Wednesday, December 6, 2017

PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST


When we love we love unconditionally and wholly, without any ifs and buts. Our love is given freely and abundantly... We give the precious gift of time which we can never get back because a relationship is a part of our life which will never be reversed. We strive to do everything for a loved one, even when it’s not easily within our reach and we try to keep them happy and give them everything they could ever dream of. We hope that we will find our happiness in their happiness and in that way all that we give will be returned to us and all our selflessness will be rewarded. But sometimes we invest so much of ourselves into them that we become dependent on them for our own happiness because we’ve made them our whole and in doing all this we’ve forgotten ourselves completely. Without even realizing we have placed ourselves back stage where no one sees our desires or cares for our needs. And this is when we finally realize that sometimes it’s important to put ourselves first so we too can achieve happiness.

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