I Couldn’t Ask For More

I NEVER considered myself lucky before, but after you came into my life I became the luckiest person in the whole universe. You have loved me so much over the years… there is nothing more I could ask of a person… You listen to my long stupid talks for hours on end… you accept my silly tantrums and never take them personally… you patiently spend hours with me without ever getting bored or tired of me… you’ve never shouted at me, even when I’ve done you wrong… and you have pampered me far too much! With you I forget I am a woman … you make me feel like a spoil little girl who is always demanding or asking for something… and you are always ready to fulfill all my needs and desires… you never demand anything of me and you never seem to anger me… You treat me as gently as a child, always showering me with extra attention and care… Aahh… you have loved me so much – all I want is to hide in your arms and kiss you endlessly… and yet, all the time in your arms never seems so lessen my desire to be with you… I want to spend my every moment beside you… listening to you… adoring every aspect of you and loving you for the amazing person that you are… One lifetime seems too short for a love like this… I want to born again and again to love you and to be loved by you… By giving me you – God has granted all my wishes… I could not ask for more…..!

THE UPS AND DOWNS OF LOVE

LOVE…It is the simplest and most natural thing in the world… and yet it is also the most complicated… It’s the only emotion on earth that can make you happy and sad all at the same time. When it’s good – you’re always in a dream world with the one you love. You adore everything he does and have complete faith in his abilities. You respect him, never take him for granted and you never let doubts come in between you… But when it’s bad – it’s really bad! When love goes wrong you feel like there’s no hope left in your relationship yet you still hope and pray for the impossible to happen. You’re caught in that awful feeling where your mind says “let go” but heart says “hold on”. And when you sleep, he is there in your dreams and you wake up with tears in your eyes because you realize the dream is over… and worst of all… no matter how much you try, you can never forget that one special person whom you loved and you just don’t know the reason why. But true love defies all reason… Love happens in a glance… in a single moment and without giving any warnings it takes away your heart and gives it to somebody else… True love never ends, even if the relationship does… because true love is infinite…

A LITTLE BIT OF SPACE IS A GOOD THING

If you feel he doesn’t appreciate your presence like he used to – try giving him a taste of your absence. … Not for too long, after all a relationship requires two people together to make it work – but sometimes it’s essential to your partner space. Sometimes you need to be reminded of how much you love each other by realizing what it feels like to miss each other. After a few years, relationships can sometimes become dull and monotonous… it’s easy to take someone for granted when they’re around you 24/7. Sometimes the best way to bring back the spark is to invoke the feeling of longing… that feeling of missing the one that we love. Sometimes people forget how important they are to each other because they are never without one another and a break can help them remember… But when spending time apart it’s important not to leave it too long… after all, you need to make sure they won’t get used to it! The aim is for you to miss each other… to want to call or text one another because you just can’t bear to be apart anymore. So never give so much absence that he starts forgetting you… because too long of an absence leads to distance in the relationship that may never be repaired… Or worse… the distance between you may create a place for someone else to come between you……

SHE VALUES LOVE NOT MONEY

A woman with a true heart never wants a man for his money… She never seeks out lavish parties or big expensive cars. She doesn’t care about overseas holidays or the brand of the clothes that she wears… The only thing that can win an honest woman’s heart is a man’s true love. What she admires in a man has nothing to do with monetary value – it’s the values he upholds like his honesty, loyalty and his respect toward her, always valuing her as his number one. An honest, genuine woman looks for a man who can change her mood from anger to laughter… who knows her like he knows himself…who respects her and never questions her. She looks for the man who will always put her needs first, no matter what. A woman with a true heart can be made happy with just a rose and a cup of coffee… you don’t need to bring her expensive gifts to please her… a simple kiss on her forehead with a look in her eyes that expresses your feelings is enough…

I WANT LOVE TO FIND ME

Enough! I’m done with crying and waiting… done with chasing and dreaming. I just want to stop… stop looking for love and running after it. For once, I want someone to look for me… to find me and fill my life with love. All I want is to be with a man who loves me unconditionally… who understands my feelings and my thoughts… Someone who will never compare me with anyone else but sees me as if I’m the only woman in the world. I want a man who can change my mood with a single look… someone who gives me all his attention and time… A man who pampers me and makes me his number one priority… a man whose life revolves around me and only me. And if you think I sound selfish, I promise you it’s not selfishness… No. It is simply me being protective and possessive… because I want to be with someone who is only mine and whose heart beats only for me as mine does for him… I want to be with a man who is made only for me…

WAITING FOR MR RIGHT

Don’t get me wrong – I am completely comfortable being single but there are some things I do miss about being in a relationship… I miss having someone around who can make me smile… someone who makes me feel wanted and appreciated… Someone who can’t start their day without calling or texting me and ends every evening with a goodnight phone call every night we spend apart… I’m comfortable being who I am, and one day I want to find someone who sees my flaws and embraces them… someone who accepts me with my imperfections… someone who loves me in my madness and finds fun in the silly things I do. I’m looking forward to finding the person who enjoys being with me… someone who I don’t have to pretend with, the one special person I can just be myself with… But until I find him, I’ll wait patiently… I’m not in a rush, I know perfection takes time and I like to think GOD is taking extra time to find me someone special… Because I’m looking for someone who balances me… matches me… and most importantly – someone who’s up for all my craziness! I’m looking forward to meeting you, whoever you are… you’re the one whose hands fits perfectly into mine and who will never leave me for someone else… You’ll be my best friend, my soulmate and my guide through life too… You’re going to be the one who makes me the best version of me…

YOU DON’T UNDERSTAND ME AT ALL

You’ve always said you understand me better that I understand myself… but why then can’t you ever understand my mood swings? If you know me so well, why do you push me away when my only desire is to be held in your arms… or why are you annoyed with me when I just want to cry?? … You never understand my soul’s loneliness… All it wants is to be with you, and as much as you think you understand me you never seem to realize that is the reason why I suddenly become irritated and snap at you sometimes… But I am slowly coming to understand that I can’t ask you to love me, it must come from within you… So until then I have either to wait or accept that you will never change and will always remain the way that you are… And though you may never learn to love me the way I want you to… I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU… I CAN’T EVER IMAGINE MYSELF BEING WITHOUT YOU… NO MATTER WHAT!!

I want a man who

I want a man who can Love me madly and deeply from the depths of his soul. A man who only has eyes for me and never lies or cheats on me; who will make me his first and last priority. Someone who wakes me with his kiss and takes me to bed with his Love. A man who sees my imperfections perfectly and adores them. I want someone who will understand me through my madness and comes to me first after a fight. A man who will guide me and support me for who I am and me be the only one he wants and needs in his life. Someone who will stay loyal and faithful to me.The one who will pamper me and understands me in those days too … and If I ever find a man like that, I will Love him to the core and do anything I can to make him the happiest man in the world.

SILENT DOUBTS

Nothing kills a relationship faster than silent doubts… so talk about the things that disturb you rather than bottling them up. The more you keep these things locked up, the bigger the emotional gap between you becomes. Relationships are about trust, transparency and honesty. So to avoid disagreements and misunderstandings you need to communicate as much as you can – and that includes your fears and doubts. Talking to each other opens you up emotionally to one another… you will only get to know each other and therefore lessen your doubts. True love is a rare gift, so never give up on it – especially because of baseless doubts… Talk to your partner, get to know them well… and think before you act…!

You Will Never Change

Here we go again… you’ve hurt me once more, just you’ve done so many times before. I thought you’d changed I really did, but no… I was wrong. You never really changed, you were only ever pretending because there was still something you wanted from me and the moment you had what you wanted, you went right back to square one. It was as if you instantly transformed back into that same mean, selfish person you used to be; the one who cares for no-one and nothing but himself. But I see now, you never really changed – you were always a self-centered and cunning man… I was just naive enough to believe you. But I see it now… how well you use me for your interests… how beautifully you make fool of me. And here’s me, knowingly allowing you to hurt me… desperately hoping you will change one day. I let my love take over my heart and my mind, and it was all in vain. You will never change because you never wanted to… You think you can get everything you want by toying with me… but have you ever thought about what you’ll do with it all when there is no one left to share your life with? No hand will be there to hold when you need one… Your selfish motives and your tendency to use people will leave you alone and out in the cold. I’ve realized that leaving you cannot hurt me as much as staying with you… and I’m sad to say I have learnt this lesson the hard way. I’ve realized that you are not made for me… You never deserved my love and attention… I wasted it on the wrong person… But not anymore – It’s over for us my dear. You can leave my life right now….!!

DON’T JEOPARDIZE MY TRUST

SOMETIMES you can be taken for granted simply because the other person knows that every time they do something wrong they will be forgiven… But how long can a person be taken for granted? Everyone’s patience runs out eventually. I believe I have a lot of patience – but at the same time, I’m nobody’s fool. I believe the more chances you give a person, the more respect you ultimately lose. The more leeway you give them, the more comfortable they will become with ignoring the standards you have set for them… because they always believe there’ll be another chance… They’ll start to depend on your forgiveness and keep repeating the same mistakes because saying sorry is easier than real change. They know there’s always a next time… but NO… not always… not with me. I can’t always guarantee you a next time because once you lose my trust – it’s forever. So if you can’t make the effort to change and keep repeating the same mistakes, I won’t give it another thought… I will simply walk away. I’m not saying you have to be constantly afraid to lose me… just that you only get a certain amount of chances with me before you ultimately lose my trust and I walk away from you for good…Neena Gupta.

YOU DESERVE BETTER

No matter how much you love him or want him in your life; if he isn’t happy with all that you give him… if he isn’t content with the love you shower upon him… if what you give to him is always less that what he gives you… if he is playing with your feelings and is taking you for granted – then it’s time to rethink your relationship. It’s time to move on to someone who will respect your love and it’s time to stop shedding tears for the lover who doesn’t value you. Leaving will cause you pain… but staying somewhere you are not appreciated is not what you deserve… Don’t feel sorry for yourself or for what the relationship could have been – if he really wanted it in the first place he would have mended his ways… Love is something that needs to be appreciated and reciprocated. It’s not always one person giving and the other person taking… You deserve better. You deserve someone who will value your love and your feelings… It’s never too late to rethink your life and start again. Stop shedding tears over him and feeling sorry for yourself… broken hearts need a little time to heal but that’s okay… One day you will get over this pain and move forward to a new and better life and find a new love you truly deserve… Before you know it you will find the right one who makes you the happiest person on earth with his love and care… JUST BELIEVE….

THE IMPORTANCE OF FRIENDSHIP

Friends are the family we get to choose for ourselves… They are different from us but also very much alike…. Our friends are the ones with whom we can talk, laugh and cry all at the same time without being judged… Real friends are the ones who you share your secrets with… who you talk to about anything without the slightest thought… With them – there’s no need flaunt yourself… you can be the real you with them. Friends are always there whenever you need a hand to hold or someone to wipe your tears away… They never disclose your secrets nor do they ever remind you of the things you want to forget. In fact, they are the ones who help you move on with life with their endless love and support… They are the ones you can always count on… They make you laugh when you feel sad and never leave you alone. There will be fights and arguments from time to time, but real friends don’t ever take them to heart. True friends realize that every fight or argument is a start of new understanding… Real friends are like shadows who never abandon us… they guide us, support us and never leave us to fend for ourselves when we need them the most. They are the ones who know us better than we know ourselves… Real friends are a treasure we should never let go of…