SHE’S NOT ANGRY BUT MISSING YOU
If she’s angry with you and starts shouting for no apparent reason, the best thing you can do is stop and listen to every word she says…. Don’t question her reasoning, don’t stop her mid-sentence or counter argue and most of all – DON’T ask why is she suddenly so upset ! Just wait until she finishes – then go to her, hug her and kiss her lips…. I promise she will melt in no moment ! Because if she flies off the handle like that for no good reason then chances are, she wasn’t sad or upset – she just missed you and felt frustrated by your absence. She WANTS you to understand how upset missing you makes her feel… but she doesn’t want to TELL you… she just wants you to FEEL it… Because deep down, every woman’s heart is as fragile as a child’s … Every woman wants to be loved and taken care of by her man. And like a parent will always care for a child – so should a man take care of a woman, no matter how much the two of them age… Every woman will become upset and angry when not given proper love and attention for long periods of time. When she can’t take that distance and emotional separation anymore she gets sad and irritated and loses her temper over trivial things – often for as long as that disconnection continues. But the moment you connect with her… the moment she feels you understood her pain and knows that you love her – all that anger dissipates because it was really all her hurt and frustration disguised as anger and it needed to be released. So go to her… tell her you love her… and hug all that negativity away!…….
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