YOU MAKE THE WHOLE WORLD BETTER

YOU MAKE THE WHOLE WORLD BETTER



Every day is a brighter day for me whenever you are with me… Nothing harmful ever dares to come near me when they see you holding me in your arms; not pain, not grief… not even bad luck! Everything around us becomes wonderful and beautiful… The days are pleasant and my heart sings songs of love. My eyes never grow tired of looking into yours… sometimes I even forget to blink… and sleep! I try to open my mouth to speak, but the words seem to lose their way and instead find their way to you as words of love. Everything leads to you… Your love makes me feel so beautiful that I fear even the moon gets jealous and hides behind the clouds… You are the master of my feelings. You rule over my heart and body… and as my soul merges with yours, you make me feel even more beautiful and radiant… I can be me when I’m with you as I know that no one will be judging me. I am safe to speak my mind openly and be free to do things which I would otherwise find silly… but with you, I became a little girl again. A girl who is loved for who she really is… who is pampered and taken care of and never judged for what she is not… With you, I can love myself truly… Your love makes me feel like the most beautiful girl you have ever laid eyes on… and I know without question that I am the luckiest woman in the world….! 

CHANGE YOUR WAYS BEFORE YOU END UP WITH NO ONE

CHANGE YOUR WAYS BEFORE YOU END UP WITH NO ONE

When you become rude and arrogant and behave badly towards the people around you, even the ones who love you most will start to leave you… Every person wants to be respected and admired by the people they love – especially your parents… They are the ones who brought you into this world and made you who you are today… Even though they love you more than anything in the world – if you keep shouting at them or fighting with them for unknown or unjust reasons, they will distance themselves from you and leave you alone. No matter how old we become, we will always have a need for our parent’s advice. We need our parents in our life, even once we’ve grown up into adults ourselves and they deserve to be respected and loved… If there are things about them you feel they need to change – talk to them about it like an adult – but don’t take their love for granted… You never know when they might just have had enough and decide to leave you to your own devices… Arrogance is just as destructive as anger in a relationship, and if you want to achieve great things in life you’ll need to learn to be polite and loveable to make your way to the top… As the old saying goes, it is the straightest trees that are cut first… But if you keep fighting with your family… if you’re known to be rude and arrogant… your reputation will precede you and no one will stand beside you or support you in life. In time, everyone will leave you and there’s nothing in this world that can take a parent’s place… No one can love you more than your own family… so learn to love and respect their concern for you before it’s too late…

I Want To Grow Old With You

I Want To Grow Old With You

Whenever I see old couples sitting and walking together, I imagine what it would be like for us to grow old together. Seeing happy older couples makes me realize that with each passing day, we too are growing old… I know tomorrow is never a promise and that nothing lasts forever… but still I dream of growing old with you one day. I imagine us taking care of each other, laughing and enjoying every moment together… I want us to one day have a happy retired life of our own where we can do anything we like… A house of our own where we can stay together without any interruptions or disturbance… I look forward to doing things that we always wanted to do together and spending time on the things that we always planned like watching sunrises and sunsets together and admiring their beauty… Our house will be where our grandchildren come for holidays and spent quality time with us… I want to witness every fine line that adorns your face over time… I want to know you inside out in a way that only a lifetime together can achieve…. I want to do everything with you that I can’t seem to find the courage to do now, as when we grow old no one will be there to judge us anymore… we will be perfectly perfect together.

NEVER TAKE YOUR FRUSTRATIONS OUT ON LOVED ONES

NEVER TAKE YOUR FRUSTRATIONS OUT ON LOVED ONES



The times when we shout at people around us for no reason is because somewhere inside we are sad or hurt and cannot find a way to express it… But we have no right to upset someone else. If we are sad its nothing to do with them so why are we punishing them? Whenever we find ourselves shouting at or fighting with our loved ones when they haven’t done anything wrong, we must stop and remind ourselves that they are with us because they love us… Their love is a blessing and we must learn not to take it for granted and treat them badly… because if we don’t stop and realize this… If we keep fighting with every person who tries to come near us – no one will ever stay… because no one wants to be hurt or taken for granted when they don’t deserve it… So we can’t take our frustrations out on them and keep hurting them like that. No matter how patient and loving they are – not everyone stays forever, and every person has a tolerance level and we should never make anyone reach theirs. Every person wants to be loved… and if we want to be loved and supported by our loved ones, we must not take them for granted and should treat them with the love and respect they deserve. 

TRUST THAT HE LOVES YOU

TRUST THAT HE LOVES YOU

Love is not just saying those three little words “I LOVE YOU”… It is so much more than that. So don’t get sad or disheartened when he doesn’t bring you flowers or say these words very often… Don’t think he doesn’t love you – because he does. Trust that he loves you because he calls you often just to talk to you… just to know where you are, how you are and what you are doing… When he asks you what you did during the day without him, what you ate and where you went – that is really him telling you that he loves you. Love is when he kisses your forehead after you’ve fallen asleep or it is in the cup of coffee he makes you in the morning whilst he reads you all the important news… Love is when he wants to cook you your favorite breakfast or picks up your favorite chocolate on the way home from work. He loves you because he never forgets what you like to eat and wear, or where you always dreamed to go just so he can try his best to make those dreams come true. Love is when he asks you to take care of yourself whenever he goes out… Love is not just saying I LOVE YOU – it is in everything that shows his concern, his loyalty and his trust in you… Love is when he proudly holds your hand in a crowded place because he could not stand to lose you – even for a single moment… THE TRUE DEPTH OF HIS LOVE LIES IN REMEMBERING EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU… because to him… everything is about you!!

I WORRY ABOUT YOUR FRIENDSHIPS

I WORRY ABOUT YOUR FRIENDSHIPS



I would not consider myself the jealous type – but I don’t ever want to share you with anyone. You are friends with so many women, and whenever you talk to them I have to admit I feel jealous and a little insecure… not because I don’t trust you… but because I don’t trust them. You are so sweet, gentle and attractive, every woman wants you! You are so friendly and open and most importantly… you have that charisma of attracting people… Everyone enjoys talking to you about anything and everything for hours on end and never get bored with you because you’re so interesting and witty. I know I don’t spend all day every day with you but you are always with me every waking moment. Even when I am away from you, I feel you beside me… I never feel lonely, even when you are not there and I talk things through with you within myself… I know you have no feelings for anyone except me… but can’t you be friends with just me?? I feel friendship is the first step of a relationship and I worry that if you talk to someone for hours, feelings may start developing. And that’s the only thing that scares me….you are so precious to me… I don’t want to lose you …EVER!!

I WAS AFRAID TO LOVE YOU

I WAS AFRAID TO LOVE YOU



Before you came into my life I’d had so many bad experiences in life and love… I’d had my heart broken so many times that it felt like whoever I loved would always leave me in darkness… I felt lonely and broken… like I couldn’t possibly love or trust again. So I started running away from relationships… I started living in my own shell, never allowing anyone near me... But then one day you came into my life and you banged so hard on the walls I had built around my heart that they crashed down and you entered inside and found a corner for yourself… But because of the fear I had from all the pain I had endured, I couldn’t allow myself to accept you as a part of my life… I wouldn’t allow you to get too close… But slowly you started capturing my heart… and as much as that soothes me – it also frightens me… I DON’T WANT TO LOSE YOU NOW… After all I did to try and keep you away, your love melted all the ice and crashed through my walls and allowed you to capture my heart… I will never be the same person again – you are the one person who never asked for anything but gave me everything I ever desired or dreamed of… Not a day goes by when you aren’t there for me… You were the one I always wanted to be with and now I know that you are the only one I was made for… Forgive me for taking so long to accept your love… but the truth is I was so afraid of losing you. I never said it on your face because I couldn’t… and I’m sorry that I never showed my love for you even though it was there… But now the day has come for me to surrender my defenses completely and accept your love for what it is… Your love has truly won my heart and taken over my soul……!

TWO CAN PLAY THIS GAME

TWO CAN PLAY THIS GAME



I still remember the day I first met you… you were so wonderfully soft and charming… The way you looked at me simply mesmerized me. You were so sweet back then…so caring and loving. But as the time passed by you started showing your true colors… You weren’t someone special and different – you were exactly the same as everyone else I’d ever met, the only difference was you wore a mask which I was unable to see through at first… But now I’m starting to see through your over sweetness and I’m realizing that the way you parent me is actually more controlling than caring. Loving me and spending time with me was all just a part of a game that you have mastered from many years of practice with other relationships… With you, it’s all for fun… You never seem to realize that love is something sacred and that playing with hearts is a dangerous game that you will eventually pay for. When you break a heart, it never screams… but the pain you cause is very real and I am saddened to think of all the hearts you’ve broken and shattered throughout your life. But now that I see through your lies to the real you, I will teach you that I too can play these games… I am not sad for myself or brokenhearted from learning the truth about who you really are… I’m actually happy because you have taught me a valuable lesson I would have never learned if I’d never met you…. Now I will give back to you everything you gave me… multiplied… be it lies, tears or cheating. I will teach you the lessons no one has ever dared to teach you before… I will be the one to make you repent for everything you have ever done wrong… I won’t leave you… and I won’t forgive you for playing with my feelings or anyone else’s heart for that matter… you will have to pay for your every sin… Because I know in my heart that this is what GOD wants for you… and that He has chosen me to be the one to finally show you the error of your ways…..!

I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU

I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU

Now that we are no longer together and you have separated yourself from me and my life completely… don’t think for a moment that I will break down or keep crying for you the way I did… I know in my heart that I did everything to keep our relationship going… I gave you everything you ever needed or asked for – but you never respected my feelings or the time and energy I put in… You always took me for granted. It hurts a little now to think that I invested such a large part of my time and energy into you… that it’s a part of my life that I will never get back… but despite that, I have no regrets as I know I loved you truly and wholeheartedly… Perhaps we were never meant to be or maybe I made a wrong choice and I’m now suffered for it because now that you have finally left me, there are things that I miss and I know will remain a part of my memory forever… Like the nights I spent in your arms listening to your heartbeat… or the nights we spent holding hands on the beach, walking and talking non-stop… Every memory I have with you will remain there in my heart forever… I will keep the happy memories of us with me for the rest of my life so that should we ever we meet again, we could at least face each other and greet one another in a friendly manner… I don’t want to torture myself anymore… but memories last forever… and it is only the good ones I choose to keep with me……!

LEARN TO SAY NO

LEARN TO SAY NO



Learn to say no. Don’t do something just because someone else wants you to do it when it’s the complete opposite of what you want… You are your own master. You don’t have to agree to everything just to please the people around you… the most important person is you… Don’t ignore what your heart is telling you and make your soul restless by doing things you don’t want to do. No matter how much you try to hide it, your reluctance is going to show… your enthusiasm will be halfhearted at best and you’ll never put in 100% if it’s not something you believe in. Sooner or later you’ll become disappointed in yourself for the things you’ve done that you didn’t really agree with, so learn to say no and make yourself proud. You’ll never be able to please everyone – but if you keep yourself happy, it will never matter who gets angry with you… if they’re a true friend they’ll understand or you’ll be able to patch things up with them. You need to be comfortable and happy within yourself and it starts with the decisions you make… Satisfy your own soul… Make your heart happy and everything around you will become a happier, more positive environment…!

LITTLE WHITE LIES

LITTLE WHITE LIES



Why do I always allow myself to trust you again and again when you constantly lie to me about so many things… Sometimes they’re jokes but sometimes they’re intentionally misleading – either way I can’t stand it. I can’t stop thinking about your blatant dishonesty….I keep thinking about everything you’ve ever said that wasn’t true and my trust in you is now shaky at best whenever you tell me anything. It took me such a long time to trust your words and gestures and I’m not the kind of person to demand proof of every little thing somebody says because I believe love is about trust. I just don’t understand why you lie to me so often when you know I completely trust you… Love is built on principles like RESPECT, TRUST AND HONESTY… so if you love me and you want me to be with you forever, there shouldn’t be any need to lie to me… I want to be able to trust you without these constant doubts… and that’s possible only when you stop lying – even if you think they’re only little unimportant things… When you become completely honest and transparent with me… when you don’t lie to me even for fun… I’m ready to give you one last chance. But without being able to trust you, it will be difficult for me to be in this relationship forever. It’s up to you now… How much do you want me and how truly you love me? Because the moment you stop lying about smaller things… our bond of love will become unbreakable….

COMMUNICATION IS ESSENTIAL TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

COMMUNICATION IS ESSENTIAL TO A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP

Whenever you spend time with your partner, always remember to talk about things… It is the single best way to get to know each other better and stay connected to each other. When you discuss everything with each other, you get to know what your compatibilities are and where your differences lie. Communication is the most important thing in a relationship… it opens you to each other and it strengthens your bond as a couple. Nothing else can build such a high level of trust and honesty as when you talk about your weaknesses. It is a way of surrendering yourself, saying “This is who I really am, Accept me with my imperfections” and that level of openness and acceptance increases trust. When you discuss your problems, you involve your partner in everything you are going through and the honesty and transparency strengthens your bond. Complete surrender makes a couple perfect and this can only happen when you communicate… Less talking means bigger gaps between you as you start assuming things about your partner rather than asking. Slowly you lose interest in each other and stop thinking about each other… To make a relationship strong and everlasting – talk to one another as much as you can about anything and everything. Never let silence detract from your beautiful moments… TIME ONCE GONE, NEVER COMES BACK … DON’T LET YOUR SILENCE BREAK THE BEAUTIFUL BOND YOU HAVE WORKED SO HARD TO DEVELOP… Let them get to know you inside out and accept you with all your imperfections… Give each other enough time and attention to talk and discuss everything … because communication is as important to a relationship as food is for survival…!

LOVE’S MEMORY NEVER FADES

LOVE’S MEMORY NEVER FADES



If you ever find someone worth loving and giving your life to… if you ever find that one special person who loves you in return just as truly and passionately as you love them – never let them go. Hold them with love and tenderness… give them everything they deserve and you will never be deprived of happiness and love… Treat them with care and respect and you will never feel lonely because they will be a lifelong companion… Love them the way you wish to be loved in return because if true love ever does leave, it leaves you with beautiful memories that never fade… and reliving those memories can often give you the strength to live your life to the fullest, even though the person who gifted them to you is gone…!

I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHY YOU HURT ME THIS WAY

I WILL NEVER UNDERSTAND WHY YOU HURT ME THIS WAY

When we first met it was as if you were made only for me… you loved me so much… you completed me in almost every way. You were always there for me whenever I needed you… you never made me angry or gave me reasons to fight with you… Because of all I had gone through in my past, it took me a long time to trust you and accept your love…. and when I finally fell for you and started to trust… when I had given you everything you needed and become yours, you started showing your true colors… You waited until you had my love and then you started taking me for granted. Now… you fight with me without any cause or reason… You seem to be angry all the time and you hurt me with your harsh words… they kill me… This pain you are causing me is so much greater than what I had in the past… I worked through all that pain and heartache but now… I don’t think I will ever be able to heal my heart or let anyone close again…. You have finally taught me never to trust, never to fall in love again… You have taught me that good looks and sweet talk are never a guarantee of a good heart too… I now understand that I can never truly know a person unless I spend time with them. Life is never fair… It keeps testing you and you never know what it’s going to throw at you next. Everyone seems to be selfish and only come to you only when they needed something from you… But I suppose I should thank you in a way, because you have taught me the real meaning of life and what people are really like…. Just know that I have no bad feelings for you. I am letting it all go and moving on with the thought that we were never made for each other… because if we truly were – you would never have hurt me this way

YOU CAN’T FORCE LOVE

YOU CAN’T FORCE LOVE

Don’t think about someone who doesn’t even spare a moment to think about you… Don’t waste any more energy on someone who doesn’t reply to your messages… You are wasting your feelings and time on a person who doesn’t hold any value in them… Love is something that cannot be forced… it either happens or it doesn’t and when it does it happens in the blink of an eye. Love is not something you can beg for or keep asking for. So if someone doesn’t return your love, don’t give them so much importance in your life. Don’t waste your affection on people who don’t value your love… for whom your presence or absence doesn’t matter. Don’t get upset over people who only ever need you when they want something from you… YOU are important too… So never give away your feelings or your time to a person who doesn’t even want them… Don’t waste your tears on a person who doesn’t value them.. If they’re not returning your love with love, then it’s not a real relationship…Love never has to be planned or negotiated – when two people are destined to be together they don’t have to think about it or work on it…it just happens… There won’t be the constant tears and fights… just love. That’s what you deserve – so go out and find it!…