NEVER LET THEM GO..

NEVER LET THEM GO..Every person has a darker side, a side which they are too afraid to share with anyone – not even themselves. We all have memories we try to forget and things we keep hidden inside… We never like to let anyone inside those hidden corners of our heart – but once in a lifetime, we meet someone who loves us so much that they allow us to shed all our inhibitions and fears… At some point in our lives, one person will come along and open all the doors to that dark room which we kept hidden for so long. They will make us so comfortable with who we are that we will completely forget our fear of opening up those dark areas which we were always so afraid to let anybody see. Slowly we will let this person see us, and when the light of their love touches the dark parts within us, it illuminates us… It is as if they have brought a rainbow of color and light into our lives to brighten those ugly dark corners that were left untouched for years… This person, whose love will lighten the darkest corners of your soul, will gather all those broken and scattered parts of your heart and heal and sooth them with their love and care… A PERSON LIKE THAT only comes once in a lifetime… God gives every one of us a chance to rebuild our life… to be happy again, and to forget the darkest moments in our life… This person was sent to us by Gods true love so that we can be transformed into what he intended us to be… We are born again with new dreams and a life full of love and tenderness… If you’re lucky enough to have already found that one special person who has lit up every dark room in your soul – hold them tight and keep their light inside the treasure box of your heart… Love them with all of your heart, and together you can create for yourselves a beautiful life…

A MOTHERS DREAM

A MOTHERS DREAM

A child is a mother’s pride… For God gave the woman the power to create life and when she carries a child for nine months and that new life finally opens its eyes she feels a sense of pride unlike any other. It is a pride within herself and a pride of her femininity. In her newborn child, she sees herself and all her dreams… she nurtures it with her life. And when that child opens its mouth to speak, its first words are her title as creator… MOM. In that moment she is the happiest person on earth and when she holds her little girl’s hand with her tiny fingers entwined, she feels as if she is holding the entire universe… At her daughters’ first steps, a mother learns to walk and talk with her and watches her proudly… And the day she first ventures out of her mother’s lap to learn new things, to see the world with her own eyes – she becomes a student of the world and makes her mother proud. Her mother will always be there to teach her and to hold her, but eventually, little girls grow big and go out into the world to do something for themselves… And a mother feels proud of her every achievement, her values, and her ethics… all that she carries within herself as she ventures to new places. The little girl who was a part of her body, her heart which is inseparable from her mothers, moves on to do something big… something new. It doesn’t matter if it’s big or small or how much it matters to the world – to a mother, her child’s every accomplishment IS her world! The moment her daughter turns her dreams into reality – a mother’s own dreams become real because she is the creator… She has given her love and care never asking for anything in return because it was all for this moment…A woman’s greatest accomplishment is her child… and she celebrates her child’s accomplishment as her own…

WHAT’S MISSING FROM OUR RELATIONSHIP IS YOU

WHAT’S MISSING FROM OUR RELATIONSHIP IS YOU

My patience has run out. I can’t wait around for your time and attention anymore… I can’t allow myself to stoop to a level where I have to beg you for your love and care – because if you really loved me in the first place you’d give me my share of your time, attention, and love… But no, I have to purposely draw you’re your attention every time for you to even notice I’m here… I have to ask for your time and love because you never freely give it… but not anymore. When we first met you was different. You had time for me, you loved me so much more than you do now… But as time went on, you started showing your true colors and proved you really never cared for anyone but yourself. You have always been the one I have given all my love and attention to… I gave you all of me, and all I wanted was to be loved back… Feelings from the heart always need to be reciprocated… and if you won’t love in return – how can I keep loving you?? If you can’t respect my feelings for you… if you can’t give me your time… my heart will tire and my feelings for you will wither away. Love is not a one man’s game… it takes two people to keep a relationship alive… But you never take me seriously… You’ve never once thought to give back even a portion of the love you receive from me. And now I don’t want to cry for you any longer. I don’t want to wait for your calls or beg you for your time… it’s your turn now. If you really love me – you make the first move! You come to me!! If I am important to you and you want us to be together forever – you’ll make an effort and mend your ways. All I’m asking for is your time and attention to nurture this relationship… and if I don’t get it I have no choice but to leave because, either way, it amounts to the same thing… either way, I feel alone…! 

LOVE ME AS I LOVE YOU”

LOVE ME AS I LOVE YOU”

I feel that you will never understand my love or my affection towards you. In fact, I don’t think you can ever feel for me the same way I feel for you… you don’t have a heart like mine. You’ve always been a more ‘practical’ person than I am… you see things very differently to me – even love. I’m the kind of person who feels and thinks with my heart and follows where it leads… I never use logic when it comes to love or emotions… and you never seem to use your heart. But in spite of our differences, my heart still wants you, still loves you and still hopes for the same type of love from you in return, knowing you will never change. It feels almost like a cruel joke… but as they say – love knows no boundaries and no rules. So now that I’ve come to understand you, I am freeing myself from all the expectations my heart has for you…I am trying to accept every part of you – even the things that may not make me as happy as I’d like – in the hopes that they won’t hurt me so much anymore. I tried so hard to change you but I failed and now I’ve decided not to try anymore. I love you from the depths of my heart… and will keep loving you till my last breath… And yes, I’ve cried for you more times than I could count – but not anymore. I no longer wish to change you… I have learned that the only person who can make you love like I do – it’s you. So I will wait for you to come to me and express your feelings using your heart… and if you do not… then over time my heart will learn to live without you…and I will not think twice about moving on…!! 

NOTHING MAKES YOU WEAKER

NOTHING MAKES YOU WEAKER

Love surely makes you weak… You think of your love all the time… You do things for them and try to spend as much time with them as you can and give them everything you have to give… You’d give up everything just to be with them, even your own strength… Love makes you sensitive – so much so, that even the slightest pain brings tears to your eyes and the smallest of arguments will break your heart… Love is a distraction… you are always in your own little dream world without noticing what’s going on around you… And though love is a necessity for life – it kills you every moment that your love is not with you… Love makes you so weak that you can’t even do things on your own any more… it takes away your power to think and make decisions… It makes you so completely dependent that at times you feel crippled and unable to even ask for help… Nothing makes you stronger than love… but at the same time…. Nothing makes you weaker…!! 

NOTHING MAKES YOU WEAKER

NOTHING MAKES YOU WEAKER

Love surely makes you weak… You think of your love all the time… You do things for them and try to spend as much time with them as you can and give them everything you have to give… You’d give up everything just to be with them, even your own strength… Love makes you sensitive – so much so, that even the slightest pain brings tears to your eyes and the smallest of arguments will break your heart… Love is a distraction… you are always in your own little dream world without noticing what’s going on around you… And though love is a necessity for life – it kills you every moment that your love is not with you… Love makes you so weak that you can’t even do things on your own any more… it takes away your power to think and make decisions… It makes you so completely dependent that at times you feel crippled and unable to even ask for help… Nothing makes you stronger than love… but at the same time…. Nothing makes you weaker…!! 

LOVE RECHARGES HER

LOVE RECHARGES HER

No matter how tired or exhausted a woman is, she will always want to spend time with the man she truly loves because when he holds her in his arms she feels at home and can finally find peace. The moment she lays her head on his chest and hears his heartbeat, it soothes her weary mind, her aching body and her weakened soul…. It is only in his arms that she finds herself safe and relaxed… It is only here – wrapped in love and affection – that she will feel renewed. True love is not an effort at the end of a long and tiring day – it is the salvation! 

A WORD OF ADVICE

A WORD OF ADVICE

Let me tell you something… If someone forgives you for your every mistake – even when you make the same ones over and over again; if they keep their mouth shut every time you lose your cool over something and never argue with you – even when you’re in the wrong… If your relationship is the only thing that matters to them and they think of you more than everything else…. Then they’re the one for you. Never let them go. People like that are like diamonds – they are rare and hard to find. A person like that is a once in a lifetime find and you’ll never forgive yourself if you lose them. So do anything and everything to keep them – even if it means changing yourself into a better person just to keep them because chances are you need them in your life and the worst way to find that out is after it’s too late and they’ve gone. So make today the day you decide to make a change… Make today the day to learn to appreciate and love this amazing person the way they deserve to be loved. Hold onto them, love them with all of your heart and always keep them close…

A WOMAN WHO TRULY LOVES YOU

A WOMAN WHO TRULY LOVES YOU

~ Never leaves you alone… 
~ Is always there to hold your hand through every storm that come your way… 
~ Never tries to hurt you with your past, cherishes her present with you and always looks forward to a beautiful future with you… 
~ Showers all her love and affection on you, pampers you and fusses over you…. 
~ Never lets you down and always tries to avoid a fight because she’ll never want to jeopardize the relationship
~ Forgives all your mistakes and always make you her highest priority… 
~ Listens to you carefully even when she’s tired simply because she wants to know every single thing about you…. 
~ Understands you and never argues… 
~ Makes you her world and does everything in her power to keep you happy…

WE WERE DESTINED TO BE TOGETHER

WE WERE DESTINED TO BE TOGETHER

We’ve been together for so many years and yet I still feel the same way about you as I did when we first met…. You truly are the man of my dreams. The memory of your first touch still lingers in my mind… I remember so clearly, it was as if you were touching my very soul… The moments when I’m in your arms are the moments when everything feels right in the world. Your smile and your laughter make me feel alive and vibrant and I cannot help but feel we were destined to walk through life together…. With you – every day is a new day and even when we have our troubles you never let them overshadow another day…. Even if it means apologizing when I am the one in the wrong, you’ll do anything to ensure the dawning of a new day brings us happiness. My whole world centers around you…. Each morning starts looking into your eyes and every day ends in your arms. It is the one place in the world I find peace, almost as if it’s my own private heaven. You truly are my savior… You have transformed me into a happier woman and your love has dried my tears and healed the bruises that once marked my heart and soul. I still have goose bumps when you call me… still get that shiver down my spine when you hug me. I still crave you the way I always have… And it’s all because of you! Your love, your care and your tenderness… You truly are my one and only…!! 

NEVER LET YOUR LOVE FADE

NEVER LET YOUR LOVE FADE

It seems the more time that goes by, the more complicated our relationships become. When we first meet someone and want their love, we do anything and everything to win their affection. We give them all our time and attention… in fact, we do just about everything possible to show our affection so they know that we love them and love us in return. But often, once we have that person’s love, we unwittingly start taking them for granted….Our time – which was once all theirs – gets divided amongst other endeavors…. Their tantrums, quirks, and mood swings – which we once found endearing – begin to irritate us… Their needs, their wants and their desire to talk non-stop for hours about everything that crosses their mind which we used to indulge before – now becomes an annoyance…. Slowly, the love that we have for them begins to erode and the relationship begins to weaken. Before we realize it, that bond we worked so hard to achieve begins to loosen, and a day eventually comes when the two people who used to always be there for one another are nowhere to be seen. And it’s sad to think that two hearts that used to beat as one before have now become sad and lonely and have begun looking for new ways to find peace when all it would have taken was a little effort to keep that love alive. Never let the one you love feel alone or lonely. If you truly love each other – never take them for granted and never let that bond of love loosen… Because hearts eventually become weary from waiting and fights which are never resolved. And even if you win your love back – an unseen line of separation will always remain, like a scar of the hurts of the past. So don’t let that happen… Devote the same amount of time, energy and love into KEEPING your relationship as you did to build it… Never let the love between you fade away…!! 

YOU ARE MY BLESSING.

YOU ARE MY BLESSING.

Time flies by so fast… it feels as if it was only yesterday when I first saw you. It was the day all my prayers have been answered…. Even now, when I look into your eyes it’s as if time ceases… and when you hold me in your arms everything between us freezes and my soul ascends to a new realm as it has finally FOUND ITS WAY HOME…. You cast a spell on me and instant I am transformed into a new me with your touch… In you I have found a life-long companion who listens to me and guides me; who is always there to wipe my tears away…. A guardian and friend who never lets anyone or anything hurt me…. You love me so much that I forget all the pain I ever had before you… Your voice alone relieves me of my pain and your love is the healing power that frees me of all my heartaches. You love me so much that I want to drown in it more every day. I love you and need you more with every passing day… You are my soul’s other half, my dream, my eternal lover…. my EVERYTHING. My mornings have become brighter because you look into my eyes lovingly, and when you hug me I want time to stop forever in that moment… We’ve had our fights and arguments but you never let me take them to bed. You are always the first one to come to me to make things right between us. You have loved me so much that you’ve given new meaning to my life and you continue to love me completely… even after so many years. I still have those goosebumps when you call my name….I still get shivers in spine when you hold me… It’s as if we have only just met. Our love is eternal. It will never fade away nor will it ever perish. You have always been and always will be only one for me… We were paired by GOD’S own hands and will never leave each other’s side. Our bond is so strong that even death cannot break it… I want to live each and every moment with you. We are lovers since the dawn of time and will remain together for all eternity……

LIFE WAS NEVER SO BEAUTIFUL BEFORE

LIFE WAS NEVER SO BEAUTIFUL BEFORE

From the moment you came into it – my life has never been the same… Before you, I never dreamed of the moon and the stars… But since that night we sat under the moon and looked up at the stars together I fell in love with the night sky – just as I fell in love with you. You showed me the beauty in the simplest things… a beauty I had never noticed until I saw the world through your eyes. I had never been a believer in wild romantic love stories… but from the moment we met my life became a never ending love story… Throughout my life I’d had so many sleepless nights with nothing but tears in my eyes… but instead, you filled them with your dreams and fantasies… You’ve changed my life into exactly the kind of beautiful romanticism I had only ever read about… The kind where love gives you wings and you never grow tired of flying… where nothing can hurt you because your heart is filled with endless love… where all you do is smile because the happiness and love you receive take away all the pain and hurt from your past… Thank you for changing my life. …

I WANT A LIFE OF MY OWN.

LOVE IS A FINITE SOURCE..

RELATIONSHIP RULES

RELATIONSHIP RULES

– Respect one another
– Be genuine with each other
– Be honest and truthful 
– Always make time for the relationship
– Always look for the good in your partner
– Missing each other is healthy
– Be there when you are needed
– Never hurt your partner
– Never take fights to bed
– Don’t take your partner for granted
– Try to be understanding and empathetic
– Never ignore each other
– Dream together and work on them together.

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE

YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE

You hurt me again today … but this was the last time. THIS was the last straw… Today you’ve shown me once and for all that you can’t change. There’s no room left in my heart for apologies or hopes anymore… I was the only one trying to save this relationship – but you kept destroying it. You’ve never taken it seriously. Every time you’ve even done any thing wrong I’ve forgiven you because I loved you… I still love you… but all you do is hurt me again and again and I can’t keep ignoring everything you do just because I love you… A relationship has to be an equal effort… and every time you’ve ever said sorry I’ve accepted it… but this time I can’t… You have completely broken my heart and thrashed all my hopes to change you into a better person. I’m done. I’m not trying anymore. You’ve proved to me that you will never change… no matter how much I love you or how hard I try… You have always been and always will be the same old you who never takes love seriously; who thinks feelings are a waste of time; who has absolutely no respect for my feelings or this relationship. I can’t wait for you to change anymore… This is the moment I have come to the realization that YOU WILL NEVER CHANGE!! Today is the day I refuse to be a victim ever again. I will not give you any more chances to abuse me or hurt me. IT’S ALL OVER… dead and gone… today was just the final nail in the coffin! You’ve left me no choice but to give up on you and our relationship…. This is GOOD BYE..!!

I miss you

I miss you

I miss you in the early hours of the day. I miss you more when the moon hugs the night sky… I miss you every moment of my life… I wait for your calls and messages when you go to work and I wait for you to come back to me and hold me in your arms… Whenever you leave, you take my heart and soul with you. You leave me numb… And I know you have no time to miss me because you’re so busy – but I simply can’t help myself… I can’t stop my mind from thinking about you… Every time I close my eyes I see you and miss you more… All I want is for you to understand my love for you… for you to know how overwhelming my feelings for you are… Only then you could you possibly understand my anger and my sadness… It’s all because of you… my every feeling, my every desire – is for you… I want you and I need you…. WITH me, BESIDE me, ALL the time, EVERY moment.. I don’t want you to ever leave me… I feel like I’m suffocating whenever you go and when I can’t see you for long periods of time, my heart begins to fill with sadness and longing… And after a time, it changes into anger – and when you come back after long intervals I WANT you to sweep me up you’re your arms without a moments pause…but you don’t. My constant yearning to be with you makes me angry… but it’s not real anger… It’s my love for you that’s built up every day that goes by…. It is a though the distance between us makes me fall more in love with you each day… and without you, I feel so helpless….