BE SOMEONE’S REASON TO SMILE
Anyone can be the reason for someone else’s pain and heartaches… but a truly loving person is one who can heal a broken heart… someone who can take a broken person and make them whole again… A loving person is the one wipes away tears and teaches someone to smile again… Every day you have a choice as to which person you want to be in someone’s life… Choose to be a loving person… be that person in someone else’s life…
My views on life, love, women, relationships and so many things that we go through in life..I hope somewhere you all relate to my views and get insights on life and love.
Tuesday, January 31, 2017
LETTING GO OF THE PAST
LETTING GO OF THE PAST
The person we are today is a result of everything that’s happened to us in our past. Everything we’ve ever been through makes us the person we are today… Our childhood memories play an important part in shaping both our lives and our personalities… So much of that time was spent obeying our elders and doing things their way, with our own choices and desires put aside whilst keeping our hurt inside. But sometimes that hurt and frustration gathered from years of doing things we didn’t want to do can make us a rude and a negative person if we’re not careful… Sometimes we can become so pessimistic that we don’t even try to see good things around us anymore. Worse still – sometimes we shout at those we love, letting out all that collected anger that really wasn’t meant for them. We forget just how harmful those feelings can be to our friends and family, and that all that negativity just might push away the people who wanted to be close to us if we do not change our ways. The people in our lives need love and encouragement, and we should be strong enough to give it to them – even if it’s something we never grew up with. Every person has two choices in life… to give out love and positivity regardless of whether you received it or not… or to give back only the negative you received and end up alone. I believe that if we give only love and happiness and do everything in our power to make others happy, it will be returned to us. If we accept our bad memories are in our past, and not punish the people in our present for them we can move forward and make our future a better place to live with people we love…!!
The person we are today is a result of everything that’s happened to us in our past. Everything we’ve ever been through makes us the person we are today… Our childhood memories play an important part in shaping both our lives and our personalities… So much of that time was spent obeying our elders and doing things their way, with our own choices and desires put aside whilst keeping our hurt inside. But sometimes that hurt and frustration gathered from years of doing things we didn’t want to do can make us a rude and a negative person if we’re not careful… Sometimes we can become so pessimistic that we don’t even try to see good things around us anymore. Worse still – sometimes we shout at those we love, letting out all that collected anger that really wasn’t meant for them. We forget just how harmful those feelings can be to our friends and family, and that all that negativity just might push away the people who wanted to be close to us if we do not change our ways. The people in our lives need love and encouragement, and we should be strong enough to give it to them – even if it’s something we never grew up with. Every person has two choices in life… to give out love and positivity regardless of whether you received it or not… or to give back only the negative you received and end up alone. I believe that if we give only love and happiness and do everything in our power to make others happy, it will be returned to us. If we accept our bad memories are in our past, and not punish the people in our present for them we can move forward and make our future a better place to live with people we love…!!
Friday, January 27, 2017
RESPECT A WOMAN’S STRENGTH
RESPECT A WOMAN’S STRENGTH
If a woman asks something of her man it’s because she wants to make him feel important – not because she can’t do things on her own. A modern woman is strong enough to run a business and her home efficiently… She can manage her employees and her family without any help from anyone else. She is independent and strong… but when it comes to her relationship… she becomes demure for her man because wants him to feel special and involve him in everything to show him how much she values his strength. Even while considering things for herself, she’ll still involve him in the decision making process because it is an equal partnership… not a dictatorship. But the same rule goes both ways – so don’t think you can rule her or decide things for her. Remember that love is a place where give and take happens… it is a place where both people’s opinions are respected… When you respect the woman you love, she will respect you in return and love you a million times over when loved truly and wholeheartedly… But no woman wants to be controlled or bullied by a man and unfortunately men sometimes forget that… So be mindful of her strength and respect it and she will respect and adore you in return…
If a woman asks something of her man it’s because she wants to make him feel important – not because she can’t do things on her own. A modern woman is strong enough to run a business and her home efficiently… She can manage her employees and her family without any help from anyone else. She is independent and strong… but when it comes to her relationship… she becomes demure for her man because wants him to feel special and involve him in everything to show him how much she values his strength. Even while considering things for herself, she’ll still involve him in the decision making process because it is an equal partnership… not a dictatorship. But the same rule goes both ways – so don’t think you can rule her or decide things for her. Remember that love is a place where give and take happens… it is a place where both people’s opinions are respected… When you respect the woman you love, she will respect you in return and love you a million times over when loved truly and wholeheartedly… But no woman wants to be controlled or bullied by a man and unfortunately men sometimes forget that… So be mindful of her strength and respect it and she will respect and adore you in return…
YOU ARE MY EVERYTHING
YOU ARE MY EVERYTHING
Honey… you mean more to me than you will ever know. I know that you know I love you but I just wish you understood just how much I think of you…. I wish you knew how I want to spend every waking moment in your arms, feeling your heart beating next to mine… I want to see your face every morning before the sun rays wish me good morning… I want everything I do to be something that is just for you… Thoughts of you have taken over my mind so much that nothing else ever comes near it… My heart longs for your touch and your embrace every moment of the day and my soul aches to be reunited with yours every night… I see you with my eyes closed and keep you safely tucked away in my heart… I love you so much that I feel jealous of everything that touches you, every person you talk to… Even when you get busy with work, I feel jealous and irritated and want to fight for your time and attention. It’s my obsession and my possessiveness that makes me miss you so much, even when I know you are only mine… your heart only knows me and loves me only. But I can’t help that my love for you that makes me so jealous… You are my heart and soul, without you I am nothing… Your love is my life and my every breath is for you because you are everything to me honey… You are my addiction and my obsession … You are my everything…
Honey… you mean more to me than you will ever know. I know that you know I love you but I just wish you understood just how much I think of you…. I wish you knew how I want to spend every waking moment in your arms, feeling your heart beating next to mine… I want to see your face every morning before the sun rays wish me good morning… I want everything I do to be something that is just for you… Thoughts of you have taken over my mind so much that nothing else ever comes near it… My heart longs for your touch and your embrace every moment of the day and my soul aches to be reunited with yours every night… I see you with my eyes closed and keep you safely tucked away in my heart… I love you so much that I feel jealous of everything that touches you, every person you talk to… Even when you get busy with work, I feel jealous and irritated and want to fight for your time and attention. It’s my obsession and my possessiveness that makes me miss you so much, even when I know you are only mine… your heart only knows me and loves me only. But I can’t help that my love for you that makes me so jealous… You are my heart and soul, without you I am nothing… Your love is my life and my every breath is for you because you are everything to me honey… You are my addiction and my obsession … You are my everything…
Monday, January 23, 2017
I JUST WANT TO HOLD YOU FOREVER
I JUST WANT TO HOLD YOU FOREVER
I love those nights when I lie blissfully awake in the knowledge that YOU are sleeping next to me… when I hug you tightly as you sleep with your arms around me. I can feel your heart beating with in time with mine… Every beat of your heart seems to call my name… I hold you tight as you sleep and silently wish for a never ending night so that I can keep lying in your arms for eternity… Some days all I want to do is talk to you endlessly… just about anything and everything that I’m thinking and feeling… Some days I would wish nothing more than for you to sit before me so that I may keep adoring you… My love for you is growing with every passing day… I even miss you more and more whenever you are away from me… I want to see you as often as I can and want nothing but just you and me together. We don’t even have to be out somewhere fancy – just home together enjoying each other’s company is enough for me…. All I want is to spend my life in your arms, holding you tightly for eternity…
I love those nights when I lie blissfully awake in the knowledge that YOU are sleeping next to me… when I hug you tightly as you sleep with your arms around me. I can feel your heart beating with in time with mine… Every beat of your heart seems to call my name… I hold you tight as you sleep and silently wish for a never ending night so that I can keep lying in your arms for eternity… Some days all I want to do is talk to you endlessly… just about anything and everything that I’m thinking and feeling… Some days I would wish nothing more than for you to sit before me so that I may keep adoring you… My love for you is growing with every passing day… I even miss you more and more whenever you are away from me… I want to see you as often as I can and want nothing but just you and me together. We don’t even have to be out somewhere fancy – just home together enjoying each other’s company is enough for me…. All I want is to spend my life in your arms, holding you tightly for eternity…
NEVER IGNORE A WOMAN’S LOVE
NEVER IGNORE A WOMAN’S LOVE
If all she wants is your time and undivided attention it is simply because she gives you more importance in her life than everything else… When she cries for you and becomes emotional it is simply because she misses you… When she fights with you for your time and attention and wants to spend every minute with you, it’s because she has made you her life… All her love and energy is focused solely on you and she doesn’t want anything else to come between you… When she interrupts you while talking, it’s because she wants you listen to her… BUT… IF you keep ignoring her, then all you are doing is teaching her to live without you… When a woman loves a man wholeheartedly she gives him all her time and attention… She makes him her world and does everything to keep him happy… But when her love and attention go unnoticed or are not reciprocated… when her efforts to make him love her back go in vain… when her cries of loneliness go unheard… and when one day her last tear has fallen…. she begins to close her heart. She stops stressing over things and stops arguing….. she moves on. That is the day she has finally learned to live without him and made a new world for herself… A place where she doesn’t need anyone to make her happy… and that is the day you will realize what you’ve lost….
If all she wants is your time and undivided attention it is simply because she gives you more importance in her life than everything else… When she cries for you and becomes emotional it is simply because she misses you… When she fights with you for your time and attention and wants to spend every minute with you, it’s because she has made you her life… All her love and energy is focused solely on you and she doesn’t want anything else to come between you… When she interrupts you while talking, it’s because she wants you listen to her… BUT… IF you keep ignoring her, then all you are doing is teaching her to live without you… When a woman loves a man wholeheartedly she gives him all her time and attention… She makes him her world and does everything to keep him happy… But when her love and attention go unnoticed or are not reciprocated… when her efforts to make him love her back go in vain… when her cries of loneliness go unheard… and when one day her last tear has fallen…. she begins to close her heart. She stops stressing over things and stops arguing….. she moves on. That is the day she has finally learned to live without him and made a new world for herself… A place where she doesn’t need anyone to make her happy… and that is the day you will realize what you’ve lost….
Wednesday, January 18, 2017
IT’S NOW OR NEVER
IT’S NOW OR NEVER
YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN LOVE MAY LEAVE YOU… It’s so easy to forget that every living soul has a fixed time on this earth… We get so busy with our day to day routine that we often ignore our loved ones for far too long without realizing. We never stop to think that they may leave us one day – not by choice but by fate. We never realize that each and every moment may be the last we ever spend with them… and when it does happen we will feel sad, and regret all the time we spent busy on other things and ignoring what truly mattered most. It’s human nature… we take things for granted and never make the effort to free up our time to spend it with the people who really matter to us. It’s not until they’ve left us that we begin to recall the good times we had and all the love we shared… Only then do we feel regret at not having made more memories. So don’t be left with nothing but regrets… remember what matters most… Make the time to see the people you love most because you never know when will be their last day with you. Go to them… love them… spend as much time with them as you can so you never have regrets if you should lose them… Once people leave this world, they never come back and we will never see them again… There isn’t always a ‘next time’ a ‘soon’ or a ‘later’…. it’s now or never…
YOU NEVER KNOW WHEN LOVE MAY LEAVE YOU… It’s so easy to forget that every living soul has a fixed time on this earth… We get so busy with our day to day routine that we often ignore our loved ones for far too long without realizing. We never stop to think that they may leave us one day – not by choice but by fate. We never realize that each and every moment may be the last we ever spend with them… and when it does happen we will feel sad, and regret all the time we spent busy on other things and ignoring what truly mattered most. It’s human nature… we take things for granted and never make the effort to free up our time to spend it with the people who really matter to us. It’s not until they’ve left us that we begin to recall the good times we had and all the love we shared… Only then do we feel regret at not having made more memories. So don’t be left with nothing but regrets… remember what matters most… Make the time to see the people you love most because you never know when will be their last day with you. Go to them… love them… spend as much time with them as you can so you never have regrets if you should lose them… Once people leave this world, they never come back and we will never see them again… There isn’t always a ‘next time’ a ‘soon’ or a ‘later’…. it’s now or never…
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