Friday, September 30, 2016
LIVE BIG DREAM BIGGER
LIVE BIG DREAM BIGGER I want you to do things you never had the courage to do before…I want you to take that one step you always wanted to take but were too afraid to. There’s always going to be a first time for everything, and yes, it’s nerve-racking – but never let that stop you! If you don’t try, you’ll never win at anything… Life is all about taking risks… I want you to think the impossible, work towards your dreams and believe in yourself – no matter what others think of you…. I want you to gather every bit of courage you have and face every storm that comes your way whilst continuing to pursue your dreams…. I want you to never once fall asleep with tears in your eyes from a lifetime of broken dreams. I want you to rise every morning with new hopes for a new day. Always believe… LIFE CAN BE DIFFICULT, BUT ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE… Whatever you want – you can achieve it! If not today, then perhaps tomorrow because tomorrow belongs to only you… Just have patience and never lose hope….!!
Thursday, September 29, 2016
RUNNING ON EMPTY
RUNNING ON EMPTY
All relationships need people who cater to each other’s needs be they physical, emotional or spiritual… but sometimes there’s an imbalance in what each person gets out of that relationship.Sometimes a woman takes care of everything in the relationship… She gives up all her own dreams and desires to fulfill the needs of others… She’ll be the one to stand beside everyone come Hell or high water and is always there whenever anyone needs her, and all the while never asking for anything in return because her family is her number one priority…. But eventually there comes a point when she gets tired doing everything for everyone and being strong all the time and something inside her begins to break. Eventually, the time comes when her spirit becomes utterly exhausted from constantly giving support to everyone else… Any woman who’s strong all the time will eventually need to be taken care of and loved… A woman who consistently cares for the needs of others will eventually want someone to ask her what SHE really wants and hold her when she’s feeling low. Everyone wants to be pampered every once in a while – especially those who do everything without ever taking a break for themselves. Even the strongest of us need emotional support and someone to love and support them through difficult times. Every woman needs someone who understands her silence more than their words….Because often it is the person who GIVES the most to others that is often the one that is running on empty and desperately needs to RECEIVE a little love and care in return…
All relationships need people who cater to each other’s needs be they physical, emotional or spiritual… but sometimes there’s an imbalance in what each person gets out of that relationship.Sometimes a woman takes care of everything in the relationship… She gives up all her own dreams and desires to fulfill the needs of others… She’ll be the one to stand beside everyone come Hell or high water and is always there whenever anyone needs her, and all the while never asking for anything in return because her family is her number one priority…. But eventually there comes a point when she gets tired doing everything for everyone and being strong all the time and something inside her begins to break. Eventually, the time comes when her spirit becomes utterly exhausted from constantly giving support to everyone else… Any woman who’s strong all the time will eventually need to be taken care of and loved… A woman who consistently cares for the needs of others will eventually want someone to ask her what SHE really wants and hold her when she’s feeling low. Everyone wants to be pampered every once in a while – especially those who do everything without ever taking a break for themselves. Even the strongest of us need emotional support and someone to love and support them through difficult times. Every woman needs someone who understands her silence more than their words….Because often it is the person who GIVES the most to others that is often the one that is running on empty and desperately needs to RECEIVE a little love and care in return…
Wednesday, September 28, 2016
ACCEPTING THE GOOD AND THE BAD
ACCEPTING THE GOOD AND THE BAD
It is often said that every person you meet in life is sent to you to teach you something… Everything in our lives is already pre-written….. Every person that comes into our lives is predestined to give us something and takes something from us in return… Sometimes the only thing they have to give us is negative and the only thing that they take from us is our happiness… and sadly we can’t refuse this exchange as it is already fated to be this way…. Every relationship is about give and take – even the bad ones. We will always give something of ourselves and take something from the other person in return… Because at the heart of every relationship is an exchange; of thoughts, values, happiness, pain and tears… We cannot change or alter our fates… whatever has to happen will happen, in its own time and in its own way. It is not for us to challenge God’s will……
It is often said that every person you meet in life is sent to you to teach you something… Everything in our lives is already pre-written….. Every person that comes into our lives is predestined to give us something and takes something from us in return… Sometimes the only thing they have to give us is negative and the only thing that they take from us is our happiness… and sadly we can’t refuse this exchange as it is already fated to be this way…. Every relationship is about give and take – even the bad ones. We will always give something of ourselves and take something from the other person in return… Because at the heart of every relationship is an exchange; of thoughts, values, happiness, pain and tears… We cannot change or alter our fates… whatever has to happen will happen, in its own time and in its own way. It is not for us to challenge God’s will……
Tuesday, September 27, 2016
IT’S TIME TO SLOW DOWN
IT’S TIME TO SLOW DOWN
I’m done! Done with chasing everyone and everything; Done with running to get everywhere in life… and all so as to acquire everything life has to offer… But all this time I’ve been chasing everything – I never once stopped to ask my own heart what it wants. What is it that makes ME happy and content? What is it that I REALLY want?? It seems like everyone around me has everything they ever desired and everything they could ever want from me. Everyone ELSE is satisfied… but I’m not. When I look back on my life, I don’t see anything that can give me lasting happiness… except perhaps the smiles of others that are because of the happiness I provided them. But where is my happiness? When I look at my past all I see is chaos, there’s no memories I can cherish. All that time I was thinking about everyone else – their needs, their wants, their happiness…. and I’d always run so fast so as to fulfill their demands. But I never listened to my heart, my mind or the needs of my body. I worked harder than I was capable of – but now I want to relax. I need a break from the fast life… I need to listen to my heart and do the things that make ME happy…. I want to stop and listen to the murmuring of my heart that is asking to be loved… For once, I want to be pampered! I want to drift into a relaxing sleep and sail away into my own dreamland… My own little world… I want to take some time for myself so I can look at my life and have some memories to cherish. I want to relive my childhood and once again live a life where I can envision my dreams and live a carefree life…. I want that life now! …. I’m done with all this hustle and bustle….
I’m done! Done with chasing everyone and everything; Done with running to get everywhere in life… and all so as to acquire everything life has to offer… But all this time I’ve been chasing everything – I never once stopped to ask my own heart what it wants. What is it that makes ME happy and content? What is it that I REALLY want?? It seems like everyone around me has everything they ever desired and everything they could ever want from me. Everyone ELSE is satisfied… but I’m not. When I look back on my life, I don’t see anything that can give me lasting happiness… except perhaps the smiles of others that are because of the happiness I provided them. But where is my happiness? When I look at my past all I see is chaos, there’s no memories I can cherish. All that time I was thinking about everyone else – their needs, their wants, their happiness…. and I’d always run so fast so as to fulfill their demands. But I never listened to my heart, my mind or the needs of my body. I worked harder than I was capable of – but now I want to relax. I need a break from the fast life… I need to listen to my heart and do the things that make ME happy…. I want to stop and listen to the murmuring of my heart that is asking to be loved… For once, I want to be pampered! I want to drift into a relaxing sleep and sail away into my own dreamland… My own little world… I want to take some time for myself so I can look at my life and have some memories to cherish. I want to relive my childhood and once again live a life where I can envision my dreams and live a carefree life…. I want that life now! …. I’m done with all this hustle and bustle….
SHE’S NOT ANGRY BUT MISSING YOU
SHE’S NOT ANGRY BUT MISSING YOU
If she’s angry with you and starts shouting for no apparent reason, the best thing you can do is stop and listen to every word she says…. Don’t question her reasoning, don’t stop her mid-sentence or counter argue and most of all – DON’T ask why is she suddenly so upset ! Just wait until she finishes – then go to her, hug her and kiss her lips…. I promise she will melt in no moment ! Because if she flies off the handle like that for no good reason then chances are, she wasn’t sad or upset – she just missed you and felt frustrated by your absence. She WANTS you to understand how upset missing you makes her feel… but she doesn’t want to TELL you… she just wants you to FEEL it… Because deep down, every woman’s heart is as fragile as a child’s … Every woman wants to be loved and taken care of by her man. And like a parent will always care for a child – so should a man take care of a woman, no matter how much the two of them age… Every woman will become upset and angry when not given proper love and attention for long periods of time. When she can’t take that distance and emotional separation anymore she gets sad and irritated and loses her temper over trivial things – often for as long as that disconnection continues. But the moment you connect with her… the moment she feels you understood her pain and knows that you love her – all that anger dissipates because it was really all her hurt and frustration disguised as anger and it needed to be released. So go to her… tell her you love her… and hug all that negativity away!…….
If she’s angry with you and starts shouting for no apparent reason, the best thing you can do is stop and listen to every word she says…. Don’t question her reasoning, don’t stop her mid-sentence or counter argue and most of all – DON’T ask why is she suddenly so upset ! Just wait until she finishes – then go to her, hug her and kiss her lips…. I promise she will melt in no moment ! Because if she flies off the handle like that for no good reason then chances are, she wasn’t sad or upset – she just missed you and felt frustrated by your absence. She WANTS you to understand how upset missing you makes her feel… but she doesn’t want to TELL you… she just wants you to FEEL it… Because deep down, every woman’s heart is as fragile as a child’s … Every woman wants to be loved and taken care of by her man. And like a parent will always care for a child – so should a man take care of a woman, no matter how much the two of them age… Every woman will become upset and angry when not given proper love and attention for long periods of time. When she can’t take that distance and emotional separation anymore she gets sad and irritated and loses her temper over trivial things – often for as long as that disconnection continues. But the moment you connect with her… the moment she feels you understood her pain and knows that you love her – all that anger dissipates because it was really all her hurt and frustration disguised as anger and it needed to be released. So go to her… tell her you love her… and hug all that negativity away!…….
Sunday, September 25, 2016
YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE
YOU ARE IN CONTROL OF YOUR LIFE
Never let anyone or anything take over your mind and your heart. Never let anything affect your mood or your feelings… YOU are your own master! Do whatever it is you want to do – but never expect others to do things your way… You may love someone or you may hate them – but never do anything you don’t want to because of them… The thought and the desire is either there or it’s not – never let anyone else convince you that what THEY want is what you want. Only YOU know that! You should never allow anyone to have that kind of power over you .God has given you your own mind and individuality and that is enough power to make or break your own life… So no matter how powerless you may feel – never let your breakups or failures affect your dreams and never allow people who know nothing about your life decide your fate for you… Wake up and do things on your own! Never give up when failure strikes you… there’s always a new day, a new morning and new opportunities ahead. Don’t close your eyes to the light coming your way or you’ll miss out on the opportunities that are coming towards you. There’s always another door waiting for you to open… So get up, open it and step through – Your destiny awaits you…
Never let anyone or anything take over your mind and your heart. Never let anything affect your mood or your feelings… YOU are your own master! Do whatever it is you want to do – but never expect others to do things your way… You may love someone or you may hate them – but never do anything you don’t want to because of them… The thought and the desire is either there or it’s not – never let anyone else convince you that what THEY want is what you want. Only YOU know that! You should never allow anyone to have that kind of power over you .God has given you your own mind and individuality and that is enough power to make or break your own life… So no matter how powerless you may feel – never let your breakups or failures affect your dreams and never allow people who know nothing about your life decide your fate for you… Wake up and do things on your own! Never give up when failure strikes you… there’s always a new day, a new morning and new opportunities ahead. Don’t close your eyes to the light coming your way or you’ll miss out on the opportunities that are coming towards you. There’s always another door waiting for you to open… So get up, open it and step through – Your destiny awaits you…
Saturday, September 24, 2016
My wish for you
My wish for you
My wish for you is that you fall for a person who will love you deeply, who will always be there when you need them and will never let you feel alone or unwanted. I want you to have someone in your life who never lets you fall asleep with tears in your eyes… a person who helps you both in the kitchen and in life – who never lets you do it all on your own…. I want you to find someone who holds your hand and proudly walks with you in public for the world to see… someone who wants the world to see you and admire you…. I want you to have someone who will always cheer you up… whose love will always exhilarate you and who’s loving gestures never fail to pick you up when you’re feeling down… I want you to find someone who will always stand beside you in everything and never takes you for granted… Someone who can see you at your worst and still loves you just as you are….. And last but not the least… I wish for you to fall for a person who takes care of your heart as if it were their own… Someone who feels proud to have you in their life and gives you the love and respect you truly deserve…
My wish for you is that you fall for a person who will love you deeply, who will always be there when you need them and will never let you feel alone or unwanted. I want you to have someone in your life who never lets you fall asleep with tears in your eyes… a person who helps you both in the kitchen and in life – who never lets you do it all on your own…. I want you to find someone who holds your hand and proudly walks with you in public for the world to see… someone who wants the world to see you and admire you…. I want you to have someone who will always cheer you up… whose love will always exhilarate you and who’s loving gestures never fail to pick you up when you’re feeling down… I want you to find someone who will always stand beside you in everything and never takes you for granted… Someone who can see you at your worst and still loves you just as you are….. And last but not the least… I wish for you to fall for a person who takes care of your heart as if it were their own… Someone who feels proud to have you in their life and gives you the love and respect you truly deserve…
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