My Soul Craves For You.

Whilst I was looking at you today, I wondered what makes me love you so much… You are always there with me, but I still miss you… My heart yearns for you all the time… it’s almost painful. Sometimes it makes me angry or irritated… but still… I never want to be away from you. And that was when I found the answer to my question in your eyes when I looked into them. I find myself there, when you look into my eyes… The feeling goes through my heart and travels into yours… You understand me so well… I never have to ask for anything because you feel what I need. Everything about you makes me so passionate that I forget everything else… My heart forgets all its desires except for you… My soul craves for you… Whenever you talk to me, every other sound ceases to register… the only voice that comes to me is yours and it keeps echoing in my mind for hours. Whenever you are with me I want time to freeze there so that we should never be apart… Being separate from you hurts me so much… I never want to leave you, nor do I want you to ever go away… I want to hold you forever in my arms and hide you in my heart’s treasure box forever and ever…

She Is Your Treasure.

A good woman is a treasure in a man’s life. Whether a girlfriend or a wife, God created woman from a man’s rib to help him and assist him. She knows you need her support, her prayers, her love and most importantly her womb. She works for you, takes care of your every need from good food to a clean home and spares time for you when you need it. But that doesn’t mean she has nothing else to do… it simply means you are the most important thing to her. She knows every single detail about you and is always there to provide everything you ever need laying aside her own needs. She never asks for anything, but gives her 100% to you and the relationship. But that doesn’t mean she doesn’t need anything in return – it simply means she knows you will provide for her needs as she trusts you and understands you. She believes you will understand her needs and desires and fulfill them… BUT… if she is not getting back what she deserves from you then she knows you don’t deserve her. A true woman loves fiercely if she loves you… without any if’s or but’s….and simply adores you. Nothing is more important to her… her world revolves around you. Her days start and end in your arms because you are the only one and no one can ever take your place in her life. But remember that if you don’t give her enough time and attention… if you don’t understand her feelings, her thoughts and her unsaid words… then you don’t deserve her. She is stronger than you… perhaps not physically but emotionally and that’s her biggest strength. You need her more than she needs you in her life, but if you ignore her or don’t give her an important place in your life then you don’t deserve her. SO… if you have that woman in your life right now… a woman who values you and loves you more than her anything else in life….VALUE HER. KEEP HER CLOSE TO YOUR HEART AND TREASURE HER LOVE… SHE IS A GIFT FOR YOU… LOVE HER, RESPECT HER AND ADORE HER…

DON’T TAKE LOVE FOR GRANTED”

We so often take our loved ones for granted thinking they will never leave us. We never seem to realize that every person has a patience level and when that level is reached – nothing can be done to stop that person from moving on. So… before taking someone you love for granted, take a moment to stop and think about it… How long can a person continue to feel ignored or used? One day they’ll stop waiting for you to change… And the moment that their last tear has dropped is the moment they will stop caring about you forever. You will no longer be their priority. They’ll no longer care about what’s right or best for you because you will have worn their love away to nothing. So stop what you’re doing now before its too late. Realize their importance in your life and give them the love and consideration they deserve now – before they shed that last tear and give up on you forever… Give them all your attention and love… show them how much the mean to you… or one day soon it will be too late and you won’t be able to stop them leaving… No amount of apologizing will work… the love will be gone and you won’t be able to save the relationship. You work so hard to towards everything else in your life – and the person you love deserves the same effort. None of those things will matter if you end up alone… Love is the most important thing – so don’t take it for granted…

Keeping Love Alive

How much you love a person… how much you care for them and how much you want to be with them, all depends on how much importance you give to them. The more you love someone, the higher they should be a priority to you and the more time you should take out of your busy schedule for them. Love needs time and attention. If you don’t give Love enough of your time and care, it will wither away before you even know it… Love is something that exists between two people and it needs both of them to put in the same effort to keep that love alive… and the more you love someone – the more effort you should put into keeping them…!!

Everlasting Love

Loving you was never something I had planned… it just happened. The moment I saw you something magical happened … and the moment you first spoke to me it was as if my insides cracked open and some hidden part of me broke free… It whispered your name as if it had been waiting to hear your voice since before time began… That look in your eyes when they met mine… it took my breath away… and the first time you held me my heart stopped beating and I felt like I couldn’t breathe… And even after so many years, my heart still yearns for your touch… my senses still long for your deep voice and when you call my name… time freezes… everything comes to a standstill. To this day – when you hold me in your arms it is as if the whole universe bows before me… You are my serenity amidst this chaos… my repose… Your love sedates all the turbulence of my life… I have loved you since before the ages… I still love you…. and I always will…..

I Want To Know Everything About You.

I know you get annoyed with my endless silly questions – but I ask them because I want to know everything about you! All of you… inside and out. I want to know all your secrets, even the deepest ones that you are afraid to think even about… I want to open up all the hidden closets that your secrets have been hiding in for years… the ones you hid long ago in the hopes you would one day forget about them… I don’t want anyone else to tell me things about you that I am not already aware of… I want to love you so much so that you forget about any pain you have ever gone through. I want to fill your life with happiness and love… I want you to think about me and know that I love you all the time… You are my passion, my obsession… and just as I love you and trust you fully – I want the same from you… I want to be the one you feel passionate about… the one you always want near you… the one you want to talk to the moment you think of something. I want to be the person you want to see the moment you open your eyes… I want to be the one you think of when you think about love. I want you and me… together… just for each other… with no space for anyone in between… forever and ever…

WHEN SEPARATION BECOMES UNBEARABLE

One of the most difficult things to do in a relationship is to stay away from the person you are deeply and madly in love with because this the one person in the world you want to share everything with… All you want to do is tell them about everything that’s happening around you… but you can’t. They’re the one person you want to sleep with… to cuddle up to and hold to feel safe – but the distance between you doesn’t allow it. All you want is to look into their eyes and talk with them so that you don’t have to say things to be understood. You want them to feel what you feel through your body language and the look in your eyes… When you wake up in the morning, theirs is the face you want to see and the lips you want to kiss… You want to wake up in their arms after being wrapped up together all night… But when there’s physical distance in a relationship – everything has to happen within dreams… Your souls must connect only through their thoughts and longings for their other half… And it hurts so much when our bodies want to unite as one and cannot… Long distance love teaches us patience and trust in one another but eventually there comes a time when that patience wears out and all you want to do is break all the barriers between you to be one with that one person once more… To join once again with the one who has captured your soul, your mind and your heart. Your mind wants to connect, your soul wants to be whole again and your body wants to be completely taken over… Love is intense and sometimes it becomes so painful when two hearts become separated it is almost unbearable… Sometimes love from a distance is not enough … because unless you become one, there’s no real intimacy to keep the flame burning… It’s only when you feel your love beside you…snuggling up to you and holding you in their arms that you feel that soulful connection…

HE IS JUST A STRANGER.

If you are still getting upset or angry whenever he calls or messages you – then he is still in your heart. If his contacting you still invokes a strong emotional reaction then he still has a place of importance in your mind… No one can cause us this much trauma unless we give them that power to start with… They don’t have the ability to control our emotions – so if he’s affecting you this much it’s because you’re letting him. The moment you start ignoring him, his calls and messages with become trivial to you and useless to him. Don’t try hating him. Hate is still a feeling that captures your mind… and even though you may have stopped loving him, if you keep hating him, he’s still inside your mind. If you want to forget him – stop thinking about him. Don’t allow yourself to be upset by his calls and messages or anything else he does… Remind yourself he is no longer a person of importance in your life. He is just a stranger to you now… just like anyone else……

A girl seeks a man who..

A girl seeks a man who can calm her mind. A man who can soothe her psyche and hush the deafening roar of chaos inside cluttered mind… And when she finds him… she loves him so relentlessly that she can battle anything – ever her own sanity and reasoning…!!

CHANGING YOUR LIFE

Be honest with yourself about who you are and what you want. Do what you love doing and what makes you happy… don’t look to others to tell you what to do or not… You don’t have to see the world their way. Just once, open your eyes and look at the world for yourself…in your own way… Don’t wait for any special moment. Every moment is special. Don’t keep things crammed up inside you because you were told by others it’s not okay to express them – open yourself up to the idea of being yourself! Feel what it is that you want and then decide… Live in the present moment – it’s the only moment you have. So don’t let others make decisions for you, if you don’t like something – say it! And whatever you do, stop looking back and crying over the past – it’s long gone and future ahead is yet to be seen… The only moment you have is today. If something is bothering you – change it – don’t carry it forward just to please others… You have to please yourself first, so just be honest with yourself… know what you want from life, what you really want to do ….and do it! Do whatever satisfies your soul… If you think you’re not perfect, don’t worry, no one is, so don’t try to be. Just be satisfied with what you have and you will begin to feel perfect in every sense…

A SELF CONFIDENT WOMAN

A WOMAN WHO TRULY KNOWS HER WORTH will never give a man the satisfaction of breaking her or drowning her in a pool of tears and sadness. .. She is not one to let pain break her… You cannot keep a good woman down, no matter how difficult her situation is, no matter how many heartbreaks she has to endure in life… she will rise above everything that tries to weigh her down, over and over again.She doesn’t need a man for her survival. She is the master of her own destiny but that doesn’t mean she is immune to pain, just that she faces it head on. She will not spend all her energy grieving over her bad luck, but rather allows herself the time to heal and recover and then moves forward with her life. She knows better than to keep dwelling on the past – once she left it behind her, she moves on to better things. A woman like that seeks out someone who knows her worth and values her… She is NOT the kind of woman to keep shedding tears for someone who was never worthy of them. She doesn’t look for happiness in the people around her, she finds it in the world she created for herself… and within herself…!!

SHE WILL NEVER GIVE UPON HIM

A truly loving woman never wants to give up on the man she’s always loved… especially when they’ve spent so many years together… She can forgive him again and again – not because she doesn’t get hurt by his actions – but because her love is greater than the pain caused by his silly mistakes… A woman has a soft and tender heart… she may get angry for a while… but when she sees the apologetic look in his eyes or hears the heartbreak in his voice all her anger begins to melt away… and the moment he hugs her is the moment it finally leaves her mind. She can ignore his bad habits and listen to him for hours even when she doesn’t get a single word in… But that doesn’t make her weak… it merely shows the strength of her love for him because it forces any negativity from her mind. It’s precisely those feelings for him that never let her give up and leave the relationship – she stays and fights for what she loves… Because ultimately she values him more than anything else and a loving woman never gives up on the man she loves…

Jealousy

Jealousy, over protectiveness and possessiveness are toxins that will poison a relationship. Every person needs their own space… You can’t cage a person just because of your own insecurities and if you truly love someone you need to allow them to be who they are. If you can’t let that person do things on their own without your watchful eye, you are taking away not only their freedom but their ability to think and do things on their own!! Loving someone doesn’t mean you own them – it means you care for them. There’s a difference between being protective and being controlling… so by all means, keep them safe… but don’t keep them confined…

Where has all the love gone?

I’d never thought that life could be so cruel… That something could hit me so hard that it would shatter all my dreams within seconds and put me on a path to where I am now; alone, lonely and aimless. I feel I have no one beside me. You’ve withdrawn from me and taken everything… all the support I had… I gave you all my love, all my time and all my admiration. You took it all gladly and you loved me back… for a time… But then what happened? Where has all this distance between us come from? What has made you suddenly forget about me and the love we had together? When I try to think back on our time together, all I see is love, comfort and peace. All I recall is happiness and lots of laughter together. There were no signs of grudges or fights we never made up from… We were never the couple to constantly be in tears or arguments… So where has all this need for space suddenly come from? In all the time we were together, you were never like this… We always had so much love, understanding and faith in one another. We were always that “MADE FOR EACH OTHER” couple… so why the sudden separation? I never expected it from you… I would never have dreamt of it in my worst nightmares… You have broken my trust and my heart as well…I don’t think I can ever trust anyone in my life – EVER AGAIN! And now this road you’ve put me on is mine to walk all alone… So as of now – I don’t want anyone else in my life! I don’t want to give anyone else the chance to break my heart or play with my feelings like you did…

The biggest challenge of love

The biggest challenge of love is to keep the fires of passion burning and never let the desire for one another burnout… But if you can master that, you can master the true art of happiness because love keeps you young and happy… It makes you fearless and motivated to achieve things you only ever dreamed of before… Love is an energy source that uplifts the spirits not only of yourself – but that of the person you love. It boosts self-esteem and confidence because you know you always have that one special person who believes in you no matter what. Love is treasuring the person you’re with and the bond the two of you share together… It is a perfect blend of two imperfect souls that merged together like oxygen in air… Love means being the real you, without any changes… with all your flaws and imperfections… and being loved just as you are…

FALSE EGO WILL TAKE YOU NOWHERE.

FALSE EGO WILL TAKE YOU NOWHERE.



Ego and attitude make a person so rude and arrogant that they forget they are a flawed human being just like everyone else. Egotistical people tend to forget that every person they treat badly is deeply hurt by their behavior… It never occurs to them that THEY are a source of pain for so many people. When a person is controlled by their own ego, it takes over their mind and their heart… It controls their feelings to a point where they can no longer see or understand anyone else but themselves. To an egotistical person – THEY are always right…. THEIR words should always be the last ones… THEIRS is the only option worth listening to… A person like that becomes incapable of seeing things from another’s point of view and cannot empathize with the pain of others. Blinded by their own arrogance, they will keep repeating the same mistakes over and over, forgetting the rule of KARMA… which says “today it is me – but tomorrow it can be you”. So before hurting others… stop and think about it. Are you really on the right? False ego and self-righteous attitudes never take you anywhere… All they will do is take away the love others have for you and eventually leave you completely alone because the only people left will be the ones who need something from you; the hypocrites, the users, and the liars. The only people you will have left are people who neither love you nor respect you – but hate you inside…

TREASURED MEMORIES

TREASURED MEMORIES

My memories have played an important part in my life as they are the treasures I keep safely inside my heart. They’ve made me laugh and they’ve made me cry… Sometimes, when I’m alone they are my only companion. I could spend hours with you looking back on our life together… Some memories bring tears as I miss old times and people I used to know, other memories make me happy, and some memories I look back on just to appreciate the life lessons they taught me. I know it’s important to live in the moment, but remembering the past is important too… Often l will reminisce the good times we’ve had over the years and it rekindles that love again… The memories of our relationship lighten my heart and every new moment we share will stay with me for a lifetime. That is why I never forget any moment of my life and keep my recollections safe within the treasure box of my heart… so I can recall them again at a moment’s notice relive those old times again anytime I wish. It is those happy memories that soothe me whenever I’m upset or angry. I simply remember back to a time when there was nothing but love and happiness between us and realize that’s the way I want us to be again… And all I have to do is remember how much I love you…

LOVE THAT LITTLE GIRL INSIDE HER

LOVE THAT LITTLE GIRL INSIDE HER

Every woman has a little girl inside who stays young forever – she never fully grows up. A woman may age in years, but she’ll never grow out of wanting someone who holds her hand and makes her feel special with a warm hug and a gentle kiss… Despite her independent spirit, she still wants a man whose lap she can lay her head on after a long tiring day and have a peaceful sleep… Someone who can make her forget all the worries and stresses of adult life. Sometimes she’ll break loose and behave in a crazy, fun loving way… Sometimes she’ll want to be treated like a princess and have someone pamper her because it makes her feel like her efforts are appreciated and it makes her feel important. A woman… if loved, pampered and appreciated for right things, becomes more beautiful and lovable and she retains her youthful spirit. If you invest the time to make her feel important and never let her feel alone… she will make you the happiest man in the world with her love and care… Consider it an investment because whatever you give her, you will get back multiplied in ways you never thought of… If you care for the little girl inside her – a woman will never disappoint you……

THE WAY TO A WOMAN’S HEART

THE WAY TO A WOMAN’S HEART

A woman has the softest and the kindest heart… When she loves – she loves hard and never compromises her devotion for anything. But some men seem to have difficulty reaching the core of her heart… but to them, I would say that it is easy to win a woman’s love; to make her heart and soul your own… You just have to love her truly and never take her for granted. The key to a woman’s heart is to love her deeply and honestly and to give her your time and your attention. A true woman never wants gifts or money…she can be completely satisfied when you hold her in your arms and kiss her passionately… True love never asks for valuable gifts or big houses or big bank balances… A true woman can be happy with you anywhere if loved, cared for and respected… So respect her feelings and virtues… Never take her for granted…be honest and stay faithful to her… and SHE will be yours forever…!!

Neena Gupta