WE MUST MOVE ON

Why do we get so upset and become saddened when the people we love ignore us and take us for granted? Why do we think about them all the time even when thoughts of us never cross their mind? Why do we still give them topmost priority even when we are always the last on their list? I know that love is said to weaken a person but does it really have to be to a point where we forget about our own self-importance our very identity? Love is meant to be a two sided affair… it can never reach its potential unless both people feel the same and place the same level of priority on each other. Unless feelings are truly reciprocated and requited, the one sided feelings a person can have for another cause only pain and torment. Sooner or later for our own good, we must move on.

THE WAY I LOVE YOU

I know you don't always enjoy being a part of my endless conversations... And I know you’re often annoyed by my random mood swings, my erratic tantrums and my over-possessiveness of you… but it is simply because I love you and that same love is the very thing that calms you and caresses you when you’re tired and stressed… That love is what drives me to make your home perfect for you and to adore you unconditionally. My love may not be perfect – but I know in my heart that I love you perfectly because you are my everything.

SHE’S NOT A FOOL”

Women are emotional and sensitive but they also cannot be fooled in the name of love. When a woman loves, she gives herself completely and never leaves any stone unturned to make her man happy. But she also has her own sense of judgment and understanding of people. She may cry for the man she loves, she may spend hours thinking about him and may do things to please him… but if a man takes her for granted or plays with her feelings she will never forget it. She may forgive him number of times but she never forgets how it feels when he breaks her heart. She may give him chances to change himself… but if he doesn’t change she doesn’t think twice about leaving and moving on

EVERY MAN’S DREAM

Every man’s dream is a woman who he can call his own… someone he can rely on… someone he knows can understand him better than he understands himself... someone who never judges him but understands his reasons for the things he does... someone who can fight the world for him... someone who he knows will take his hand and never let go, no matter what… someone who always love him for who he is and never tries to change him but accepts him completely with all his imperfections and dark secrets… someone who cares nothing for his ugly past, but instead is ever present through good times and bad and makes him believe in a happy future. Every man’s dream is a woman who he knows will always stand beside him and loves him irrevocably.

LOVE SHOULD BE RECIPROCATED

When falling for someone, always make sure that your feelings are respected and reciprocated. Love takes time to grow yes… but too much time leads to nothing more than pain and heartaches. Don’t underestimate yourself and never waste your feelings on someone who doesn't deserve them. Unrequited love can break you and broken hearts may heal eventually, but the pain and scars remain forever. Never let anyone hurt you in the name of love… Never let anyone play with your feelings… Never let anyone use you in the name of love. Love someone with all of your heart but only if they love you the same way, otherwise you are simply being used.

PUTTING YOURSELF FIRST

When we love we love unconditionally and wholly, without any ifs and buts. Our love is given freely and abundantly... We give the precious gift of time which we can never get back because a relationship is a part of our life which will never be reversed. We strive to do everything for a loved one, even when it’s not easily within our reach and we try to keep them happy and give them everything they could ever dream of. We hope that we will find our happiness in their happiness and in that way all that we give will be returned to us and all our selflessness will be rewarded. But sometimes we invest so much of ourselves into them that we become dependent on them for our own happiness because we’ve made them our whole and in doing all this we’ve forgotten ourselves completely. Without even realizing we have placed ourselves back stage where no one sees our desires or cares for our needs. And this is when we finally realize that sometimes it’s important to put ourselves first so we too can achieve happiness.

I'm Done Crying Over You.

I loved you with all my heart, and I still do... but I can't come begging to you for anything you don't want to willingly give me. If you really love me I should never have to ask you for your attention or time... but it seems I always do. I feel like I have to constantly remind you that I’m an important part of your life… I have to keep asking you for your love and I shouldn’t need to do that if you really loved me. All I have ever wanted was to be your priority… but it’s never going to happen. And now I’m done asking and begging… I’m done crying over you. I don't want to live my life for someone who doesn't value me and my feelings...I can't waste any more of my time on a man who has no time for me...I can't waste my tears for that love who don't value them

“LOVE IS…”

Love is not when you find a woman beautiful or when you want to talk to her for hours… love is when you find the beauty of her heart and when you understand her silence. Love is not possessing her but trusting her and allowing her to fly. Love is not sharing your day to day life with a woman but sharing your dreams with her. Love is not taking her to your bedroom to bare her body but unraveling those secrets that are hidden within her soul. Love is when all her tears fall upon your heart, when her smile becomes the reason for your happiness, when you hold her hand - not to show your possessiveness - but to walk with her side by side. Love is when you find her beautiful without her makeup on in a messy outfit. Love is something that requires you to open your heart and soul to a woman to let her in so she may see all your wounds and scars and heal them. Love is not about owning someone else, but about losing yourself to them. 

A PERFECT LOVE

When a man truly and genuinely loves a woman he not only adores her outer beauty but loves her deep into her heart and soul as well. He tries to understand her mind, her feelings, her pain and her pleasures so that he can ensure his love will flow in through her heart and make its way to the depths of her soul. He becomes her best friend and makes sure to be a part of everything she does. He gives her his undivided time, attention and care and supports her dreams and ambitions. He shows his trust in her by standing beside her in every decision and makes sure never to let her feel lonely or sad. When a man wants a woman to be a part of his life, he forever loves her to the core and makes her feel important in his life… he makes sure never to leave alone when she needs him and endeavors to love her so much that it flows in her every vein and makes sure that his loving thoughts will always keep her company.

It's Your Turn Now

Throughout our relationship I’ve done so much for you that you never appreciated...and I simply can’t do this anymore. I still love you… but I can’t accept not being a priority in your life anymore. I can’t keep fighting with myself, constantly questioning whether I should stay or go and I can’t keep giving away my self-respect to keep this unrequited love going. Maybe you are done loving me and giving me your precious time and attention… maybe you have someone else in your life... I don’t know your reasons but whatever they are, I will not come begging to you any longer to make this relationship work. If you love me and this relationship still matters to you then it has to be you that makes the first move… YOU have to respect my love and my feelings... or else you will watch them fall out of your grasp forever.

I'M CLOSING MY HEART TO YOU”

I have not left you completely yet, but I will never show my love or my feelings for you again. I am done with this unrequited love and I don't want to be hurt anymore. I have promised myself never to open up to you again and never to expect anything from you but I will stay with you unless you find someone who can love you and care for you the way I do… Because I have loved you through the ages… since before you can remember… I think you have forgotten my love and my feelings for you. But I refuse to hurt and bleed anymore... If you can love me and respect my feelings… if you really need me in your life then you have to change your ways. You have to treat me respectfully. You can't take me and my love for granted every time. You can't treat my heart like a toy... you can't come to me only when you want to - you have to consider my feelings and wants too. When a heart is unloved for too long, it dies and I don't want my heart to die. I don't want the love I have in my heart to be taken over by sadness and pain. So to keep my heart from undue pain, I have no choice but to move on from this relationship. 

LOVE MEANS UNDERSTANDING

A man who really loves his woman will respect and trust her. He will understand her motivations – even if it means she’s not able to give him as much of her time as he’d like. He won’t pick fights with her because he trusts her and values her... A man who really loves a woman loves her with all of her flaws and imperfections and helps her overcome life’s obstacles with his love and care... He doesn’t make judgments or bring up her past to hurt her, but helps her forget everything and everyone that has ever hurt her because all he wants is the happiness and comfort of the one person in the world he understands better than everyone else.

A RELATIONSHIP IS A TWO-WAY STREET

In order to be loved, taken care of and respected you have to give the same to your partner. You can't expect love and care and understanding if you don't stand by them in their time of need just as you can't expect someone to give you their time if you never spare any time for them. A relationship is a two-way street… if you won't give your full attention TO someone you cannot expect it FROM them. Most people will not beg for your time and attention but will look for other things to keep them busy instead… You can’t ask someone to give away their self-respect. If your relationship is the most important thing to you then you won’t give your lover reasons to be angry or cry… Instead, you will give them everything they deserve without being asked. That's the real essence of LOVE… when it is given freely and abundantly.

NEVER CHASE LOVE

Never beg anyone for time or attention they are not willing to give you freely. Anyone who truly loves you will always make time for you out of their busy schedule no matter what. Always remember that if someone wants to spend their life with you, they will always respect you and will never make you feel unwanted or undesired. A person who truly believes in you and trusts you will make you an integral part of their and will always keep you informed about the goings on in their lives. Real love never has to be chased or asked for; if it’s not given to you freely then it was never truly yours. If your feelings are not being reciprocated and your calls for love are not being answered then each of you are with the wrong person and the sooner you understand that the less pain this unrequited love will cause you in the long term.

I WANT TO BE YOUR FIRST CHOICE”

Any thing I ever said is because I want to make you a better person… someone who can make me proud… someone who I can always count on… someone who I always find beside me... But it’s never happened… you always take my words the wrong way and twist them into something else. I never ever hurt you or disrespected you intentionally… All I ever wanted was to change your bad habits that are harmful both for you and for us. I feel as though with you, I always come after everything else… I am never your priority It’s as though you think I’ll never leave you and will always be here. If you ever need anything, you know where to find me, but you always seem to take that for granted, forgetting that no matter how much I love you, I have my limits. And now that time has come... I can't be your second choice forever. I always wanted to be your first and for that, I have given up everything. But you never gave me my place and now I am done with the pain caused by being your second choice. If you really ever loved me and you really need me in your life, then you have to give me the place within it that I deserve.

BEING HIS SOMEONE SPECIAL

A man who loves you deeply will make you his life. He’ll never hurt you or disrespect you but will always make you his top most priority. He never lies to you, in fact, he tells you every bitter truth about his life because he knows you love and understand him and is never afraid of being judged. He‘ll let you into places within his heart that he’s never shown to anyone before...because when a man truly deeply and madly loves someone, he gives himself completely without any fear or reservations…He opens up his heart and his life for the one person he’s been looking for, for as long as he can remember. He will open up every secret door to his heart that he has kept close his whole life because he knows that with you his heart will be taken care of...he knows with you..he never has to be someone else he is not.....he knows within you, he has found his better half, his soulmate..his own shadow.

I PROMISE YOU.

I didn't fall in love with you because I was lost or lonely but because after knowing you, my heart wanted to make you a permanent part of its world. I still remember that first day when I looked into your eyes and my whole world flipped. I felt so complete and alive and even the silence between us was comfortable… It was a soul connection that was destined to happen... Every time I look into your eyes, I see my soul staring back at me… and that moment when you hold my hand and my fingers fit in yours perfectly makes me realize we were meant to be. I love you in every possible way. I know I can be insane at times and have bad mood swings, but I promise you that no one can ever think of loving you as much as I do. I can't promise you that dark clouds will never hover over us or that we will have only rainbows in our future... but I promise you my unconditional love, my honesty, my loyalty and my complete devotion to you. I promise to be with you through your bad days and good days ahead. I promise you that I'll always do my best to make you happy and cheerful. 

ALL THE REASONS THAT I LOVE YOU”

I love you because you have loved me with all my imperfections and made me feel perfect. I love you because you are the only one who has understood my pain and healed my scars with your love and care. I love you because you never make me feel lonely even when you are at a distance from me because your thoughts are always with me.... I love you because no matter how much we keep fighting, we always return to each other's arms like two halves of a whole. I love you because you never give me reasons to doubt you and never make me feel unwanted or undesired. I love you because you always make me the center of your universe with your attention and care. I love you because you completed my soul in ways no one ever has. I love you because your selfless love has inspired a trust that you will never leave me alone and never let tears wet my eyes. I love you because your love has fulfilled all my emotional and soulful needs and completed me… you have become my best friend and my soulmate. You are the one who knows me better than anyone in this universe and whose love has made me feel like the most beautiful woman on the planet... I love you because you are my everything… my universe… and everything my soul needs lies in your two loving arms.