SHE DESERVES YOUR TIME AND ATTENTION

Whenever she asks for your time and attention and whenever she fights with you for not spending enough time with her it’s not because she’s bored and has nothing else to do – it is simply because YOU are the most important person in her world and she’s fighting to ensure she’s your number one priority as you are for her. She will give up anything and everything just to be with you… to spend time with you… she will put all her work and responsibilities aside… BUT that doesn’t make her weak-willed… just the opposite! It’s her love for you that is her strongest drive… Once she has given you top priority in her life, nothing else matters to her… but if you think you can keep ignoring her and keep giving most of your time to something other than the relationship you are wrong. She will fight for what is rightfully hers – your time and attention – but only for a while…. A woman can only be patient for so long when it comes to asking for what she rightfully deserves… especially when she has made you her life… when she has loved you deeply and truly… If she loves you that way, then she deserves all of you… everything you have to give! When you ignore her, you are depriving her of her rights… and now you find her fights and arguments irritating… but a day will come when she’s had enough of it and will stop coming to you… a day when she will not be there when you need her… when she won’t ask for your time and attention anymore. When that day comes you may believe she is egotistical or arrogant but that is simply her self-respect that has made her strong. She may still love you but she will not ask you for anything anymore… she has run out of patience and if you’re lucky she may wait for you to come back because she knows if you really belong to her you will never leave her… But if not, no amount of effort can stop her leaving… she now wants to give destiny a chance to decide her fate…. So if you really love her and want her forever….LOVE HER AND GIVE HER EVERYTHING SHE DESERVES!!!.

MAKING TIME FOR THOSE YOU LOVE

Whenever you free yourself from your busy schedule to spend time with someone, you’re giving them a part of your life and that is a part that you will never get back. Whilst making time to spend with those we care for is our choice – if that person doesn’t appreciate your effort and takes you for granted then your efforts are going to the wrong person….. Life is valuable…. Time is something you should only give to someone who values you and respects your efforts… Someone who waits for you… who spares himself from everything just to be with you….!

YOU NEVER MAKE TIME FOR ME

Why do you think it’s so unreasonable for me to ask for more time and attention from you when I give you all my time and attention!? My every thought starts with you and ends only on YOU. If at any time you need me – no matter how far away or busy I am – I always drop everything for you. I never keep you waiting or let you feel unwanted… But how do you return my love? You are always busy whenever I need you… You only ever talk of dreams and plans that have nothing to do with us as a couple… You never seem to care if I’m around or not and you certainly never care if I need you or not… not unless YOU want something from me… But what if I need to talk to you or want to share my dreams and goals for our future with you? Or what if I simply just want to spend time with you?… I have to ask you, wait for you for hours… Why do I always have to manage my schedule around you? I have feelings and needs too you know… and yes, there are going to be times I need you when you’re ‘not in the mood’ to talk but relationships are about compromise! Did it ever occur to you that sometimes I become so insecure and so afraid of my loneliness….. and I just want you with me… nothing less nothing more…

THE SIGNS YOU ARE LOSING HER

You know a woman is over you when neither your presence nor your absence makes any difference to her anymore… When she stops caring about what you feel and what you do and when she starts giving you more and more space… When she doesn’t care about who you talk and for how long… When she stops arguing over things that mattered to her before… When she prefers going out with her friends than spending time with you… When her once long text messages are reduced to single emoticon or one-word replies… When she doesn’t get jealous of other women in your life and shows little interest in anything you say… that’s when you know you’re losing her… because when a woman loves – she loves wholeheartedly… but she can’t take being ignored for long. She may try to win your affections for a while – but she will not beg you to love her back… She will give her 100% to her relationship but only until her patience runs out… A woman can wait for the man she loves indefinitely – but only if she knows she has his affections… she can’t take being ignored for long… Once she feels it she will start backing herself off. So unless you move forward a step and bring her close, she may be gone forever… And once she is gone… you won’t ever get her back…..!!

THE GIFT OF LOVE

The best gift a woman can have is a man who understands her feelings… Someone who listens to her patiently without getting angry and frustrated… A person she feels safe expressing herself without being judged and someone who inspires her to be the best version of herself… That’s the man she can love hard… whom she can give all her dedication and admiration… A woman, when heard and understood by her man, will gift him with all the love and encouragement he ever needs…

A NEW YEAR HAS BEGUN.

The new year is a time to make new resolutions and new promises… Whilst I celebrated New Year’s Eve I thought back on the year that had gone by and all I saw was pain, heartache, and tears… Every person I have ever trusted and loved had either left me alone when I needed them or left me for someone else. Everything I have loved was taken from me… I’m not saying there weren’t any happy moments but the ones that flashed before my eyes were moments of pain and hurt. But now that the year has ended and a new one has begun I want to promise myself to be strong and happy… I want to promise myself to not to trust people so blindly but more importantly – learn to trust my intuition… Because when my heart says something is wrong it definitely is!……. This year, I will give more importance to my dreams and will work hard on them… I promise myself to stop crying for people who don’t value me but instead – become strong enough to keep them out of my life… This new morning has come with a new sun so much brighter and stronger that it takes over the sky… I will let it lighten up every nook and corner of my heart… I want my life to be full of love, erasing all the hatred I have for anyone… This is my wish for the coming year… I WISH THAT ALL THE PAIN, HATRED AND TEARS WOULD LEAVE THIS BEAUTIFUL PLANET AND A NEW WORLD FULL OF LOVE, LAUGHTER AND JOY WOULD ARISE…

THE ONE FOR YOU

We meet so many people during the course of our life… some of them we even fall in love with. Some people we love because of their looks… some we love the way they speak… and others carry themselves so beautifully we cannot help but adore them… But during the course of your life you will meet someone whose everything takes your breath away… whose looks will mesmerize you… whose voice you will want to listen for hours… Someone you will simply adore without any reason at all… You will want nothing else but to spend hours with them simply to be in their presence… This person is the one that will win your heart… This is the one you will fall in love with… the one that your heart truly wants to be with… This is the one you will never find any flaws or imperfections with simply because you love everything about them… They are the one that’s meant for you…