Saturday, June 24, 2017

MISTAKES ARE SIMPLY LESSONS IN DISGUISE

It’s important to remember that whatever we are thinking and feeling may not always be correct. We are, after all, human and we do misinterpret things or make mistakes sometimes. Often when we are angry or at a low point emotionally we don’t see things the way they really are. But it’s okay… because our mistakes help to make us a better person. No one is ever perfect and nor can they ever be… Everyone is flawed and our mistakes and misconceptions help us learn things and adapt a better outlook on life… Every time we realize a truth, we are unraveling another one of life’s mysteries. We should never allow ourselves to be knocked down by the hardness of life but should instead learn to face it, fight it and move on gracefully.

I STILL MISS YOU

You’ve been gone so long, but I still miss you. I miss your touch; I miss all our arguments and making up after fights. I miss the nights I have spent in your arms… the mornings when you woke me up with a kiss… I miss everything about you. There’s not a single moment when my mind drifts away from its thoughts of you. Even though you are no longer with me, I keep thinking about you… about what you may be doing or who you might be with… You have invaded my soul so deeply that I can’t get you out… Without you, my life is as dark as the night sky without any stars or moon. You were my sunshine… and your love was music to my heart.I will keep loving you even from a distance because I can’t love anyone anymore in my life.

YOUR ONE AND ONLY

I am a very ordinary girl… I know I’m nothing spectacular and I don’t ask much from you… All I want is your undivided time and attention. I don’t want luxuries or valuable gifts or a big bank balance from you – I want you to love me the way I am. I want my feelings to be reciprocated… I want you to be humble and caring. I don’t want you to lie to me or cheat on me – I want your honesty and truthfulness. I want to be an integral part of your life that you can’t live without… I want to be the part of your life that you feel the most proud of… I want to be the friend whom you feel most comfortable with and can share all your secrets with. I want to be your companion that you share your dreams with… I want to be the woman in your life who you always run home to after work. I want to love you and be loved truly and honestly in return… I want to be the only woman in your life… your one and only love…

SOMETIMES WE HAVE TO LET GO

Many a time in life we find ourselves getting tired of the things going on around us. There are so often times when the people we trust most hurt us badly and the worst part is they are always the ones we thought would never hurt us. So many times in life we are hurt by the things we do, both knowingly and unknowingly… and sometimes we even have to let go of the person we love simply because we can’t see them in pain anymore. Sometimes life is learning to live without people and things we couldn’t imagine our life without. But that’s what love is all about… it’s in giving and not keeping things to yourself… Sometimes we have to let go of things we love.

YOU KNOW YOU'RE IN LOVE WHEN..

You know you’re in love with a person when you begin to see past their body, their clothes and their financial and social status. You know you’re in love when their happiness and welfare is more important to you than your own and their smile instantly makes you smile. You know you’re in love when your dreams, your hopes, your desires and your fantasies all revolve around a single person and they never seem to leave your mind for an instant. You know you’re in love when you’ve fallen so far in that you know you’re never climbing out… but that’s okay… because you’d never ever want to.

YOU ARE MY BLESSING

There’s a reason we met… it’s because we were destined to meet. We were paired by God himself in heaven… We have known each other from a time unknown to us. I have no regrets loving you and I love you without expecting anything in return. I don’t want any promises or commitments from you… my love for you is unconditional. I want to cherish every moment that I spend with you… The bond we share is unseen and unbroken and no matter how much distance lies between us, we are always together soulfully… Our love is so strong that no force can break it. I want to cherish this true and soulful love we have… I wouldn’t have it any other way… you are my blessing from God.

LET HER SEE THE REAL YOU

Don’t expect her to stick around if you continue to keep your distance from her. A relationship is all about trust and open honesty. If you keep secrets from her or don’t allow her to get close enough to really know you… or worse, if you don’t tell her the truth… she’ll never get to know the things about you that you want her to know. The only thing a woman can do in a situation like that is make assumptions… and making judgments on a person’s character when you don’t have the facts can go very wrong in a relationship. If you want her completely… if you want her to love you wholeheartedly… then you have to surrender yourself to her. You have to open up the doors that you have locked yourself behind and let her in so that she can see the real you. Don’t let her draw her own conclusions or she might just conclude you’re untrustworthy and leave…

We are never truly apart

Even when we are so far apart, I never feel that you are far away… I always feel your presence near me every moment. Your voice keeps echoing in my mind… your eyes keep following me everywhere and your fragrance is mixed in the air that I breathe. We are so deeply attached and soulfully connected that you understand my feelings from afar. With the sound of a single breath you know everything that is going on inside me… When you look into my eyes, you reach my soul and read it clearly… Even if I never say a word – you understand my silence. We are so deeply connected – both mentally and soulfully – that distance becomes null… We meet each other whenever we communicate as though our souls can leave our bodies in order to be together. We are, each of us, embedded within the other… and no distance can ever come between us.

When a man really loves a woman

When a man really loves a woman he makes her his priority and his world. His whole life revolves around her and nobody else… He never lets her feel unwanted or ignored but spares time from his busy schedule just to be with her. He pampers her and treats her almost like a child at times but in a way that makes her feel special. He finds in her his best buddy and tells her all his deepest, darkest secrets. He lets her in where he has never allowed anyone before. He never tries to fabricate things and never feels he needs to lie to her for any reason. He becomes completely transparent in his relationship with her. He will never give her any reason to be sad or angry, but does everything to keep her happy and content… A man who really loves you will accept you with all your imperfections, will treasure you just as you are and will never let you go. For him, there would be nothing more precious than staying by your side forever.

THIS PAIN WILL BE WORTH IT

Moving on from what was once a loving relationship leaves you broken and shattered with so many memories that make it make it difficult for you to breathe. It’s hard to let go of the person you have made your life… whom you have loved truly and deeply and whom you never thought would hurt you or leave you. But they’ve proved you wrong and left you broken and shattered. They’ve ripped your heart apart and left your soul wounded forever. They’ve left you in a darkness you feel unable to move out of. But realize that this is your chance to turn this nightmare into a blessing… You may choose to block your emotions and move on taking it as a challenge or you can stay where you are in the darkness. You can’t give up your whole life for someone who doesn’t care about your feelings and tears and one day you will realize it was all worth it to find the right person for you who respects your feelings and your love.

YOUR WAIT WILL SOON BE OVER

Someday someone will come along to hold your lonely hands…. to complete his line of destiny with yours, to start a new world with you, and to make you his queen….. it could come at any time… don’t feel sad if it hasn’t happened yet or if it feels like you’re waiting forever… maybe he is preparing for the world of your dreams…. and it will happen soon…

Thursday, June 15, 2017

WHENEVER WE’RE APART

Whenever we’re apart I can’t think of anything but you… I can’t stop my mind from drifting toward you. My heart longs for your touch… I want to hear you, see you, be wrapped in your arms and make love to you. I feel as if you are watching me… your eyes are calling me and no matter how much I try to divert my thoughts I can’t stop thinking about you. Your love flows through my body… it’s in my veins… it is in every part of my being. You are my eternal soulmate and lover… Words cannot express how much I love you…

ALL RELATIONSHIPS HAVE UPS AND DOWNS

No relationship is perfect… No one can have it smooth all the time – even when there’s passionate love. There are always going to be ups and downs, fights and arguments… but if you stick with each other through difficult times and never lose trust you will always make it through in the end. The perfect balance of sugar and spice makes a relationship worth loving and living in. Never take your fights to bed and never hold grudges… Even with the ups and downs of life, you can go miles together when you have trust and respect for each other…

WHAT EVERY WOMAN WANTS

Every woman wants a man who will love her to the core… someone who can respect her values, ethics and virtues… who will be honest with her and understand her feelings and emotions… A woman wants a man who can not only appreciate her house keeping skills but her intelligence and wit too. She wants someone who may not give her all the luxuries in the world but gives her his passion, respect and the support she deserves… someone who commits to her and makes promises he intends to keep… She wants a man who can stay loyal, honest and committed to her and can love her for what she is. What every woman wants is a man who never tries to mold her, but respects her for who and what she is…

I WILL BE YOUR SUNSHINE

I can’t promise you a smooth life… but yes, I can be with you every time you need someone to hold you. I promise to be your shelter on stormy days. I promise to stay by your side, even when the whole world is against you. I promise to be the light that will illuminate your path when darkness is all around… I promise to be the sun that will always brighten your life.

A REAL RELATIONSHIP MEANS NO LIES

Honesty and truthfulness are the foundations of a strong relationship. Never try to impress your partner with fabricated stories or white lies. To have a strong, true and lasting relationship you have to be utterly honest and sincere about who you are without hiding behind a mask. If you want someone to love for who you are, you have to show them who that person is first… A real relationship must be built on truth…

WAITING TO SEE YOU AGAIN

I miss you… I miss everything about you. Since the day you left me I’ve been waiting for you to come back to me. Every day without you is so difficult… I just can’t live without you. I miss your cuddles, your long talks and the sound of your laughter. Your voice keeps echoing in my mind as if you are calling my name and your face keeps flashing before my eyes. I miss the way you hug me and kiss me… I miss the way you try to make me smile when I’m sad. I miss everything about you. I just can’t think of anything else but you… I am waiting for the day when you will come back to me and I can once again hold you in my arms. I am waiting to see you again. 

SHE SHOULDN’T HAVE TO BEG FOR LOVE

Every woman needs a man who will love her truly, never hurt her and never make her feel unwanted or undesired. A woman doesn’t want to have to beg to get a man’s time or attention… she’s not looking for a short term relationship – she wants a lifelong relationship with the man she loves. A woman wants to be loved and taken care of and when she’s truly loved she can turn the world upside down for her man. But if she ever feels he’s neglecting her or is unresponsive to her feelings, she won’t beg for it but will slowly and quietly move on. She never asks for anything from her man as she believes that a man who truly loves her will give her everything she deserves. 

Tuesday, June 6, 2017

I WISH I HAD NEVER MET YOU

I never realized how much control you had over my life. It was after you left me when I finally understood just how much you owned my Heart and soul. My Love for you flows through my entire body. But you never thought twice when you left me. You never turned back to see how shattered I was from your betrayal that left me broken. Without you here, I can’t breathe. I can’t forget all the happy times we shared together. I can’t erase your memories from my mind. I am unable to bear this pain. I can’t make my Heart understand that you will never come back to me. I wish I could go back in time and erase all of our memories together. I wish I had never met you. The pain of your betrayal is not letting me live. I wish I had never fallen in Love with you.

I WILL LOVE YOU FROM A DISTANCE

I know we will never meet again, but the time we have spent together has been the most beautiful time of my life. When I met you, I knew we wouldn’t be together forever. But there was something in you that attracted me. There was a connection between us and a reason why we met; a reason for the beautiful time we shared together. Those precious moments I will treasure. I will keep them tucked deep within my Heart and cherish them forever. You may fall in Love with someone else or find someone perfect for you, but I will never forget you. I will Love you for the rest of my life…even from a distance. 

HE NEVER BELONGED TO YOU.

No matter how much you Love him or want him in your life, you can’t force someone to be with you or Love you in return. Even if you miss him immensely, you can’t beg him to spend time with you. Don’t keep calling or texting him if he is not responding to you. If he sincerely Loves you and wants you to be in his life, he will never make you beg for his time and attention. If he wants to be with you, he will take the time to spend with you. When a man doesn’t respond to your Love and wants to leave, let him go. Don’t try to stop him. If he deserves you and your Love, he will come back to you. If not, then understand he never belonged to you. 

WHY MEN HURT WOMEN?

I just don’t understand why men choose to take women for granted. Do they honestly think she will never leave them or maybe they just don’t care? Every woman needs love, care, attention and respect from a man. She just wants him to be dedicated to her the way she is. But if he lets his ego and attitude come between the relationship, and hurts her unnecessarily; it will upset her. When we love someone, we should never think of hurting them. But when someone keeps hurting you over and over and breaking your heart, why would you stay with them? A man should never show his power by humiliating and hurting a woman. A woman is stronger because her relationship is more important to her than his false ego and attitude. No matter how angry she gets, she never humiliates him or hurts him intentionally. When she can no longer handle his behavior, she will give him warning signs. If he doesn’t understand her, she will walk out of his life forever.

ONE DAY THEY WILL LOSE US TOO

Sometimes we get hurt by people we thought would never cause us any pain. But they do, they break our heart and the trust we had in them. They are the ones we Love deeply and genuinely. The ones we never thought, even in our wildest dreams, would cause us any pain. But they do, and many times intentionally to show the power they have over us; how much control they have in our life. But while they are hurting us they forget one thing, and that is too much pain is also a healer. One day, anything they do will no longer affect us because they have lost the control they had in our life. One day, they will lose us too…

SHE KNOWS WHERE TO DRAW THE LINE

A real woman is not the one who won’t cry or break down, but the one who will pick up her broken pieces, rebuild herself, and come up stronger than she was before. She’s the one who won’t be jealous of other people but will make her life so inspiring that others will feel jealous of her achievements. She loves hard when she loves. But when she hates someone there is no love lost. She stands firmly with her feet planted on the ground, and the blows of life will never shake her. She is there to wipe everyone’s tears and lend a shoulder to lean on to all her friends. She doesn’t waste her time on things that don’t matter. She dreams big and works on them too. She is independent, focused, and ambitious. She knows where to draw the line and be a woman. She knows what she wants out of life. She may not be perfect, but she has a good, kind, and pure Heart and loves those around her.