Love Me The Way I Love You

I love you, but that doesn't give you the right to control me. Always remember that it is my choice to make you my number one priority. It doesn't mean I have nothing else in my life, it simply means you are more important to me than anything else. It's my love for you that gives you such importance and for that reason you cannot take it for granted. I want you to love me, cherish me and treasure me in return as I do you. I want you to respect my feelings and be appreciative of the time I give you by pushing aside other priorities in my life. I want you to value the love I have for you… because if you take it for granted and don’t reciprocate my feelings towards you, they will dissolve and I will no longer love you the way that I do. Don't try to control me forcefully as that will never keep me… but love me in return in the same way that I love you and there will never be an end to it.

DON’T LOSE THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE

Relationships come to an end when we stop putting any effort into them. All too often we start taking our partners for granted, thinking they will never leave us or will never stop loving us. We continue to take them for granted... we ignore them, leave them alone for long periods or don't call and message them as often. Sometimes we leave them alone on their own and get busy with other priorities so much that at times we completely forget about them altogether. Worst of all – we’re not there when they need us they may just think that because our priorities towards them have changed, our feelings have too. It’s easy to forget that love always needs attention and care. You can't take your love for granted and expect them to be with you when you need them... no one waits around forever - everyone gets tired of waiting eventually. If you maintain the same effort into maintaining your relationship as you did to win them in the first place, there will never be an end to a loving relationship. Never change your priorities and make your love feel they are no longer important to you.

I WANT SOMEONE TO RELY ON”

I am strong enough to handle pain… I can face life’s storms alone. But that doesn't mean I can be strong all the time... At the end of the day, I want someone to hug me and kiss my forehead to make me feel like everything will be alright. I want someone to hold my hands and make me believe in myself when doubts surround me. I want someone to love me and take care of me without asking for anything in return. I don’t want a man to choose me for my looks or my body. I want someone who will look beyond my appearance… someone who can see my soul and can heal me… someone whose touch calms the storms inside my beating heart. I want someone to shower his love on the desert that is my soul and turn it into an ocean of love... I want someone whose arms comfort me on dark stormy nights and protect me from the thundering sounds of lightning that shatter me. I want someone who will wipe my tears without looking for their origin… I want someone to love my soul, even with the fears and loneliness that haunt me. I want someone who I can turn to without f

ear of being judged or questioned.

YOU HAVE THE POWER

No, you are not weak… don’t ever think yourself less than anyone else on this earth. You are the power. You don’t need any man’s shoulder to lean on or anyone’s arms to hold you. You have the strength within you to stand again after being broken… don’t give up just because there’s no one there to help you. You don’t need anyone’s approval to do what you want with your life… you have a mind of your own and you are your own master, so don’t let others take your willpower away from you. You have the power and the strength within that enables you to face every storm that comes your way. You are strong enough to wipe your tears alone and then come up stronger than you were before. God may have made your heart sensitive but He has also made your spirit strong enough to turn this world upside down if you only believe in yourself. You are a woman – a creator. Don’t let others decide for you… strengthen your spirit and your heart and you can achieve anything… YOU have the power…Neena Gupta

I’VE MOVED ON

It saddens me that it is only now that I’ve finally up and gone that you’ve realized just how much I really loved you and just how much I did to make you happy. Why is it that you waited until I was over you and had moved on to finally realize what you lost? I wish you’d done something to change our fate when I still loved you… but it’s too late now. I’m happy with my life and I’m happy within myself. I let you go a long time ago when I thought you’d let me go… I’m sorry you changed your mind – but you’re too late… I’ve moved on. Neena Gupta

I’LL NEVER FORGET YOU

Please know that I will always love you in a way and I’m wishing only good things for you. We didn’t work out as a couple but I hope we can consider ourselves friends forever. You will always be a special person who taught me valuable lessons about life and love. I’ll never regret the time we had together and I hope you never will either. I learned from you what I do and don’t want out of a relationship and I think we both did a lot of growing up whilst we were together – it’s just that we grew in different directions. Thank you for being a part of my life and for loving me… I will never forget you.

 Neena Gupta.

ALL SHE WANTS IS TRUE LOVE

When a woman is loved, trusted and respected, she becomes the woman she was meant to be… more beautiful, more lovable, more committed and more dedicated. But if you hurt her or don’t value her or if you take her for granted and treat her like an object and not a human being, she will never think twice about moving on. She has the softest heart and when she loves, she loves with utter dedication and conviction and never leaves any stone unturned to make her man happy. All she ever needs in her life is a man who understands her, respects her virtues and respects her as a person. She never asks for money or power but a heart full of love and purity… She never asks her man to stay with her 24/7, but simply ask he be with her whenever she is upset or sad. She doesn’t want him to pamper her all the time, but she does want him to show his love a little every day… be it putting his arms around her while she cooks the meal, or taking her for long drives or just surprising her once in a while. A woman never desires a prince charming but a real and honest man with a heart full of love for her, who always stands with her through thick and thin. She wants someone who will fight for her and never leaves her alone.

~~~Neena Gupta