you receive take away all the pain and hurt from your past… Thank you for changing my life. …

I WANT A LIFE OF MY OWN.

LOVE IS A FINITE SOURCE..

RELATIONSHIP RULES

RELATIONSHIP RULES

– Respect one another
– Be genuine with each other
– Be honest and truthful 
– Always make time for the relationship
– Always look for the good in your partner
– Missing each other is healthy
– Be there when you are needed
– Never hurt your partner
– Never take fights to bed
– Don’t take your partner for granted
– Try to be understanding and empathetic
– Never ignore each other
– Dream together and work on them together.

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE

You hurt me again today … but this was the last time. THIS was the last straw… Today you’ve shown me once and for all that you can’t change. There’s no room left in my heart for apologies or hopes anymore… I was the only one trying to save this relationship – but you kept destroying it. You’ve never taken it seriously. Every time you’ve even done any thing wrong I’ve forgiven you because I loved you… I still love you… but all you do is hurt me again and again and I can’t keep ignoring everything you do just because I love you… A relationship has to be an equal effort… and every time you’ve ever said sorry I’ve accepted it… but this time I can’t… You have completely broken my heart and thrashed all my hopes to change you into a better person. I’m done. I’m not trying anymore. You’ve proved to me that you will never change… no matter how much I love you or how hard I try… You have always been and always will be the same old you who never takes love seriously; who thinks feelings are a waste of time; who has absolutely no respect for my feelings or this relationship. I can’t wait for you to change anymore… This is the moment I have come to the realization that YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE!! Today is the day I refuse to be a victim ever again. I will not give you any more chances to abuse me or hurt me. IT’S ALL OVER… dead and gone… today was just the final nail in the coffin! You’ve left me no choice but to give up on you and our relationship…. This is GOOD BYE..!!

I miss you

I miss you

I miss you in the early hours of the day. I miss you more when the moon hugs the night sky… I miss you every moment of my life… I wait for your calls and messages when you go to work and I wait for you to come back to me and hold me in your arms… Whenever you leave, you take my heart and soul with you. You leave me numb… And I know you have no time to miss me because you’re so busy – but I simply can’t help myself… I can’t stop my mind from thinking about you… Every time I close my eyes I see you and miss you more… All I want is for you to understand my love for you… for you to know how overwhelming my feelings for you are… Only then you could you possibly understand my anger and my sadness… It’s all because of you… my every feeling, my every desire – is for you… I want you and I need you…. WITH me, BESIDE me, ALL the time, EVERY moment.. I don’t want you to ever leave me… I feel like I’m suffocating whenever you go and when I can’t see you for long periods of time, my heart begins to fill with sadness and longing… And after a time, it changes into anger – and when you come back after long intervals I WANT you to sweep me up you’re your arms without a moments pause…but you don’t. My constant yearning to be with you makes me angry… but it’s not real anger… It’s my love for you that’s built up every day that goes by…. It is a though the distance between us makes me fall more in love with you each day… and without you, I feel so helpless….

LIVE BIG DREAM BIGGER

LIVE BIG DREAM BIGGER I want you to do things you never had the courage to do before…I want you to take that one step you always wanted to take but were too afraid to. There’s always going to be a first time for everything, and yes, it’s nerve-racking – but never let that stop you! If you don’t try, you’ll never win at anything… Life is all about taking risks… I want you to think the impossible, work towards your dreams and believe in yourself – no matter what others think of you…. I want you to gather every bit of courage you have and face every storm that comes your way whilst continuing to pursue your dreams…. I want you to never once fall asleep with tears in your eyes from a lifetime of broken dreams. I want you to rise every morning with new hopes for a new day. Always believe… LIFE CAN BE DIFFICULT, BUT ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE… Whatever you want – you can achieve it! If not today, then perhaps tomorrow because tomorrow belongs to only you… Just have patience and never lose hope….!!

RUNNING ON EMPTY

RUNNING ON EMPTY

All relationships need people who cater to each other’s needs be they physical, emotional or spiritual… but sometimes there’s an imbalance in what each person gets out of that relationship.Sometimes a woman takes care of everything in the relationship… She gives up all her own dreams and desires to fulfill the needs of others… She’ll be the one to stand beside everyone come Hell or high water and is always there whenever anyone needs her, and all the while never asking for anything in return because her family is her number one priority…. But eventually there comes a point when she gets tired doing everything for everyone and being strong all the time and something inside her begins to break. Eventually, the time comes when her spirit becomes utterly exhausted from constantly giving support to everyone else… Any woman who’s strong all the time will eventually need to be taken care of and loved… A woman who consistently cares for the needs of others will eventually want someone to ask her what SHE really wants and hold her when she’s feeling low. Everyone wants to be pampered every once in a while – especially those who do everything without ever taking a break for themselves. Even the strongest of us need emotional support and someone to love and support them through difficult times. Every woman needs someone who understands her silence more than their words….Because often it is the person who GIVES the most to others that is often the one that is running on empty and desperately needs to RECEIVE a little love and care in return…

ACCEPTING THE GOOD AND THE BAD

ACCEPTING THE GOOD AND THE BAD

It is often said that every person you meet in life is sent to you to teach you something… Everything in our lives is already pre-written….. Every person that comes into our lives is predestined to give us something and takes something from us in return… Sometimes the only thing they have to give us is negative and the only thing that they take from us is our happiness… and sadly we can’t refuse this exchange as it is already fated to be this way…. Every relationship is about give and take – even the bad ones. We will always give something of ourselves and take something from the other person in return… Because at the heart of every relationship is an exchange; of thoughts, values, happiness, pain and tears… We cannot change or alter our fates… whatever has to happen will happen, in its own time and in its own way. It is not for us to challenge God’s will……

IT’S TIME TO SLOW DOWN

IT’S TIME TO SLOW DOWN

I’m done! Done with chasing everyone and everything; Done with running to get everywhere in life… and all so as to acquire everything life has to offer… But all this time I’ve been chasing everything – I never once stopped to ask my own heart what it wants. What is it that makes ME happy and content? What is it that I REALLY want?? It seems like everyone around me has everything they ever desired and everything they could ever want from me. Everyone ELSE is satisfied… but I’m not. When I look back on my life, I don’t see anything that can give me lasting happiness… except perhaps the smiles of others that are because of the happiness I provided them. But where is my happiness? When I look at my past all I see is chaos, there’s no memories I can cherish. All that time I was thinking about everyone else – their needs, their wants, their happiness…. and I’d always run so fast so as to fulfill their demands. But I never listened to my heart, my mind or the needs of my body. I worked harder than I was capable of – but now I want to relax. I need a break from the fast life… I need to listen to my heart and do the things that make ME happy…. I want to stop and listen to the murmuring of my heart that is asking to be loved… For once, I want to be pampered! I want to drift into a relaxing sleep and sail away into my own dreamland… My own little world… I want to take some time for myself so I can look at my life and have some memories to cherish. I want to relive my childhood and once again live a life where I can envision my dreams and live a carefree life…. I want that life now! …. I’m done with all this hustle and bustle….

SHE’S NOT ANGRY BUT MISSING YOU

SHE’S NOT ANGRY BUT MISSING YOU



If she’s angry with you and starts shouting for no apparent reason, the best thing you can do is stop and listen to every word she says…. Don’t question her reasoning, don’t stop her mid-sentence or counter argue and most of all – DON’T ask why is she suddenly so upset ! Just wait until she finishes – then go to her, hug her and kiss her lips…. I promise she will melt in no moment ! Because if she flies off the handle like that for no good reason then chances are, she wasn’t sad or upset – she just missed you and felt frustrated by your absence. She WANTS you to understand how upset missing you makes her feel… but she doesn’t want to TELL you… she just wants you to FEEL it… Because deep down, every woman’s heart is as fragile as a child’s … Every woman wants to be loved and taken care of by her man. And like a parent will always care for a child – so should a man take care of a woman, no matter how much the two of them age… Every woman will become upset and angry when not given proper love and attention for long periods of time. When she can’t take that distance and emotional separation anymore she gets sad and irritated and loses her temper over trivial things – often for as long as that disconnection continues. But the moment you connect with her… the moment she feels you understood her pain and knows that you love her – all that anger dissipates because it was really all her hurt and frustration disguised as anger and it needed to be released. So go to her… tell her you love her… and hug all that negativity away!…….

YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

Never let anyone or anything take over your mind and your heart. Never let anything affect your mood or your feelings… YOU are your own master! Do whatever it is you want to do – but never expect others to do things your way… You may love someone or you may hate them – but never do anything you don’t want to because of them… The thought and the desire is either there or it’s not – never let anyone else convince you that what THEY want is what you want. Only YOU know that! You should never allow anyone to have that kind of power over you .God has given you your own mind and individuality and that is enough power to make or break your own life… So no matter how powerless you may feel – never let your breakups or failures affect your dreams and never allow people who know nothing about your life decide your fate for you… Wake up and do things on your own! Never give up when failure strikes you… there’s always a new day, a new morning and new opportunities ahead. Don’t close your eyes to the light coming your way or you’ll miss out on the opportunities that are coming towards you. There’s always another door waiting for you to open… So get up, open it and step through – Your destiny awaits you…

My wish for you

My wish for you

My wish for you is that you fall for a person who will love you deeply, who will always be there when you need them and will never let you feel alone or unwanted. I want you to have someone in your life who never lets you fall asleep with tears in your eyes… a person who helps you both in the kitchen and in life – who never lets you do it all on your own…. I want you to find someone who holds your hand and proudly walks with you in public for the world to see… someone who wants the world to see you and admire you…. I want you to have someone who will always cheer you up… whose love will always exhilarate you and who’s loving gestures never fail to pick you up when you’re feeling down… I want you to find someone who will always stand beside you in everything and never takes you for granted… Someone who can see you at your worst and still loves you just as you are….. And last but not the least… I wish for you to fall for a person who takes care of your heart as if it were their own… Someone who feels proud to have you in their life and gives you the love and respect you truly deserve…

My wish for you

My wish for you

My wish for you is that you fall for a person who will love you deeply, who will always be there when you need them and will never let you feel alone or unwanted. I want you to have someone in your life who never lets you fall asleep with tears in your eyes… a person who helps you both in the kitchen and in life – who never lets you do it all on your own…. I want you to find someone who holds your hand and proudly walks with you in public for the world to see… someone who wants the world to see you and admire you…. I want you to have someone who will always cheer you up… whose love will always exhilarate you and who’s loving gestures never fail to pick you up when you’re feeling down… I want you to find someone who will always stand beside you in everything and never takes you for granted… Someone who can see you at your worst and still loves you just as you are….. And last but not the least… I wish for you to fall for a person who takes care of your heart as if it were their own… Someone who feels proud to have you in their life and gives you the love and respect you truly deserve…

DON’T LEAD HER ON

DON’T LEAD HER ON



If you are in a relationship with her, then don’t try to hide her from people around you. If you’re doing that, then obviously you’re holding on to a secret. You should feel proud to have her in your life and should want to take her everywhere with you for the whole world to see. If you genuinely want her in your life and Love her from the depths of your Heart, then you should be accepting her – not caging her. You can’t hide her away and behave like a free bird yourself. You should feel proud that she is in your life and show her your true character. Don’t play with her feelings or make her feel bad about herself… Be a “real” man with morals and values. Relationships aren’t just for fun, or to prove yourself to someone else…. Don’t flirt with her if you have no real feelings and no intention of staying with her. Don’t make her fall for you when you are not that interested in holding onto her. Cheating on someone who Loves you is cruel. When a heart breaks, there is no sound, but that cut bleeds and causes unbearable pain that feels like it will never heal… So don’t play with someone’s heart just for personal gain… But if you do, get ready to face the same agonizing pain….. Because what goes around will eventually come back around to you….. and she just may be the person you miss most when you find yourself all alone one day….

PERFECTION IS JUST A MIRAGE

PERFECTION IS JUST A MIRAGE



Every dark cloud has a silver lining. No one is born perfect. PERFECTION IS JUST A MIRAGE. We are not immune to difficulties in our life, but difficult times lead to better days. A miracle will proceed it. Never lose heart if something doesn’t go as you planned. Never give up. It may be just a test of your capability and patience. Whenever you stumble, there’s always someone there to hold your hand. Whenever you think of giving up, there’s always that little voice inside your head telling you not to give up, to keep on going, and giving you the strength to persevere. There is always something good hidden in every bad. Bad times are there to teach us lessons. To perfect ourselves, to live in this not so perfect world. LIFE is not a competition to win and to prove something, its a lesson to learn. You are not answerable to anyone except yourself. Just make sure whatever you, you don’t have to hide it. Do things that make you perfectly happy and satisfy your soul..WHEN YOU ARE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF, YOU ARE PERFECT……

YOUR LOVE GIVES HER STRENGTH

YOUR LOVE GIVES HER STRENGTH



Inside every strong woman, there’s always a little girl that wants to be loved and taken care of… An inner child that wants to be pampered by the man she loves deeply… After constant fighting and all the mess in her life, all this little girl wants is his arms around her to assure her that she is loved. All she needs is a kiss on her forehead and she is ready for another battle… Because she not only fights with the world for her loved ones – she also fights a hidden battle within herself to stay strong for them… She is not weak but she is emotionally sensitive and deeply loving and that can take its toll on her fragile little heart. So hold her, kiss her gently and tell her that you love her… and she will be ready to fight another day for you…

I WANT THE OLD YOU BACK

I WANT THE OLD YOU BACK

I hate when you ignore me for your work…. and I hate that you don’t understand my feelings anymore. You’ve changed so much… It’s as if all the feelings of love have left you and you’ve become nothing more than an emotionless machine that can only perform and interpret actions. There have been so many times when I don’t want to speak – but I want to be understood… I want you to read my eyes and listen to my heart. I want you to understand every word I DON’T say…. But it never happens. Not anymore. I MISS THAT OLD YOU… The man who was the master of reading me… The man I never had to utter a word to – but he knew what I was feeling. I want that love back in my life… I want the old YOU back… The one who took care of my every need…. my every desire…. The one who wanted to be with me all the time, every moment of the day… I don’t like this new you, who comes to me only when YOU need something….I don’t like this GIVE AND TAKE relationship where I do all the giving and you do all the taking… I want that spark of love to ignite again… I want us to be like we were. I promise you I will do every possible thing to bring that spark back in our life…. I won’t give up on my love for you and the relationship we built…..I will do every possible thing to get that old YOU back…

SHE IS STRONGER THAN YOU THINK

SHE IS STRONGER THAN YOU THINK

Never mistake a woman’s gentleness for weakness…. She is stronger than you. She carries life in her body for months and still stands tall; She will work for hours but never get tired…. She may be weaker than you physically – but not emotionally. She has the strength to move mountains when she’s determined. She has a power that can breathe life back into the dead… She feels her emotions with all of her being… She cries when she’s sad and laughs when she’s happy. She’s not afraid to live every moment of her life to its fullest… She is a woman of today who plays her every role to perfection; She can be a mother, a sister, a friend, a beloved and so much more. She has a softness to her – but she is not weak… She talks to every person lovingly because she has a plethora of love in her heart and she can return your love to you multiplied if you love her truly… But if cheated on – she will not think twice about moving on. For a woman like her, self-respect is what makes her strong and determined and she will not compromise it. So if she loves him deeply she may cry and long for her man but she will never fall for the same trick twice…. She knows her own worth. She knows she deserves better…. And she’s not afraid to look for it!

WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT

WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT



Many things are both written and expressed about Love, but a lot of people do not understand what true LOVE IS. First and foremost should be compatibility, trust, and honesty which goes hand in hand. It is the trust you place in someone whether they are near to you or at a distance. It is an understanding that despite the arguments and fights you have, you still choose to Love one another. Love is that compatibility which helps two people work together without raising any questions or doubts and never forces one another to do things they don’t want to do. Love is accepting each other for who they are; with all their flaws and imperfections. Love is about two imperfect people that become perfect for each other when they unite. Love makes you beautiful and raw as you were born to be.LOVE IS ABOUT GIVING YOUR ALL TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE… LOVE MAKES YOU STRONGER AND MORE BEAUTIFUL…LOVE MAKES YOU POWERFUL ENOUGH TO CONQUER THE WORLD FOR ANYTHING THAT YOUR LOVE DESIRES…

BUT I WAS WRONG.

BUT I WAS WRONG.I thought I had finally found someone who complimented me. Someone who shared the same feelings of excitement and the thrill of being in Love. Someone that I could share my happiness with. Someone with whom I could share my deepest secrets. Someone who would be there to hug me and hold me through the good times and the bad. I really thought you would be there for me whenever I needed you, but I was wrong. The only time you come to me is when I ask you to. You never come on your own. It’s like you don’t sense how I feel or you simply don’t care. You are so cold and distant. It’s like you no longer have any feelings for me, or you have just become complacent and comfortable with the way things are. Maybe this is just your way. But you don’t understand my joy or my sadness. The excitement I feel whenever we meet, or the sadness I feel when we part. I never feel anything like that in you. It’s as if you are no longer interested in me. I want to enjoy the excitement with you, the thrill of being with you, the chills I get whenever you are near me, and the butterflies I feel dancing around when you are with me. But I know I can’t change you. I have tried my best to draw out those feelings from you for me, but it’s all been in vain. There is nothing more that I can do. I either have to accept the way you are and continue showing my feelings or forget them too…