A man who really loves his woman will respect and trust her. He will understand her motivations – even if it means she’s not able to give him as much of her time as he’d like. He won’t pick fights with her because he trusts her and values her... A man who really loves a woman loves her with all of her flaws and imperfections and helps her overcome life’s obstacles with his love and care... He doesn’t make judgments or bring up her past to hurt her, but helps her forget everything and everyone that has ever hurt her because all he wants is the happiness and comfort of the one person in the world he understands better than everyone else.
In order to be loved, taken care of and respected you have to give the same to your partner. You can't expect love and care and understanding if you don't stand by them in their time of need just as you can't expect someone to give you their time if you never spare any time for them. A relationship is a two-way street… if you won't give your full attention TO someone you cannot expect it FROM them. Most people will not beg for your time and attention but will look for other things to keep them busy instead… You can’t ask someone to give away their self-respect. If your relationship is the most important thing to you then you won’t give your lover reasons to be angry or cry… Instead, you will give them everything they deserve without being asked. That's the real essence of LOVE… when it is given freely and abundantly.
Never beg anyone for time or attention they are not willing to give you freely. Anyone who truly loves you will always make time for you out of their busy schedule no matter what. Always remember that if someone wants to spend their life with you, they will always respect you and will never make you feel unwanted or undesired. A person who truly believes in you and trusts you will make you an integral part of their and will always keep you informed about the goings on in their lives. Real love never has to be chased or asked for; if it’s not given to you freely then it was never truly yours. If your feelings are not being reciprocated and your calls for love are not being answered then each of you are with the wrong person and the sooner you understand that the less pain this unrequited love will cause you in the long term.
Any thing I ever said is because I want to make you a better person… someone who can make me proud… someone who I can always count on… someone who I always find beside me... But it’s never happened… you always take my words the wrong way and twist them into something else. I never ever hurt you or disrespected you intentionally… All I ever wanted was to change your bad habits that are harmful both for you and for us. I feel as though with you, I always come after everything else… I am never your priority It’s as though you think I’ll never leave you and will always be here. If you ever need anything, you know where to find me, but you always seem to take that for granted, forgetting that no matter how much I love you, I have my limits. And now that time has come... I can't be your second choice forever. I always wanted to be your first and for that, I have given up everything. But you never gave me my place and now I am done with the pain caused by being your second choice. If you really ever loved me and you really need me in your life, then you have to give me the place within it that I deserve.
A man who loves you deeply will make you his life. He’ll never hurt you or disrespect you but will always make you his top most priority. He never lies to you, in fact, he tells you every bitter truth about his life because he knows you love and understand him and is never afraid of being judged. He‘ll let you into places within his heart that he’s never shown to anyone before...because when a man truly deeply and madly loves someone, he gives himself completely without any fear or reservations…He opens up his heart and his life for the one person he’s been looking for, for as long as he can remember. He will open up every secret door to his heart that he has kept close his whole life because he knows that with you his heart will be taken care of...he knows with you..he never has to be someone else he is not.....he knows within you, he has found his better half, his soulmate..his own shadow.
I didn't fall in love with you because I was lost or lonely but because after knowing you, my heart wanted to make you a permanent part of its world. I still remember that first day when I looked into your eyes and my whole world flipped. I felt so complete and alive and even the silence between us was comfortable… It was a soul connection that was destined to happen... Every time I look into your eyes, I see my soul staring back at me… and that moment when you hold my hand and my fingers fit in yours perfectly makes me realize we were meant to be. I love you in every possible way. I know I can be insane at times and have bad mood swings, but I promise you that no one can ever think of loving you as much as I do. I can't promise you that dark clouds will never hover over us or that we will have only rainbows in our future... but I promise you my unconditional love, my honesty, my loyalty and my complete devotion to you. I promise to be with you through your bad days and good days ahead. I promise you that I'll always do my best to make you happy and cheerful.
I love you because you have loved me with all my imperfections and made me feel perfect. I love you because you are the only one who has understood my pain and healed my scars with your love and care. I love you because you never make me feel lonely even when you are at a distance from me because your thoughts are always with me.... I love you because no matter how much we keep fighting, we always return to each other's arms like two halves of a whole. I love you because you never give me reasons to doubt you and never make me feel unwanted or undesired. I love you because you always make me the center of your universe with your attention and care. I love you because you completed my soul in ways no one ever has. I love you because your selfless love has inspired a trust that you will never leave me alone and never let tears wet my eyes. I love you because your love has fulfilled all my emotional and soulful needs and completed me… you have become my best friend and my soulmate. You are the one who knows me better than anyone in this universe and whose love has made me feel like the most beautiful woman on the planet... I love you because you are my everything… my universe… and everything my soul needs lies in your two loving arms.
