LIVE BIG DREAM BIGGER

LIVE BIG DREAM BIGGER I want you to do things you never had the courage to do before…I want you to take that one step you always wanted to take but were too afraid to. There’s always going to be a first time for everything, and yes, it’s nerve-racking – but never let that stop you! If you don’t try, you’ll never win at anything… Life is all about taking risks… I want you to think the impossible, work towards your dreams and believe in yourself – no matter what others think of you…. I want you to gather every bit of courage you have and face every storm that comes your way whilst continuing to pursue your dreams…. I want you to never once fall asleep with tears in your eyes from a lifetime of broken dreams. I want you to rise every morning with new hopes for a new day. Always believe… LIFE CAN BE DIFFICULT, BUT ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE… Whatever you want – you can achieve it! If not today, then perhaps tomorrow because tomorrow belongs to only you… Just have patience and never lose hope….!!

RUNNING ON EMPTY

RUNNING ON EMPTY

All relationships need people who cater to each other’s needs be they physical, emotional or spiritual… but sometimes there’s an imbalance in what each person gets out of that relationship.Sometimes a woman takes care of everything in the relationship… She gives up all her own dreams and desires to fulfill the needs of others… She’ll be the one to stand beside everyone come Hell or high water and is always there whenever anyone needs her, and all the while never asking for anything in return because her family is her number one priority…. But eventually there comes a point when she gets tired doing everything for everyone and being strong all the time and something inside her begins to break. Eventually, the time comes when her spirit becomes utterly exhausted from constantly giving support to everyone else… Any woman who’s strong all the time will eventually need to be taken care of and loved… A woman who consistently cares for the needs of others will eventually want someone to ask her what SHE really wants and hold her when she’s feeling low. Everyone wants to be pampered every once in a while – especially those who do everything without ever taking a break for themselves. Even the strongest of us need emotional support and someone to love and support them through difficult times. Every woman needs someone who understands her silence more than their words….Because often it is the person who GIVES the most to others that is often the one that is running on empty and desperately needs to RECEIVE a little love and care in return…

ACCEPTING THE GOOD AND THE BAD

ACCEPTING THE GOOD AND THE BAD

It is often said that every person you meet in life is sent to you to teach you something… Everything in our lives is already pre-written….. Every person that comes into our lives is predestined to give us something and takes something from us in return… Sometimes the only thing they have to give us is negative and the only thing that they take from us is our happiness… and sadly we can’t refuse this exchange as it is already fated to be this way…. Every relationship is about give and take – even the bad ones. We will always give something of ourselves and take something from the other person in return… Because at the heart of every relationship is an exchange; of thoughts, values, happiness, pain and tears… We cannot change or alter our fates… whatever has to happen will happen, in its own time and in its own way. It is not for us to challenge God’s will……

IT’S TIME TO SLOW DOWN

IT’S TIME TO SLOW DOWN

I’m done! Done with chasing everyone and everything; Done with running to get everywhere in life… and all so as to acquire everything life has to offer… But all this time I’ve been chasing everything – I never once stopped to ask my own heart what it wants. What is it that makes ME happy and content? What is it that I REALLY want?? It seems like everyone around me has everything they ever desired and everything they could ever want from me. Everyone ELSE is satisfied… but I’m not. When I look back on my life, I don’t see anything that can give me lasting happiness… except perhaps the smiles of others that are because of the happiness I provided them. But where is my happiness? When I look at my past all I see is chaos, there’s no memories I can cherish. All that time I was thinking about everyone else – their needs, their wants, their happiness…. and I’d always run so fast so as to fulfill their demands. But I never listened to my heart, my mind or the needs of my body. I worked harder than I was capable of – but now I want to relax. I need a break from the fast life… I need to listen to my heart and do the things that make ME happy…. I want to stop and listen to the murmuring of my heart that is asking to be loved… For once, I want to be pampered! I want to drift into a relaxing sleep and sail away into my own dreamland… My own little world… I want to take some time for myself so I can look at my life and have some memories to cherish. I want to relive my childhood and once again live a life where I can envision my dreams and live a carefree life…. I want that life now! …. I’m done with all this hustle and bustle….

SHE’S NOT ANGRY BUT MISSING YOU

SHE’S NOT ANGRY BUT MISSING YOU



If she’s angry with you and starts shouting for no apparent reason, the best thing you can do is stop and listen to every word she says…. Don’t question her reasoning, don’t stop her mid-sentence or counter argue and most of all – DON’T ask why is she suddenly so upset ! Just wait until she finishes – then go to her, hug her and kiss her lips…. I promise she will melt in no moment ! Because if she flies off the handle like that for no good reason then chances are, she wasn’t sad or upset – she just missed you and felt frustrated by your absence. She WANTS you to understand how upset missing you makes her feel… but she doesn’t want to TELL you… she just wants you to FEEL it… Because deep down, every woman’s heart is as fragile as a child’s … Every woman wants to be loved and taken care of by her man. And like a parent will always care for a child – so should a man take care of a woman, no matter how much the two of them age… Every woman will become upset and angry when not given proper love and attention for long periods of time. When she can’t take that distance and emotional separation anymore she gets sad and irritated and loses her temper over trivial things – often for as long as that disconnection continues. But the moment you connect with her… the moment she feels you understood her pain and knows that you love her – all that anger dissipates because it was really all her hurt and frustration disguised as anger and it needed to be released. So go to her… tell her you love her… and hug all that negativity away!…….

YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE

Never let anyone or anything take over your mind and your heart. Never let anything affect your mood or your feelings… YOU are your own master! Do whatever it is you want to do – but never expect others to do things your way… You may love someone or you may hate them – but never do anything you don’t want to because of them… The thought and the desire is either there or it’s not – never let anyone else convince you that what THEY want is what you want. Only YOU know that! You should never allow anyone to have that kind of power over you .God has given you your own mind and individuality and that is enough power to make or break your own life… So no matter how powerless you may feel – never let your breakups or failures affect your dreams and never allow people who know nothing about your life decide your fate for you… Wake up and do things on your own! Never give up when failure strikes you… there’s always a new day, a new morning and new opportunities ahead. Don’t close your eyes to the light coming your way or you’ll miss out on the opportunities that are coming towards you. There’s always another door waiting for you to open… So get up, open it and step through – Your destiny awaits you…

My wish for you

My wish for you

My wish for you is that you fall for a person who will love you deeply, who will always be there when you need them and will never let you feel alone or unwanted. I want you to have someone in your life who never lets you fall asleep with tears in your eyes… a person who helps you both in the kitchen and in life – who never lets you do it all on your own…. I want you to find someone who holds your hand and proudly walks with you in public for the world to see… someone who wants the world to see you and admire you…. I want you to have someone who will always cheer you up… whose love will always exhilarate you and who’s loving gestures never fail to pick you up when you’re feeling down… I want you to find someone who will always stand beside you in everything and never takes you for granted… Someone who can see you at your worst and still loves you just as you are….. And last but not the least… I wish for you to fall for a person who takes care of your heart as if it were their own… Someone who feels proud to have you in their life and gives you the love and respect you truly deserve…

My wish for you

My wish for you

My wish for you is that you fall for a person who will love you deeply, who will always be there when you need them and will never let you feel alone or unwanted. I want you to have someone in your life who never lets you fall asleep with tears in your eyes… a person who helps you both in the kitchen and in life – who never lets you do it all on your own…. I want you to find someone who holds your hand and proudly walks with you in public for the world to see… someone who wants the world to see you and admire you…. I want you to have someone who will always cheer you up… whose love will always exhilarate you and who’s loving gestures never fail to pick you up when you’re feeling down… I want you to find someone who will always stand beside you in everything and never takes you for granted… Someone who can see you at your worst and still loves you just as you are….. And last but not the least… I wish for you to fall for a person who takes care of your heart as if it were their own… Someone who feels proud to have you in their life and gives you the love and respect you truly deserve…

DON’T LEAD HER ON

DON’T LEAD HER ON



If you are in a relationship with her, then don’t try to hide her from people around you. If you’re doing that, then obviously you’re holding on to a secret. You should feel proud to have her in your life and should want to take her everywhere with you for the whole world to see. If you genuinely want her in your life and Love her from the depths of your Heart, then you should be accepting her – not caging her. You can’t hide her away and behave like a free bird yourself. You should feel proud that she is in your life and show her your true character. Don’t play with her feelings or make her feel bad about herself… Be a “real” man with morals and values. Relationships aren’t just for fun, or to prove yourself to someone else…. Don’t flirt with her if you have no real feelings and no intention of staying with her. Don’t make her fall for you when you are not that interested in holding onto her. Cheating on someone who Loves you is cruel. When a heart breaks, there is no sound, but that cut bleeds and causes unbearable pain that feels like it will never heal… So don’t play with someone’s heart just for personal gain… But if you do, get ready to face the same agonizing pain….. Because what goes around will eventually come back around to you….. and she just may be the person you miss most when you find yourself all alone one day….

PERFECTION IS JUST A MIRAGE

PERFECTION IS JUST A MIRAGE



Every dark cloud has a silver lining. No one is born perfect. PERFECTION IS JUST A MIRAGE. We are not immune to difficulties in our life, but difficult times lead to better days. A miracle will proceed it. Never lose heart if something doesn’t go as you planned. Never give up. It may be just a test of your capability and patience. Whenever you stumble, there’s always someone there to hold your hand. Whenever you think of giving up, there’s always that little voice inside your head telling you not to give up, to keep on going, and giving you the strength to persevere. There is always something good hidden in every bad. Bad times are there to teach us lessons. To perfect ourselves, to live in this not so perfect world. LIFE is not a competition to win and to prove something, its a lesson to learn. You are not answerable to anyone except yourself. Just make sure whatever you, you don’t have to hide it. Do things that make you perfectly happy and satisfy your soul..WHEN YOU ARE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF, YOU ARE PERFECT……

YOUR LOVE GIVES HER STRENGTH

YOUR LOVE GIVES HER STRENGTH



Inside every strong woman, there’s always a little girl that wants to be loved and taken care of… An inner child that wants to be pampered by the man she loves deeply… After constant fighting and all the mess in her life, all this little girl wants is his arms around her to assure her that she is loved. All she needs is a kiss on her forehead and she is ready for another battle… Because she not only fights with the world for her loved ones – she also fights a hidden battle within herself to stay strong for them… She is not weak but she is emotionally sensitive and deeply loving and that can take its toll on her fragile little heart. So hold her, kiss her gently and tell her that you love her… and she will be ready to fight another day for you…

I WANT THE OLD YOU BACK

I WANT THE OLD YOU BACK

I hate when you ignore me for your work…. and I hate that you don’t understand my feelings anymore. You’ve changed so much… It’s as if all the feelings of love have left you and you’ve become nothing more than an emotionless machine that can only perform and interpret actions. There have been so many times when I don’t want to speak – but I want to be understood… I want you to read my eyes and listen to my heart. I want you to understand every word I DON’T say…. But it never happens. Not anymore. I MISS THAT OLD YOU… The man who was the master of reading me… The man I never had to utter a word to – but he knew what I was feeling. I want that love back in my life… I want the old YOU back… The one who took care of my every need…. my every desire…. The one who wanted to be with me all the time, every moment of the day… I don’t like this new you, who comes to me only when YOU need something….I don’t like this GIVE AND TAKE relationship where I do all the giving and you do all the taking… I want that spark of love to ignite again… I want us to be like we were. I promise you I will do every possible thing to bring that spark back in our life…. I won’t give up on my love for you and the relationship we built…..I will do every possible thing to get that old YOU back…

SHE IS STRONGER THAN YOU THINK

SHE IS STRONGER THAN YOU THINK

Never mistake a woman’s gentleness for weakness…. She is stronger than you. She carries life in her body for months and still stands tall; She will work for hours but never get tired…. She may be weaker than you physically – but not emotionally. She has the strength to move mountains when she’s determined. She has a power that can breathe life back into the dead… She feels her emotions with all of her being… She cries when she’s sad and laughs when she’s happy. She’s not afraid to live every moment of her life to its fullest… She is a woman of today who plays her every role to perfection; She can be a mother, a sister, a friend, a beloved and so much more. She has a softness to her – but she is not weak… She talks to every person lovingly because she has a plethora of love in her heart and she can return your love to you multiplied if you love her truly… But if cheated on – she will not think twice about moving on. For a woman like her, self-respect is what makes her strong and determined and she will not compromise it. So if she loves him deeply she may cry and long for her man but she will never fall for the same trick twice…. She knows her own worth. She knows she deserves better…. And she’s not afraid to look for it!

WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT

WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT



Many things are both written and expressed about Love, but a lot of people do not understand what true LOVE IS. First and foremost should be compatibility, trust, and honesty which goes hand in hand. It is the trust you place in someone whether they are near to you or at a distance. It is an understanding that despite the arguments and fights you have, you still choose to Love one another. Love is that compatibility which helps two people work together without raising any questions or doubts and never forces one another to do things they don’t want to do. Love is accepting each other for who they are; with all their flaws and imperfections. Love is about two imperfect people that become perfect for each other when they unite. Love makes you beautiful and raw as you were born to be.LOVE IS ABOUT GIVING YOUR ALL TO THE PERSON YOU LOVE… LOVE MAKES YOU STRONGER AND MORE BEAUTIFUL…LOVE MAKES YOU POWERFUL ENOUGH TO CONQUER THE WORLD FOR ANYTHING THAT YOUR LOVE DESIRES…

BUT I WAS WRONG.

BUT I WAS WRONG.I thought I had finally found someone who complimented me. Someone who shared the same feelings of excitement and the thrill of being in Love. Someone that I could share my happiness with. Someone with whom I could share my deepest secrets. Someone who would be there to hug me and hold me through the good times and the bad. I really thought you would be there for me whenever I needed you, but I was wrong. The only time you come to me is when I ask you to. You never come on your own. It’s like you don’t sense how I feel or you simply don’t care. You are so cold and distant. It’s like you no longer have any feelings for me, or you have just become complacent and comfortable with the way things are. Maybe this is just your way. But you don’t understand my joy or my sadness. The excitement I feel whenever we meet, or the sadness I feel when we part. I never feel anything like that in you. It’s as if you are no longer interested in me. I want to enjoy the excitement with you, the thrill of being with you, the chills I get whenever you are near me, and the butterflies I feel dancing around when you are with me. But I know I can’t change you. I have tried my best to draw out those feelings from you for me, but it’s all been in vain. There is nothing more that I can do. I either have to accept the way you are and continue showing my feelings or forget them too…

WOMEN LOVE SENSITIVE MEN

WOMEN LOVE SENSITIVE MEN



No woman wants a man who is either only good in bed or at talking himself in there… She wants a man who can give her mental security. Who can help her face her fears and overcome them…. She wants a man whose shoulder she can lay her head on and can talk to about everything without wondering what he will think if she does… She wants a man whose arms she can feel as safe within as a pearl in sea…. She may get attracted to his looks or his sweet words initially – but after a time she craves that stability and understanding which is only possible when he is mentally compatible with her… and to achieve that he must first know her fears help her fight her demons. He needs to be a man who can understand her heart and mind completely….A MAN WHO SHE CAN ALWAYS RUN TO FOR COMFORT WHEN SHE’S TIRED AND BROKEN…. THE ONE WHO CAN HOLD HER AND FIX HER FRACTURED SOUL WITH HIS LOVE AND DEVOTION…. WHOSE TOUCH CAN HEAL HER SOUL MIRACOULUSLY…!!

RELATIONSHIPS

RELATIONSHIPS

Relationships thrive on Love, Trust, and Compatibility. Those attributes are as important to keep your relationship happy and healthy as a flower thrives on the sunshine and rain to fully bloom. Love is not sufficient enough if you keep doubting or fighting with your partner. To Love him truly, you must trust him completely for your Love to flourish. When you understand each other, then your body language, expressions, and words will be in complete harmony. There won’t be any place for arguments and fights. When you honestly understand your partner’s ways and imperfections, then you should never point them out; you balance them with your imperfections. You are a genuine couple that is made for one another. Two imperfect souls can make a perfect couple with a lot of Love and Patience……

MY PROMISE TO YOU

MY PROMISE TO YOU

I promise to be with you throughout every moment of our lives… I promise to never be a reason for your pain…. I will never ask you for anything you are not comfortable with… I will never ask questions you don’t want to answer… I will never ask for anything – except for your time and attention… I will always be there through thick and thin…. I will never let you feel lonely… I will always try to understand your reasons for doing things the way that you do….. I will give you enough space to be yourself and will help you achieve all your goals and dreams… I will stand beside you…. not just as your companion for life but your soulmate, your best friend and your reason for happiness… I want to be the reason you wake up in the mornings… I want to be the one you dream of and your inspiration to turn your dreams into reality… I want to be your strength, your lover and your best friend…

A PERFECT COUPLE NEEDS TWO IMPERFECT PEOPLE TOGETHER.

A PERFECT COUPLE NEEDS TWO IMPERFECT PEOPLE TOGETHER.

Every single person has their own shortcomings – no one is ever perfect… But sometimes, two opposite people attract each other because somehow they sense that they need the other to be complete.… That this person will completely fit into the places that are vacant or empty… Each makes the other whole – they are a perfect match…. It doesn’t matter if they are imperfect as individuals because they complement one another and bond with each other so perfectly that nothing can separate them…. They may have fights and arguments, but they understand each other too well and know that nothing can ever affect their relationship….. Each knows that there is no space for anyone else to come between them…. But perfection like this doesn’t come overnight…. both individuals have to give up their ego and attitude to make the other a part of their life…. They both have to love the darkest sides of each other… the darkest secrets, the untold stories… all the things that were never before confessed or spoken aloud… LOVE IS SOMETHING WHICH DEMANDS COMPLETE DEDICATION, TRUST AND HONESTY…. ONLY THEN CAN TWO PEOPLE BECOME A PERFECT COUPLE…A PERFECT BLEND…

I AM JUST ONE OF HIS FRIENDS

I AM JUST ONE OF HIS FRIENDS



I thought I held the most important place in his life and he shared everything with me… Every time he had something on his mind, I thought I was the first person he wanted to share it with…. I believed his every secret confession was told only to me in the strictest of confidence…. that whenever he needed someone, only my name came to mind…I thought I had his trust and that I was the most important person in his life…. But no – I was wrong…. He talks to every girl he is friends with… He shares his so-called secrets with all his friends… He talks to anyone about anything! I was never his most trusted friend, or his only friend… or his ONLY ONE…. He is as sweet with all of them as he is with me… I thought I held the most important part of his heart… but no…. he treats everyone else in his life the same way….. I AM JUST ONE OF HIS FRIENDS….. NOT HIS ONLY ONE….!!

LOVE HATE RELATIONSHIPS

LOVE HATE RELATIONSHIPS

When we hate someone too much, we think about them all the time. Sometimes we fight with them … sometimes we make up with them … But always we stay with them mentally… So do we really hate them? Or is it that we love them somewhere deep down and that’s why they’ve hurt us so much? Or perhaps the pain they’ve caused us has made us so angry that we can’t overcome it… Maybe our love has now become the anger and pain which keeps hurting us… but not hate. When we love someone we can never hate them. We get angry but ultimately we can’t forget the moments we had with them and the love we had remains in our hearts buried under our agony… But it never leaves us….

YOU RE MY PRINCE CHARMING

YOU RE MY PRINCE CHARMING

 Every girl dreams of her own prince charming with certain qualities she admires… I too have dreams… I want a man who knows me and understands my feelings. I want him to wake me with a kiss on my forehead. I never cared so much for a handsome or sexy men – I always desired a man who had a good nature, generous heart and an empathy for the pain of others. I dreamed of eyes that could see the inner beauty in others and not just focus on looks… I always wanted a man who would treat everyone equal and would never take into account their wealth or status…. I wished for a man who would treat me as an equal and would help me pursue my dreams… A man who is not only is my life partner – but also my best friend. The one I can talk to and share my feelings with without ever giving it a second thought… A man who always stands by me and supports me… AND THEN I MET YOU…and I found all these things in you… You are and always will the only one who I will love and adore with all of my heart… YOU ARE MY PRINCE CHARMING…

I’LL ALWAYS WANT MORE

I’LL ALWAYS WANT MORE

No matter how many times we talk on the phone, text, or hang out – I never get tired of you. I always look forward to the next call, the next message and the next moment I get to spend with you.You say my name – my heart beats faster. You smile and it takes my breath away. You laugh and I could almost sigh to the joy of the sound. I can’t tell you how much I love you – I can’t express it in words. I just know in my heart that I love you as its beat utters every word…

I WILL TAKE CARE OF MYSELF

I WILL TAKE CARE OF MYSELF



I grew tired… Tired of waiting for you to sense when I was in pain… Of waiting for you to feel my soul screaming for you to hold me and heal it…. There was a time long ago when you were always an arm’s length away and I could reach for you when I was hurting and you were there to hold me. But those days are gone now… That was when you wanted me… when you told me how much you needed me in your life and now that you’ve finally got me it seems as though you’ve changed. I am seeing a whole new side to you… A person who doesn’t care about my pain or my feelings … Who comes to me only when they need something. You do come when I call you or ask for help…but I shouldn’t have to! Not when I know you understand my pain so well… I shouldn’t have to call you because you’ve never once had to when you’ve needed me…I always have been – and still am – always there for you whenever you need me… So why couldn’t you be there for me the same way?! It’s too late… I don’t need you anymore. I don’t want to wait for you nor do I even want to call you… I have learned to heal my broken and tired soul on my own….I don’t want to be dependent on you or anyone else ever again… I have strengthened myself so much that I don’t need any hand to wipe my tears away….!!

BE WARY OF FALSE FRIENDS

BE WARY OF FALSE FRIENDS

We so often share our secrets and our deepest fears with those closest to us – our friends. We open ourselves up to them in the hope that they will understand us and can give us a solution to our problems – or even when we just want to vent to somebody because we feel so comfortable in their company. But not everyone we associate with is our real friend…. Some are merely enemies in disguise and they’ll use our own secrets against us.to finish us off and take our place if they are jealous or feel intimidated by us. Some people are so envious and threatened by us, that when they cannot become like us, they change from friends to foes…. but secretly..!!…